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bodleing Greater Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK
Tue Sep 16, 2008 10:50 AM CST : Why its hard to trust again ...???????
arabella: It's hard to trust anyone after being rejected and kicked over and over.

Some people (like me) are just not relationship material.



hug teddybear
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kissmedeeply Petitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada
Tue Sep 16, 2008 10:53 AM CST : Why its hard to trust again ...???????
Its not hard to trust again...

Not everyone is the Same..

Just be cautious..

ask all sorts of questions..

believe in ur gut..heart...

Believe me b4 i had reason never to trust again...

but if that is how everyone will go on in life...

Will never be happy
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druidess6308 Reverse, Pennsylvania USA
Tue Sep 16, 2008 11:12 AM CST : Why its hard to trust again ...???????
arabella: It's hard to trust anyone after being rejected and kicked over and over.

Some people (like me) are just not relationship material.


Yes, you are...you just need to keep trying until you find the right one. Believe me, I've been kicked harder than I could ever wish on anyone, yet I've kept on going. And I've never regretted that.
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wolf77 Pretoria, Pretoria North South Africa
Tue Sep 16, 2008 11:15 AM CST : Why its hard to trust again ...???????
Trust, such an easy thing to say, but can be differcult to prove and mantain. One broken, can never be regand.

With me, I will trust you in certain area at the start, but in other areas it will take time for you to gain that trust, mainly in the areas I have been burnt in.

But in a relationship, if trust is broken badly, dont bother to fix it. That wound will always stay open. That little voice will always be talking to you in the back of your head. (and that I know for a fact, been hurt there badly)crying
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markizamkd25 Republic of Macedonia Macedonia
Tue Sep 16, 2008 11:16 AM CST : Why its hard to trust again ...???????
druidess6308: Yes, you are...you just need to keep trying until you find the right one. Believe me, I've been kicked harder than I could ever wish on anyone, yet I've kept on going. And I've never regretted that.
I was like that but after couple of times i just feel i cant do that anymore,im sooo afraid blues
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Hugz_n_Kissez Someplace, Ontario Canada
Tue Sep 16, 2008 11:17 AM CST : Why its hard to trust again ...???????
Sommerauer71: You know, trusting a person is easier and less stress than mistrusting a person, especially one you do not know...



I agree...trust should be earned not given right away though...and if they break it...see ya...that's just me...wave wink hug teddybear hug bouquet
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kissmedeeply Petitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada
Tue Sep 16, 2008 11:18 AM CST : Why its hard to trust again ...???????
markizamkd25: I was like that but after couple of times i just feel i cant do that anymore,im sooo afraid


If i may ask..what are you so afraid of...

What has happen so badly that makes you think this way??

We all have been hurt badly in our lifetime..

but if you really want to find someone special...

You really need to get up and brush urself off and move forward..

Your a Strong Woman..

Dont let what happen to you move forward in other relationships...

Come on Girl you can do it..

Friends can sure help..hug
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markizamkd25 Republic of Macedonia Macedonia
Tue Sep 16, 2008 11:20 AM CST : Why its hard to trust again ...???????
Im afraid that if i get hurt once again ill crash totaly and never recover
kissmedeeply: If i may ask..what are you so afraid of...

What has happen so badly that makes you think this way??

We all have been hurt badly in our lifetime..

but if you really want to find someone special...

You really need to get up and brush urself off and move forward..

Your a Strong Woman..

Dont let what happen to you move forward in other relationships...

Come on Girl you can do it..

Friends can sure help..
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kissmedeeply Petitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada
Tue Sep 16, 2008 11:22 AM CST : Why its hard to trust again ...???????
markizamkd25: Im afraid that if i get hurt once again ill crash totaly and never recover


Aww come on..you will just learn hun and get back on ur feet..

We all make mistakes..but we live and learn..

I know it hurts now and badly...

but you will be just fine..

Mail me if you wish..

and i can see if i can help youteddybear
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airliner Central, New Jersey USA
Tue Sep 16, 2008 11:36 AM CST : Why its hard to trust again ...???????
wow You can definitely trust me again and again laugh
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markizamkd25 Republic of Macedonia Macedonia
Tue Sep 16, 2008 11:40 AM CST : Why its hard to trust again ...???????
airliner: You can definitely trust me again and again
doh doh
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shipoker58 Las Vegas, Nevada USA
Tue Sep 16, 2008 11:42 AM CST : Why its hard to trust again ...???????
airliner: You can definitely trust me again and again




Damn....you sound like a politiciantongue OOps, I mean...teddybear teddybear teddybear
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svetlana38 somewhere, California USA
Tue Sep 16, 2008 11:42 AM CST : Why its hard to trust again ...???????
Do not trust – Easier way to protect your sellf from disapoitment and pain
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woody636 Elgin, Illinois USA
Tue Sep 16, 2008 11:43 AM CST : Why its hard to trust again ...???????
svetlana38: Do not trust – Easier way to protect your sellf from disapoitment and pain


But then, how do you move forward?
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markizamkd25 Republic of Macedonia Macedonia
Tue Sep 16, 2008 11:44 AM CST : Why its hard to trust again ...???????
svetlana38: Do not trust – Easier way to protect your sellf from disapoitment and pain
Svetlana sounds slavic thumbs up
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kissmedeeply Petitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada
Tue Sep 16, 2008 11:44 AM CST : Why its hard to trust again ...???????
svetlana38: Do not trust – Easier way to protect your sellf from disapoitment and pain

That is not what she needs to hear..

She would never be happy with that advice..

as she plainly is not nowthumbs down
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kissmedeeply Petitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada
Tue Sep 16, 2008 11:45 AM CST : Why its hard to trust again ...???????
woody636: But then, how do you move forward?


My point exactley
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svetlana38 somewhere, California USA
Tue Sep 16, 2008 11:46 AM CST : Why its hard to trust again ...???????
markizamkd25: Svetlana sounds slavic


Yes I am

And: Pozdrav od mene teddybear
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svetlana38 somewhere, California USA
Tue Sep 16, 2008 11:52 AM CST : Why its hard to trust again ...???????
woody636: But then, how do you move forward?



You need time for everything.
It is same with trust; we just need time to figer out that all people are different (to return beck that feeling); to except all - with open heart and give a chance, and some another time our experience and wisdom should show us the right one.

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markizamkd25 Republic of Macedonia Macedonia
Tue Sep 16, 2008 11:55 AM CST : Why its hard to trust again ...???????
svetlana38: Yes I am

And: Pozdrav od mene
hug hug hug hug Pozdrav
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