jbibiza: If you have had love in your past but for one reason or another have left the relationship... not mature enough to realize what you have... social pressure that they don´t fit into the norm of who you should be with, having difficulties committing to a relationship, timing... Is there still a chance to meet someone for a long term loving relationship?
In other words... Can you walk out on love once to often?
Mistakes are a learning experience. Having those particular mistakes, you are less likely to make those particular ones again.
The thing about lessons is, we get wiser, but sometimes that can also mean we get fussier, to our own detriment.
How many chances you get depends on how open you are to letting it in and how well you got rid of the lingering after effects of the other ones.
It's a bit like looking out at the world through lovely lace curtains. They let in light and protect you from the bad effects of the sun. They give you privacy, and let you heal. They defuse the world and look pretty, but to see clearly, and to be seen, we have to open them up and let in the good as well as bad rays, and accept the view, atmosphere. and light, because we need the full effect of it, to live. .........
