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Sommerauer71 Hallein , Salzburg Austria
[top] Wed Sep 3, 2008 10:18 AM CST : just some advice
I am going to play devil's advocate here.

Why is this your problem?

You provided a service, he paid, he had a heart attack.

If a person in Tesco's had a heart attack, after paying for his shopping, what would they do?

Not your problem Dilly.

If you want to send flowers then do, if not then don't.

You have nothing to feel guilty about.

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friendsfirst Burbank, Illinois USA
[top] Wed Sep 3, 2008 10:22 AM CST : just some advice
dillydally: ok as most of you know im a dancer ,have been for 9 years now and run my own small strip-a-gram business .Work can happen anytime ,anyday so im always on call .Ok so to get to the point .

Last night i was called for a gig ,it was a 60th birthday and 3 gurls were needed .Everything went well ,the guy was an absolute star (keeping hands to self and what not) hell he even got an erection BUT

Not 1 hour ago i got a phone call to say the man is now in hospital after having a double stroke ,his wife had phoned to let me know that no one could bring back my cd's after i left them .So now i feel so guilty ,never had anything like this happen before and im at a loss as what to do ?Should i go see him ?
or should i just send flowers ?Any advice would be welcome but before you say its none of my business ,really it is .I couldn't face myself if i just shrugged it off .Thanks


Bet he has a smile on his face.

In all seriousness.This is business.However.You already answered your own question.
So by all means "Don't just shrug it off".

Plus you gotta get those CD's right?wink

Follow your heart here hun.Remember.It's about Karma.Do the right thing.bouquet of flowers
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friendsfirst Burbank, Illinois USA
[top] Wed Sep 3, 2008 10:23 AM CST : just some advice
Sommerauer71: I am going to play devil's advocate here.

Why is this your problem?

You provided a service, he paid, he had a heart attack.

If a person in Tesco's had a heart attack, after paying for his shopping, what would they do?

Not your problem Dilly.

If you want to send flowers then do, if not then don't.

You have nothing to feel guilty about.



Psssst.
She's gotta get those CD's you know.sticking out tongue
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StressFree small city, Kalmar Sweden
[top] Wed Sep 3, 2008 10:54 AM CST : just some advice
dillydally: ok as most of you know im a dancer ,have been for 9 years now and run my own small strip-a-gram business .Work can happen anytime ,anyday so im always on call .Ok so to get to the point .

Last night i was called for a gig ,it was a 60th birthday and 3 gurls were needed .Everything went well ,the guy was an absolute star (keeping hands to self and what not) hell he even got an erection BUT

Not 1 hour ago i got a phone call to say the man is now in hospital after having a double stroke ,his wife had phoned to let me know that no one could bring back my cd's after i left them .So now i feel so guilty ,never had anything like this happen before and im at a loss as what to do ?Should i go see him ?
or should i just send flowers ?Any advice would be welcome but before you say its none of my business ,really it is .I couldn't face myself if i just shrugged it off .Thanks


Flowers with a sincere note...

Hope you are okay dillyhug
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tufty Chelmsford, Essex, England UK
[top] Wed Sep 3, 2008 11:10 AM CST : just some advice
During the show he dont get a stroke.... and after he does......

Sods law at its best blues rolling eyes
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gongman Carcassone, Midi-Pyrenees France
[top] Wed Sep 3, 2008 11:13 AM CST : just some advice
Hi Dilly

A few days from now when hopefully the dust has settled on this,just remember...

There is no such thing as bad publicity.
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Sommerauer71 Hallein , Salzburg Austria
[top] Wed Sep 3, 2008 11:14 AM CST : just some advice
friendsfirst: Psssst.
She's gotta get those CD's you know.



Write a letter and ask for them back. Potage paid. With an envelope.

I cannot for the life in me think, that if Dilly turns up at the hospital, his wife is going to say, 'here you are darling, all your cd's'



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friendsfirst Burbank, Illinois USA
[top] Wed Sep 3, 2008 11:37 AM CST : just some advice
Sommerauer71: Write a letter and ask for them back. Potage paid. With an envelope.

I cannot for the life in me think, that if Dilly turns up at the hospital, his wife is going to say, 'here you are darling, all your cd's'
rolling on the floor laughing sigh

Reminds me of that old movie.
The Sensuous Nurse. staring Ursula Andress


Whe his wife dies,then she haunts his ass ,until Ursula (the nurse),with here care giving qualities,sends him up there too.Then his wife rags on him a bit in heaven as well.



I gotta check details here ,(or not)but i beleve the wifey had given full approval.cheering

Gotta agree with someone else above posted.No such thing as bad publicity.

Phones are ringing off the wall .applause yay
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dillydally behind the big green fields , Strathclyde, Scotland UK
[top] Wed Sep 3, 2008 11:40 AM CST : just some advice
i would like to just point out "i could not give 2 fucks about the damn cd's" the only reason they were mentioned is because earlier i had phoned the number i had received for the job and got an answering machine message on which (not knowing what had happened ) i asked if someone could call me back and give me a time to pick them up .


i mean to think i would jut show up and demand my cd's rolling eyes really




Anyway its all dealt with ,flowers and a card are on there way as we type ,im also refunding all his money's as they will probably need it now .


Gongman ,you said the exact same thing as one of my girls did laugh truly tho i care for my company and my girls ,i have a good reputation even tho im pricey ,but it seems people dont mind paying costs if the service is top notch .I pride myself on that alone .




Anyway ,thank you people ,the shoulder is much lighter now bouquet of flowers
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Sommerauer71 Hallein , Salzburg Austria
[top] Wed Sep 3, 2008 12:17 PM CST : just some advice
Dilly, reading what I have, I did not think that you would be after your CDS.

You have done what you can, been generous and sent good wishes.

I do not mean to come across as a cold cow, sometimes I am a natural bullet pointer.

Good for you and apologies if you felt I was attacking you.

S.

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