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I've recently encountered a problem. I met a man the other night at a club. We started talking & realized we'd graduated from the same school, just within a few years of each other. We proceeded to talk & he asked me for my number, which I gave him. By the end of our conversation, he admitted to me that he's married.

Now, my problem is that he keeps calling me. After 3 unanswered calls the other night, I finally answered the fourth call. I left him know that I don't go out with married men. He told me he had heard several songs that reminded him of me. He also said he wore the fleece that he'd let me wear (it was cold) all weekend! He told me he'd give it all up for another conversation like we had the other night.

I told him again, "You're married. Nothing's going to happen here." Then he asked me how I'd feel if he wasn't. I told him that it doesn't matter because he is & that's it. I told him he should work on his marriage.

He's tried calling me several times since then & I just haven't answered. Should I just keep not answering or once again try to put my point across to him?

I'd ask for his wife's cell phone number. I doubt you'll get another call. JMO

Just tell him if he doesn't stop phoning you, you'll have a
quick word with his wife.

That should do the trick

That's a brilliant strategy.

Sadly, it's not very good commentary for our gender, and clearly, someone of this caliber is not worth your time...

Dont enter into any conversation with him as this will let him think that perhaps he can change your mind.

You took the words right off my keyboard there Indy.

It's great soaring with the eagles

i personally think you should put yourself first and leave his calls unanswered......What if you were his wife, would you like to know he was trying to contact another woman....dont get dragged down to his level as he has no respect for his wife, himself or you, to be doing this.....if his marriage is over that is his problem not yours....You deserve better or if not be on your own with just your problems and not his..... i hope you can understand me but i feel that men like him suck women in and then when it blows up in his face....its the other woman's fault.....

My granny always said "There would be no dirty men if there was no dirty women" ......

Take care and i hope you find an answer in this thread....

If you and Steve Miller say so, maybe your right.

hahah yeah that might be worth ago.

Bottom line is he is married.. and all that is going to come of this is hurt..

For one some or all of you if it went any further.

So best to quit while you are ahead regardless of him saying he thinks this and that of you...

HE shouldn't be doing this.

Good luck

ahahaha

Luckily, I'm actually not even attracted to him. I just enjoyed our conversation. That makes it very easy for me to ignore his calls. I would've thought by this time he'd have given up though.

And very well said Nuala

hahaha.. Phew! well there's a plus right there.

Yeah, time wasn't very kind to him.... I do remember him being cute in school.

Well hell.......they say that about me.

Just screw his brains out and I bet he will stop calling after that..

For real, just ignore him...he'll go away eventually....

hahah.. I remember someone who was gorrrrgeous in school..

I saw him a few years ago.. and Holy COW!

the years had not been good to him either.

You could tell him once your herpes outbreak goes down, you'd love to take him for a roll in the hay.

hahahah!