Hugz_n_Kissez: Christ Dan...would you stop flinging your crap all over...from what I am seeing you don't have much respect for women unless they do the things you want...now that is not right..you hide this behind helping and being the rock...but damnit it's clear you do it for your own selfish reasons...Riya is a good woman...Claayer is a good woman...Anna is a good woman and so was Kate...everyone woman you have slighted and put down you have done under the guise of helping and then turned yourself into a victim at their hand...well I'm sorry but that's bullshit...and personally I'm tired of seeing it...Nobody wants to be helped under the pretense of giving away their affections as pay back...and it's becoming more and more clear that's what you expect...now I'm sorry I know we're friends but I also told you I am not pretending anymore to not see the things I see as true.....

Well said Shelley. I´ve bitten my tounge for a long time but if you have the courage to confront this... then I think you deserve a bit of back up.
The pattern I see is of a man who targets in on vulnerable, innocent or hurt women with a desire to be their knight in shining armour, their angel in times of need.... and when this doesn´t develope into the kind of unconditional love he is looking for... he strikes out in anger or plays for pity points.
I for one am tired of reading it and avoid his threads, but this was a thread dedicated to women and he chose to come in here with his poison and create a negative environment, so I´m not holding my tounge here.
Lovely thread Claire... we do need to be reminded that we are pretty awesome!
Ladies..... I salute you