cristina: Being simply romantic leads to loneliness. It goes well with loneliness. Rationality is needed to be able to have a relationship. Do you agree?
I see many very romantic people who feel lonely, not understood...some go as deep as to kill themselves because they have so much love, they are all love and nobody is able to understand them.
Fully romantics don't survive...i think.
No?
If Romanticism captured your imagination and instilled some kind of illusory reality in your medieval mind, then you go back...jack...and do it again.
You ladies just keep waiting for the heroic knight to magically come on your doorstep and take you away beyond time, space, and matter.
And that goes for men too.
Romantics don't survive cause they can't adjust. Talk about tunnel vision....lol
What is love to a Romantic? Don't you think it's pure feeling induced by false images? Either way, the whole illusion is fiction that only leads to misunderstandings and silly expectations fueled by some false/selfish desire to maintain a non stop flow of some kind of uninterrupted euphoric love of bliss and the non stop kiss....
I'm all for romance once in a while, but I am also for some individual liberty. Sorry, I am not on this planet to serve you...I can please you and serve you at any time, but don't expect it all the time. And don't expect that I am going to change to suit your selfishness and misunderstanding. Expect that I need some "mantime" and space. And expect bumps in the road...they happen....just expect it so you are not surprised when the challenging times do come....boo
