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mrsmiles4444 Colonial Beach, Virginia USA
Thu Aug 21, 2008 9:13 PM CST : How Honest Are you?
mylifewithu: I know that's true and I have found that out a few times myself


day in , day out. it's the norm here in cyberspace. and to think, all of us are looking for something. whether it be love, friends, or anything. to begin with a lie, is not cool in my book, and if you begin with one, how many more will there be?
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mrsmiles4444 Colonial Beach, Virginia USA
Thu Aug 21, 2008 9:14 PM CST : How Honest Are you?
HJFinAZ: If anyone wants to know the truth about me, all they would have to do is ask the crazy woman that posted this thread..


key word there is IF................rolling on the floor laughing
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HJFinAZ Sun CIty, Arizona USA
Thu Aug 21, 2008 9:15 PM CST : How Honest Are you?
mrsmiles4444: key word there is IF................


Nope, it is merely a statement. I really couldn't care less one way or the other..grin
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woody636 Elgin, Illinois USA
Thu Aug 21, 2008 9:15 PM CST : How Honest Are you?
mrsmiles4444: as mentioned, some are true to who they are, and what they are about. on the other hand, MOST, are not. JMO


Don't quite understand that attitude. It will ALWAYS come back and bite you in the A##, so what's the point? Try to always be honest about everything. Not singling you out mrsmiles, just a general observation.cheers
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mrsmiles4444 Colonial Beach, Virginia USA
Thu Aug 21, 2008 9:16 PM CST : How Honest Are you?
HJFinAZ: Nope, it is merely a statement. I really couldn't care less one way or the other..


good attitude. Just take it, or leave it. my sentiments exactly.
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HJFinAZ Sun CIty, Arizona USA
Thu Aug 21, 2008 9:16 PM CST : How Honest Are you?
Besides, "IF" someone asks me, I may lie..devil

Another probably would not lie..grin
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mylifewithu Springfield, Missouri USA
Thu Aug 21, 2008 9:18 PM CST : How Honest Are you?
mrsmiles4444: day in , day out. it's the norm here in cyberspace. and to think, all of us are looking for something. whether it be love, friends, or anything. to begin with a lie, is not cool in my book, and if you begin with one, how many more will there be?
Most that I have dealt with have been honest in facts, but not honest in feelings or any of the other important things of that nature to have a good relationship.
But I have run into some of the other type that you are describing, lies about facts of theirselves.sigh
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mrsmiles4444 Colonial Beach, Virginia USA
Thu Aug 21, 2008 9:20 PM CST : How Honest Are you?
woody636: Don't quite understand that attitude. It will ALWAYS come back and bite you in the A##, so what's the point? Try to always be honest about everything. Not singling you out mrsmiles, just a general observation.


general observation about what? that folks lie? I'm true to EVETYTHING I say, state, discuss, and anything else you'd like to know. no surprises lurking round me. You can bank on that.

I call it like I see it though, and what I see, is a great deal of people, who lie about one thing or another.

Now this is not an attitude..it is a discussion on " how honest are you"
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shipoker55 St. Petersburg, Florida USA
Thu Aug 21, 2008 9:21 PM CST : How Honest Are you?
Funny...because I was recently having the same conversation...but with myself. I won't get too involved with anyone because I have no closet space. And I will not move from my "compound". But, I'm not really looking for a partner
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HJFinAZ Sun CIty, Arizona USA
Thu Aug 21, 2008 9:22 PM CST : How Honest Are you?
woody636: Don't quite understand that attitude. It will ALWAYS come back and bite you in the A##, so what's the point? Try to always be honest about everything. Not singling you out mrsmiles, just a general observation.


"MOTIVES"..... What are the "motives" of another?dunno
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trish123 Lancashire, Lancashire, England UK
Thu Aug 21, 2008 9:22 PM CST : How Honest Are you?
Serenity1971: We all talk about wanting honesty in our profiles and our lives, but really and truly how honest are you with yourself as well as others!?!

"To thine own self be true"

In talking with a near and dear friend tonight, we had kind of a chuckle for ourselves and some gut honesty came out of me that I never expected.

I was talking about my comfortable little apartment and how if I were to get involved and someone were to move in with me...You know what...There's no space in my closet for "his" clothing and I'm not really sure I'd be willing to give up my closet space.

Hmmmmm a little selfish? Maybe....But maybe it's more the fact that I'm content with just me right now at this moment. Maybe I'm not willing to put the effort into a relationship right now because I want to focus on me and get my life on the right track. I know that right now I'm right where I'm supposed to be right here right now at this moment.

Does anyone else have the same gut honesty? Can you admit it?


I reckon that a lot (in fact most) of the stuff that I come out with here on CS doesnt often meet with 'popular opinion' - but 'popular opinion' never did stall me in my tracks teddybear

to mine own self Im very true - and to mine own friends as well hug
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Hugz_n_Kissez Someplace, Ontario Canada
Thu Aug 21, 2008 9:22 PM CST : How Honest Are you?
HJFinAZ: Funny thing here.......... NOBODY has mentioned about a mirror..



I can look myself in the mirror every day and be pleased with who I am...I can also sleep at night...unless I have insomnia...but that's because I have a brain that likes to sort shit out when it should be sleeping!!!!!!!!!!


professor wink roll eyes sleep grin
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mrsmiles4444 Colonial Beach, Virginia USA
Thu Aug 21, 2008 9:22 PM CST : How Honest Are you?
mylifewithu: Most that I have dealt with have been honest in facts, but not honest in feelings or any of the other important things of that nature to have a good relationship.
But I have run into some of the other type that you are describing, lies about facts of theirselves.


those are the lies I speak of. what happens after you begin to date is another issue, or discussion in itself, but if they lie from the profile, you can count on more coming if you begin to date, because you've accepted their initial lie to begin with.
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HJFinAZ Sun CIty, Arizona USA
Thu Aug 21, 2008 9:23 PM CST : How Honest Are you?
mylifewithu: Most that I have dealt with have been honest in facts, but not honest in feelings or any of the other important things of that nature to have a good relationship.
But I have run into some of the other type that you are describing, lies about facts of theirselves.


How do you know they are not honest about their feelings? "feelings" are not right or wrong, they just are...
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woody636 Elgin, Illinois USA
Thu Aug 21, 2008 9:25 PM CST : How Honest Are you?
mrsmiles4444: general observation about what? that folks lie? I'm true to EVETYTHING I say, state, discuss, and anything else you'd like to know. no surprises lurking round me. You can bank on that.

I call it like I see it though, and what I see, is a great deal of people, who lie about one thing or another.

Now this is not an attitude..it is a discussion on " how honest are you"


Like I said, not about you. I don't understand why anyone would want to lie about themselves/their views ect. on this site. Unless they had no intention of ever meeting any of the people their talking to.
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mrsmiles4444 Colonial Beach, Virginia USA
Thu Aug 21, 2008 9:27 PM CST : How Honest Are you?
HJFinAZ: How do you know they are not honest about their feelings? "feelings" are not right or wrong, they just are...


I do believe there are times when the human brain, and THE HEART can sense when someone is out for something other than love or a relationship. maybe a slam dunk in the hay?

people will say and do the darness things to get some bootie.
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Serenity1971 Serenity's Island, California USA
Thu Aug 21, 2008 9:27 PM CST : How Honest Are you?
HJFinAZ: If anyone wants to know the truth about me, all they would have to do is ask the crazy woman that posted this thread..



Yes and I won't hold back anything devil devil devil


rolling on the floor laughing tongue rolling on the floor laughing tongue rolling on the floor laughing
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mylifewithu Springfield, Missouri USA
Thu Aug 21, 2008 9:28 PM CST : How Honest Are you?
mrsmiles4444: those are the lies I speak of. what happens after you begin to date is another issue, or discussion in itself, but if they lie from the profile, you can count on more coming if you begin to date, because you've accepted their initial lie to begin with.
But I am happy to see out right lies in the beginning, cause then I know not to have any thing to do with that person.
The really bad ones are the ones you could date for 5 or 6 months then they relax in the relationship and out comes the truth about them. They are strong liars that you can't see thru, until they let down their guard, those are the ones to be weary of.very mad
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mylifewithu Springfield, Missouri USA
Thu Aug 21, 2008 9:29 PM CST : How Honest Are you?
HJFinAZ: How do you know they are not honest about their feelings? "feelings" are not right or wrong, they just are...
Like in you find out later, they didn't really love you. Or they stopped and didn't even tell you. Or you do things that bother them and couldn't even share that with you. all that stuff
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mrsmiles4444 Colonial Beach, Virginia USA
Thu Aug 21, 2008 9:33 PM CST : How Honest Are you?
woody636: Like I said, not about you. I don't understand why anyone would want to lie about themselves/their views ect. on this site. Unless they had no intention of ever meeting any of the people their talking to.


Great point, yet they do anyway. The only explanation I can give myself, is they simply want a night out on the town, and as one woman told me, who said she was 47, when at the dinner table, admitted to being really 53. her words when asked why she lied were, " I wasn't getting any action" Now go figure. she wanted a night out, and I was the nut who provided it for that evening.

by the way............she looked every minute as a 53 year old woman.

6 years changes everyone. unless you are Dick Clark........rolling on the floor laughing
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