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How Honest Are you?

South Carolina dating
mbcasey
North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA
Posted: Aug 21, 2008, 8:35 PM CST
tunnelwary wrote:
I'm actually a bit proud of following through with promises to myself.

I am absolutely head over heels for someone right now (not on CS), and she is showing me it's mutual. Everything fits. Do you know how "you JUST KNOW"?

At any rate she is a HS teacher of at risk kids in Wichita, KS. Naturally she has a very personal and vested interest in these kids.

I have always said that if there were even the hint of a possibility at having it all (meaning including a "one true love"), there is NOTHING that would stop me from going to the ends of the earth to make it work.

Luckily it's only from CA to KS and I couldn't be more sure, content, and without hesitation. I'm also very proud that I wasn't all talk because there are SO many obstacles that could be reasons (excuses) to stay.

I AM NOT hesitating. I AM being true to myself.

and a little bonus....Going back to school to get Teaching Certificate.


Happy to hear this Joel!!!handshake

I wish you the best my friend!!
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mbcasey
North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA
Posted: Aug 21, 2008, 8:37 PM CST
Open book here.

grin
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Arizona personals
HJFinAZ
Sun (Sin) CIty, Arizona USA
Posted: Aug 21, 2008, 8:39 PM CST
WhatUwish4 wrote:
It's hard to be totally honest because I'm a bit of a "work in progress." For that reason, I try really hard not to define myself, or my situation and interests. What's true today will probably not be true tomorrow...


There are many things about you that are true today and always will be. Some things that you perceive as being true today will change in due time..wink
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Indyfella
indianapolis, Indiana USA
Posted: Aug 21, 2008, 8:40 PM CST
We're all in a "state of becoming".professor
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Arizona personals
HJFinAZ
Sun (Sin) CIty, Arizona USA
Posted: Aug 21, 2008, 8:42 PM CST
Funny thing here.......... NOBODY has mentioned about a mirror..confused

sigh
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Alberta personals
kitty01
Edmonton, Alberta Canada
Posted: Aug 21, 2008, 8:42 PM CST
too honest for my own good
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mrsmiles4444
Colonial Beach, Virginia USA
Posted: Aug 21, 2008, 8:56 PM CST
I find it a bit funny how we all speak on how honest we all are, yet when push comes to shove, the lies come rolling out. Let me ask all of you one question. How old is your pic on your profiles? that, if it is not you NOW! TODAY! is a lie. we all seem to think that we don't change, we remain the same, we look at ourselves then and say, " Yeap! that's me!" but in reality, it is not you. not you today. so yo lie to yourself, and you lie to others. so you've put on a few lbs, and want no one to know until you meet, that's theft by deception.......lol
taking advantage of someones innocence, in believing you and your pic, as in passing a bad check would be.

Now before you all go jumping the gun, let me also add that some do post current pics, and, OH YEAH! age too! But folks, this is cyberspace, and lies flow here like an open faucet. That's been what I have seen more times than not. Lies, lies, and more lies.

Now! as for yours truly, as someone above stated.................I'm an open book.
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somechick
Somewhere,Ohio, Ohio USA
Posted: Aug 21, 2008, 8:59 PM CST
mrsmiles4444 wrote:
I find it a bit funny how we all speak on how honest we all are, yet when push comes to shove, the lies come rolling out. Let me ask all of you one question. How old is your pic on your profiles? that, if it is not you NOW! TODAY! is a lie. we all seem to think that we don't change, we remain the same, we look at ourselves then and say, " Yeap! that's me!" but in reality, it is not you. not you today. so yo lie to yourself, and you lie to others. so you've put on a few lbs, and want no one to know until you meet, that's theft by deception.......lol
taking advantage of someones innocence, in believing you and your pic, as in passing a bad check would be.

Now before you all go jumping the gun, let me also add that some do post current pics, and, OH YEAH! age too! But folks, this is cyberspace, and lies flow here like an open faucet. That's been what I have seen more times than not. Lies, lies, and more lies.

Now! as for yours truly, as someone above stated.................I'm an open book.




I posted a current picture of myself and someone said it was a model.So I posted my old pic intead.
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woody636
Elgin, Illinois USA
Posted: Aug 21, 2008, 9:03 PM CST
somechick wrote:
I posted a current picture of myself and someone said it was a model.So I posted my old pic intead.


Hi kiddo! Don't worry about what other people think. Personally, I thought your new pic was great!thumbs up wave
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mrsmiles4444
Colonial Beach, Virginia USA
Posted: Aug 21, 2008, 9:04 PM CST
somechick wrote:
I posted a current picture of myself and someone said it was a model.So I posted my old pic intead.


Question is.....How old? have you had anyone not recognize you upon meeting? if so, then maybe they were mislead. Don't you think?
is that a little white lie?

because you were told your pic looked like a model, you decided to listen to them, and post an old one instead............. interesting.
things that make you go hhhmmmmmm.

I wonder what pocessed you to do that?
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Missouri personals
mylifewithu
Springfield, Missouri USA
Posted: Aug 21, 2008, 9:06 PM CST
I am a very honest and open about myself, my past, my feelings , everything.
My photos are last year, except one I have up as primary is only a few weeks old.drinking
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Hawaii singles
Dreamer82
Wahiawa, Hawaii USA
Posted: Aug 21, 2008, 9:06 PM CST

I try to be as honest as possible. Although, honesty can cost me friends. It just depends on whether or not they like what they hear.....especially women.dunno I found that its better to be careful.thumbs up
Serenity1971 wrote:
We all talk about wanting honesty in our profiles and our lives, but really and truly how honest are you with yourself as well as others!?!

"To thine own self be true"

In talking with a near and dear friend tonight, we had kind of a chuckle for ourselves and some gut honesty came out of me that I never expected.

I was talking about my comfortable little apartment and how if I were to get involved and someone were to move in with me...You know what...There's no space in my closet for "his" clothing and I'm not really sure I'd be willing to give up my closet space.

Hmmmmm a little selfish? Maybe....But maybe it's more the fact that I'm content with just me right now at this moment. Maybe I'm not willing to put the effort into a relationship right now because I want to focus on me and get my life on the right track. I know that right now I'm right where I'm supposed to be right here right now at this moment.

Does anyone else have the same gut honesty? Can you admit it?
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HJFinAZ
Sun (Sin) CIty, Arizona USA
Posted: Aug 21, 2008, 9:06 PM CST
somechick wrote:
I posted a current picture of myself and someone said it was a model.So I posted my old pic intead.


Stop giving a crap what others say/think.... BTW, I do believe it was a compliment to you and if you look like a model, wear the badge with pride..wink
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Texas singles
jlw45
chandler, Texas USA
Posted: Aug 21, 2008, 9:08 PM CST
Indyfella wrote:
We're all in a "state of becoming".
laugh this and another thread reminds me of a beatles song.....''i me me mine''professor
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HJFinAZ
Sun (Sin) CIty, Arizona USA
Posted: Aug 21, 2008, 9:08 PM CST
"It is my life, I live it, I love it.. Let criticism be damned."grin
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jlw45
chandler, Texas USA
Posted: Aug 21, 2008, 9:10 PM CST
i try to be honest as i can be about myself.....except i forgot to tell everyone im a millionairprofessor laugh conversing
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mrsmiles4444
Colonial Beach, Virginia USA
Posted: Aug 21, 2008, 9:10 PM CST
mylifewithu wrote:
I am a very honest and open about myself, my past, my feelings , everything.
My photos are last year, except one I have up as primary is only a few weeks old.


as mentioned, some are true to who they are, and what they are about. on the other hand, MOST, are not. JMO
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Missouri personals
mylifewithu
Springfield, Missouri USA
Posted: Aug 21, 2008, 9:11 PM CST
mrsmiles4444 wrote:
as mentioned, some are true to who they are, and what they are about. on the other hand, MOST, are not. JMO
I know that's true and I have found that out a few times myselfthumbs up
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mrsmiles4444
Colonial Beach, Virginia USA
Posted: Aug 21, 2008, 9:11 PM CST
jlw45 wrote:
i try to be honest as i can be about myself.....except i forgot to tell everyone im a millionair


withholding information is not telling a lie. It is being smart. rolling on the floor laughing
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HJFinAZ
Sun (Sin) CIty, Arizona USA
Posted: Aug 21, 2008, 9:12 PM CST
If anyone wants to know the truth about me, all they would have to do is ask the crazy woman that posted this thread..rolling on the floor laughing



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