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Nagging is when a woman won't let things drop. She has to get the last word. She can't just ask you to do xyz, she has to remind you how long it took you to do uvw and stu. Basically, imagine your wife or girlfriend treating you like they are your employer and asking for things in that tone....

I need you to do.......

rather than

Hey, if you get a chance, could you......

There's one difference between nagging and not, asking nicely rather than telling.


BTW, we're not slave labour even if we do know how to do stuff.

You see

I manage to find intelligent guys, who notice when the lawn needs mowing, the bathroom tile is falling off, a lightbulb is out, the car needs a service.

And if he does not, then I will mow the grass when it needs doing, empty the trash, fix the tile, change the lightbulb, book the car to be collected.

Yep , that's what I do , I ask once and if they don't do it, I do it.
And if it's all wrong then too bad , he should have done it in the first place, so he don't need to bitch at me for that.

it think that is where 'resentment' can set in. If she has been saying 'hey if you get the chance, could you do xyz'...for several days, and you just stay watching tv, having a beer/a sleep etc, and she is doing abc to uvw, isn't she entitled to ask again? ( nicely,... you catch a lot more bees with honey than with vinegar!!). I would do most of it myself anyway, but it would be nice if he would at least do some of it without having to be asked.

I agree and would do the same, but would hope he would then be happy to do the (main)childrearing, laundry, cooking and cleaning!

Okay,you gotta job !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Yer hired !!!!!!!!!!!!! no pay,,,,,,,,,,lets play,LOL

Nagging is asking nicely? Since when?

I've never been nicely nagged in my life

You mean????? (Splutters) that I have to do all of that without pay/

I do that now.

You had better be good in bed, otherwise I may as well stay where I am.

Nagging = will you blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah


Response = Yeah sure once the footys finished.....



Counter response Yeah but blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah


Counter counter response = YES After the footy !!!!


Counter counter Counter response = but blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah

counter counter counter response = Can't it bloddy wait for 20 more minutes !!!!!!!!!!!!


Counter counter Counter counter = Ohhhhhhhhhh FFS! !!! I'll blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blahy bloody self!!!



Counter counter Counter counter Counter response = GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOD!!!!



End result = Frosty the frigging snowman setting up camp in everyroom for the next 6 hours.......


All for the sake of waiting 45 friggin minutes...........


Why do so many things become so very very urgent once football starts?!









Coat and CHeque purrrrrrrrrrrrrlease

exactly!! the first 10 times she asks you, it is nicely, then nagenstein takes over and we have to surrender to her will

a good woman would be sitting down and cheering louder than you, or at least getting the beers!!

and pray do tell, which planet do these angels come from

@ nagenstein

Nah, if yer lucky, yer asked two or three times nicely. After that the nagging starts and its never nice

Wow, lucky you.

I hate to ask anyone to do anything, if I can't do it, it doesn't get done.

planet Scotland- especially if it was the rugby- and you'ld be getting the beers- not taking my eyes off those toned strapping thighs highly technical and well thought out passes for a moment

Same. If something needs done and I'm able to do it, I'll just do it.




No one better interrupt football in my house.

Why?

I used to be like that.

Would struggle on, but now, if I need help, I will ask.

OMG.
Silence is Golden.

Thanks for the reminders.



Have a nice weekend.