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Lionhearted1967: That is exactly what I am saying!.. That is the way it is.. If it is real it falls into place and your "both" hellbound to make it work.Great post!

nomindgames: I just woke up after 1:45 mins. sleep,so bear with me.I am honest with me,I live with me,have too.I shoot from the hip in most scnarios truth,but if it is really going to hurt someone and not accomplish anything,I keep quiet.Hill,wondered,thought you left been awhile girl for you.

Sommerauer71: I am honest with myself, therefore I find it easier to be honest with others.

But, in this game, there are times when I will be honest, with one liners, such as 'Go away I am not interested' and then the ones where I say 'Yes' and not really be interested in responding very much to emails simply because I think that if I sound uninterested then they will go away.

There is a difference between being honest and causing chaos and withholding information for protection.

Lionhearted1967: silence can speak volumes.

RillyNiceGuy: I'm so honest that I caught myself taking change out of my right pocket and putting it in my left pocket and I made myself put it back.

Sommerauer71: It can.

I used to remain silent when my ex partner would scream and shout at me, just wait until he got it out of his system.

Then he would say, 'Are you not going to say anything'

I would say, nope, not a word.

Then I would calmy walk away until he had calmed down.

Then he would accuse me of lying, because I was not saying anything.

I would say simply, I cannot hear you when you are shouting at me.

tunnelwary: and I'm a scizophrenic narcisist (and horrible speller) with a propensity for "bad boys".

Once after yankin my chain, I didn't call myself back for a week........and even THEN I was drunk.

Lionhearted1967: boys?

tunnelwary: "Narcissist"

nomindgames: I just woke up after 1:45 mins. sleep,so bear with me.I am honest with me,I live with me,have too.I shoot from the hip in most scnarios truth,but if it is really going to hurt someone and not accomplish anything,I keep quiet.Hill,wondered,thought you left been awhile girl for you.

lola36: I am very ,very honest.....do you believe me??? I don't think so

That is a good question to ask my friends and family ..

HJFinAZ: I do....... Why ask others?

When we lie, "WE" have to live with it..

Serenity1971: We all talk about wanting honesty in our profiles and our lives, but really and truly how honest are you with yourself as well as others!?!

"To thine own self be true"

In talking with a near and dear friend tonight, we had kind of a chuckle for ourselves and some gut honesty came out of me that I never expected.

I was talking about my comfortable little apartment and how if I were to get involved and someone were to move in with me...You know what...There's no space in my closet for "his" clothing and I'm not really sure I'd be willing to give up my closet space.

Hmmmmm a little selfish? Maybe....But maybe it's more the fact that I'm content with just me right now at this moment. Maybe I'm not willing to put the effort into a relationship right now because I want to focus on me and get my life on the right track. I know that right now I'm right where I'm supposed to be right here right now at this moment.

Does anyone else have the same gut honesty? Can you admit it?