Where do you go, like to go on a first date?......................

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hollandgirl Okanagan Valley B.C. Canada, British Columbia Canada
StarliteFantazy: depends on how long i've known the person and what our interests are ........and if it's a "friends only" date or a date to "see where this goes"but if you can surprise me with something different than dinner and a movie, your a step ahead of the game i like someone who can actually plan a date............not show up and say ok what do you want to do............if you took the time to ask me out, take the time to show me your interested in letting me know who you are by planning something!(jmo of course!)


Yes this does make a differents of course.
Most men would want your input into the; where do you want to go thing.
That has been until now, always been my experiences







StarliteFantazy FantazyLand, Missouri USA
hollandgirl: Yes this does make a differents of course.
Most men would want your input into the; where do you want to go thing.
That has been until now, always been my experiences



a little input yes, like places you absolutely would not enjoy going with him..........but other than that, i think it shows part of what the man is really like inside whether he plans just a walk along a trail, or a horseback ride, or a romantic boat trip or something outrageous like jumping out of an airplane........i guess i'm just a different breed of womandunno
hollandgirl Okanagan Valley B.C. Canada, British Columbia Canada



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StarliteFantazy wrote:
depends on how long i've known the person and what our interests are ........and if it's a "friends only" date or a date to "see where this goes"but if you can surprise me with something different than dinner and a movie, your a step ahead of the game i like someone who can actually plan a date............not show up and say ok what do you want to do............if you took the time to ask me out, take the time to show me your interested in letting me know who you are by planning something!(jmo of course!)


Yes this does make a differents of course.
Most men would want your input into the; where do you want to go thing.
That has been until now, always been my experiences
Lonely1 Ottawa, Ontario Canada
Once met a girl from another province - a teacher on a school trip. I left work- lunchtime- to meet her at the stadium. We have not seen each other since.
dunno

Somehow I get the impression she did not like me. I got the impression she was....

Moral: make sure it is somewhere where you at least have more than an hour. A couple of days if somebody is from out of town. teddybear
hollandgirl Okanagan Valley B.C. Canada, British Columbia Canada
Lonely1: Once met a girl from another province - a teacher on a school trip. I left work- lunchtime- to meet her at the stadium. We have not seen each other since.


Somehow I get the impression she did not like me. I got the impression she was....

Moral: make sure it is somewhere where you at least have more than an hour. A couple of days if somebody is from out of town.


There is not always chemistry when two people meet.
There has to be at least a spark, upon you may be able to
build on as time goes by.



livinglarge in a good place , Kildare Ireland
hollandgirl: There is not always chemistry when two people meet.
There has to be at least a spark, upon you may be able to
build on as time goes by.
thumbs up thumbs up Evening HG wave



mbcasey North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA
jbibiza: All you need is airfare.... seems like there really is no such thing as a free meal...


I am there...only if you wear that wig...laugh

(JB has such beautiful eyes!!!love )
hollandgirl Okanagan Valley B.C. Canada, British Columbia Canada
livinglarge: Evening HG


Hello kiddo, no date either this weekend?
Life is hard when you run with your head against a brick wall eh?

So many single guys so many single women yet never the twain shall meet.
What a waste.
Oh heck am hyacking my own thread lol.

Just told another scammer 419 he knows what it means.

NEXT
StressFree small city, Kalmar Sweden
Coffee on a first date is how I roll...it can be public, my place, her place, or somewhere in the nature.



livinglarge in a good place , Kildare Ireland
hollandgirl: Hello kiddo, no date either this weekend?
Life is hard when you run with your head against a brick wall eh?

So many single guys so many single women yet never the twain shall meet.
What a waste.
Oh heck am hyacking my own thread lol.

Just told another scammer 419 he knows what it means.

NEXT
Alas I don't have a date this weekend either , but I have lots to do in anycase , you know if I start saying yes I can have dates , but for now I don't want to !! No your not hijacking your thread laugh
watch the scammers !!hug



rwantin Costa Mesa, California USA
Anywhere where we can talk - quiet.

My one first date was at an In & Out Burger. Really. We ended up in a relationship for some two years.

I don't know what that means, either. dunno
StressFree small city, Kalmar Sweden
rwantin: Anywhere where we can talk - quiet.

My one first date was at an In & Out Burger. Really. We ended up in a relationship for some two years.

I don't know what that means, either.


laugh Well at least it was 2 years....not the typical one night or one month "in and out burger"...



rwantin Costa Mesa, California USA
StressFree: Well at least it was 2 years....not the typical one night or one month "in and out burger"...


Good point. I also realize I am setting myself up for some really bad in and out jokes...uh oh
hollandgirl Okanagan Valley B.C. Canada, British Columbia Canada
rwantin: Anywhere where we can talk - quiet.

My one first date was at an In & Out Burger. Really. We ended up in a relationship for some two years.

I don't know what that means, either.



I would think I was a good meeting turning into a relationship even though it did not last forever.
My last one was a year. We are still friends.
He moved so is it not so akward this way

hollandgirl Okanagan Valley B.C. Canada, British Columbia Canada
Here is my take on going to a coffee place for the first meeting.
You may even bring a girlfriend sitting three tables away.
You could meet like this 6 times and the 7th, now meeting at home? he could still turn out to be a jerk.

What would/could he do in a coffee shop anyway.
Alcoholics have been known to hide it for a year.
Your date knows he on probation those first times, so will be showing his good side.

Met a guy working at my landladies home, we went for a dance. Perfect gentleman, should have made me a bit suspicsious? never held me too close etc.
Driving home, he asked would I like to see where he worked. Sure!
Next thing I am I find myself in a back alley.
The "gentleman" now turns and start to paw me.
It made me so angry I let him have it both barrels.
He was soo shocked and surprised he let me go.


NEXT



livinglarge in a good place , Kildare Ireland
hollandgirl: Here is my take on going to a coffee place for the first meeting.
You may even bring a girlfriend sitting three tables away.
You could meet like this 6 times and the 7th, now meeting at home? he could still turn out to be a jerk.

What would/could he do in a coffee shop anyway.
Alcoholics have been known to hide it for a year.
Your date knows he on probation those first times, so will be showing his good side.

Met a guy working at my landladies home, we went for a dance. Perfect gentleman, should have made me a bit suspicsious? never held me too close etc.
Driving home, he asked would I like to see where he worked. Sure!
Next thing I am I find myself in a back alley.
The "gentleman" now turns and start to paw me.
It made me so angry I let him have it both barrels.
He was soo shocked and surprised he let me go.NEXT

Wow HG, that is very scary !! Glad you were able to hold your own hug
jbibiza Ibiza, Islas Baleares Spain
mbcasey: I am there...only if you wear that wig...

(JB has such beautiful eyes!!! )


Thank you... I love dress up and have all kinds of wigs and hats and feather boas... it´s all good fun!
jbibiza Ibiza, Islas Baleares Spain
rwantin: Anywhere where we can talk - quiet.

My one first date was at an In & Out Burger. Really. We ended up in a relationship for some two years.

I don't know what that means, either.



mmmmmmmm In and Out burger... it´s always my first stop when I get back to the states... there is one on the way from the airport to mom and dads!!!
Dawn7z SALEM OR,DENVER CO, Oregon USA
jbibiza: Thank you... I love dress up and have all kinds of wigs and hats and feather boas... it´s all good fun!


Doesn't she and beautiful skin too
HJFinAZ Sun CIty, Arizona USA
Take them to Vegas for a couple of days (nights)....devil


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