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FlowerOfTheSun Malaga, Andalucia Spain
thehearld: lets see, the difference between being lonely and alone? have you ever just found out that no matter what you do you are still single? no matter how hard you try or how many dates you go on, its still ends up the same, u on ur own? even though you have lots of good solid friends you just feel like you have nobody u think u can confide in. no person to share ur time with to experience the joy in life , the every day things that make you what you are who u want to be. you wonder "why? why cant i get that someone for me?" all ur friends are either married or living with people, u know they are there for u if u told them how u feel but u just dont or cant share ur inner most feelings about ur desire to have someone to share ur life , space , heart with.


You sound lonely AND alone hug

I have experienced loneliness at times in the past ... when I was alone I found it less soul destroying than when I was NOT alone!!!

There is something soooooooooooooo very deeply sad about feeling lonely when one is in a room full of people/friends or a house full of family ... teddybear
StressFree small city, Kalmar Sweden
Being honest with yourself is the best way to go...thumbs up
HJFinAZ Sun CIty, Arizona USA
StressFree: Being honest with yourself is the best way to go...


Yet so many can't be..sigh



alabamabebe Banks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA
thehearld: u just dont or cant share ur inner most feelings about ur desire to have someone to share ur life , space , heart with.
When you're ready, you will. Till then, learn to enjoy yourself, you'll have more to offer another person. Be honest with yourself, it makes it easier to open up to someone else. Bottom line, you will find love when you are ready. hug



WhatUwish4 Jacksonville, Florida USA
It's hard to be totally honest because I'm a bit of a "work in progress." For that reason, I try really hard not to define myself, or my situation and interests. What's true today will probably not be true tomorrow...
uh oh uh oh uh oh
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somechick Cincinnati Ohio, Ohio USA
I've been told I'm way to honest but I do tell little white lies if it means I'm going to hurt someone feelings.



honestfred Swindon, Wiltshire, England UK
well im honestfred
lanabyte Charleston, West Virginia USA
thehearld: lets see, the difference between being lonely and alone? have you ever just found out that no matter what you do you are still single? no matter how hard you try or how many dates you go on, its still ends up the same, u on ur own? even though you have lots of good solid friends you just feel like you have nobody u think u can confide in. no person to share ur time with to experience the joy in life , the every day things that make you what you are who u want to be. you wonder "why? why cant i get that someone for me?" all ur friends are either married or living with people, u know they are there for u if u told them how u feel but u just dont or cant share ur inner most feelings about ur desire to have someone to share ur life , space , heart with.


The difference between alone and lonely is that you can still be lonely in a room full of people. I've decided not to fret over being single and use this time to make myself the best person I can be - not for anyone else, but for ME. I also consider myself a work in progress. I used to be overweight and unhappy. So I decided to take charge and have lost 30 lbs so far and my attitude has done a 360, and I haven't been this happy in years. So I say, take this opportunity to improve yourself (for you, not in the hopes of getting someone). You can't feel lonely if you're busy doing other things. hug
Hugz_n_Kissez Someplace, Ontario Canada
Serenity1971: We all talk about wanting honesty in our profiles and our lives, but really and truly how honest are you with yourself as well as others!?!

"To thine own self be true"

In talking with a near and dear friend tonight, we had kind of a chuckle for ourselves and some gut honesty came out of me that I never expected.

I was talking about my comfortable little apartment and how if I were to get involved and someone were to move in with me...You know what...There's no space in my closet for "his" clothing and I'm not really sure I'd be willing to give up my closet space.

Hmmmmm a little selfish? Maybe....But maybe it's more the fact that I'm content with just me right now at this moment. Maybe I'm not willing to put the effort into a relationship right now because I want to focus on me and get my life on the right track. I know that right now I'm right where I'm supposed to be right here right now at this moment.

Does anyone else have the same gut honesty? Can you admit it?





HMMMMMMM....Get your own t.v. cause you're not watching sports on mine kinda honest!!!!!!!!



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kkitty4u St Paul, Minnesota USA
pointing big liar

































when I dont tell the truthwink
Claayer Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Serenity1971: We all talk about wanting honesty in our profiles and our lives, but really and truly how honest are you with yourself as well as others!?!

"To thine own self be true"

In talking with a near and dear friend tonight, we had kind of a chuckle for ourselves and some gut honesty came out of me that I never expected.

I was talking about my comfortable little apartment and how if I were to get involved and someone were to move in with me...You know what...There's no space in my closet for "his" clothing and I'm not really sure I'd be willing to give up my closet space.

Hmmmmm a little selfish? Maybe....But maybe it's more the fact that I'm content with just me right now at this moment. Maybe I'm not willing to put the effort into a relationship right now because I want to focus on me and get my life on the right track. I know that right now I'm right where I'm supposed to be right here right now at this moment.

Does anyone else have the same gut honesty? Can you admit it?


haha yeah... I don't reeeeeally want to share my life with anyone..

Outside of my home.. yeah..

When it suits me.. Yeah..

but the full on stuff.. no.. probably not.

I'm aiming for 'Dating' .... and see what happens from there.


Helloo Cris teddybear
Claayer Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Hugz_n_Kissez: HMMMMMMM....Get your own t.v. cause you're not watching sports on mine kinda honest!!!!!!!!

TOO F***IN RIGHT!

Oops.. did I make that clear?...

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Claayer Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
I got sports drummed into me 24/7 for 10+ years..

never again.. thumbs down thumbs down

I canceled that from the cable package when he as half way up the street with his suitcase.. giggle


(hahah!... I wrote sh*tcase.. the first time)..

Freudian typing. doh laugh
Hugz_n_Kissez Someplace, Ontario Canada
Claayer: TOO F***IN RIGHT!

Oops.. did I make that clear?...



I think ya did...maybe we better put that on our profiles in big bold letters!!!!!!!!!!


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Claayer Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
Hugz_n_Kissez: I think ya did...maybe we better put that on our profiles in big bold letters!!!!!!!!!!


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airliner Central, New Jersey USA
Hugz_n_Kissez: HMMMMMMM....Get your own t.v. cause you're not watching sports on mine kinda honest!!!!!!!!


OK....but can I (better yet we) watch other stuff??grin
Hugz_n_Kissez Someplace, Ontario Canada
airliner: OK....but can I (better yet we) watch other stuff??



Of course...as long s there is no sports commentator!!!!!!!!!!



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LovingMassage Central Missouri, Missouri USA
There is a blues song called Everybody wants to go to heaven, but nobody wants to die.

The 2nd verse says

Everybody wants to hear the truth.
Still everybody wants to tell a lie.
I said, everybody wants to hear the truth.
still they all want to tell a lie.

Everybody wants to go to heaven, but nobody wants to die.



It kind of sums it up. I would like to say I am honest, and I really try to be. Sometimes though, I will admit that I am dishonest, especially when I don't see a benefit to honestly - for example, someone asks my opinion....I know if I tell them the truth, it is going to open a big can of worms so I just keep my opinion to myself and say something less inflammatory.



airliner Central, New Jersey USA
kkitty4u: big liar
when I dont tell the truth



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Serenity1971 Serenity's Island, California USA
Claayer: haha yeah... I don't reeeeeally want to share my life with anyone..

Outside of my home.. yeah..

When it suits me.. Yeah..

but the full on stuff.. no.. probably not.

I'm aiming for 'Dating' .... and see what happens from there.

Helloo Cris



Hello beautiful Claayer


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I thought you might enjoy this thread a little too much wink laugh




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