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Insincerity is the mother of invention!

...or something like that!

Hi Audry

Humm, yes, I can see where you are coming from.

I have been described as tough, which I am not, too hard, which I am not, too set in my ways, which I have a very open mind.

So, if I became a needy, co-dependant, emotional wreck, I may get somewhere?

If it does work for you, please do let me know!

Anyone who says you are TOO anything has problems, and you are not the problem. They are the problem!

Exactly....right on the money.

..oh, and btw, thanks for those terrific photos of you, with Claudia Schiffer's body photoshopped onto your head.....very sexy.

....when can we cam??....

You are too harsh Ginger!

I will, although, they may be in for a shock!

I read so many people who state that they have been screwed by women, and read that women have been screwed by men.

My requirements are simple.

1. I need no cash, I earn my own.

2. I do not need a father for my children, they have one.

3. I do not need a ticket, if I like you, I can buy my own.

4. I am not looking for a place to live, I have one in two countries.

So looking at that logically and doing some reverse psychology,

1. I do not care what you earn.

2. I love children and if you have some, great.

3. If you live overseas and we hit it off, great, I will visit or you are more than welcome to visit me.

4. I have a great terrace, so if I dislike you, you sleep out there for the evening!



It is dead simple.

I have had the same things said in the past. There isn't anything wrong with any of us.

Men who tell women things like that are insecure or jealous of a woman's success or still stuck in a role where they are miffed because they are not going to be seen as the strong part of a relationship.

Strength is inside. It is the core in us that allows other people to be themselves. It is not some controlling ego trip where people have to role play from the 1940s.

Remember if they are rejecting good women then they obviously don't have a clue about making themselves happy, never mind us. We are a lot better off without people like that. Life is hard enough.

Absolutely, so bye bye gentlemen...

Raise my glass to that!

Oh and another one, I do not need a person to make me happy, nobody can make me anything, apart from dinner.

I am happy.

A minor oversight I'm sure, but you seemed to have missed one last item on your first list...

5. I do not need a man, I already have one.


nicht wahr??....

aww it always does Pay to be honest..

I have found a great man and he is to the fullest in being honest..

And yeh sometimes i say to him sometimes can you not be so honest

But i would only want honesty and nothing else

depends on what you consider to be a successful 'payoff'

not sure you'd like the payoff from dishonesty

How do you figure that? I'm a sweet gentle old lady.

I'll put it another way then. I someone says you are too something, then they are finding fault. You don't fit their obviously narrow standards for what is in their mind.

Who wants a narrow minded nit-picker?

Ah but I do not!

under the moon and stars .... so romantic ,even when you dont like someone

I'm assuming breakfast is still on

Real men see and appreciate the strengths in a strong woman.

Oh I am, I would always make sure my guests are comfortable.

Well I do know crap doesn't pay very good!!!!!!!!!!!