chrissyjuly16: Ok....I think the ideal date is when I am drinking with my family and I invite him over as a friend.
He, then , is more shy and I of course am not b/c I have had a shot or two.:
That's how we can really see how eachother acts around others, but still private without being so shy that you really can't find anything to say(it suck's being embarressed) and if there is true chemistry between us.
If not, then neither of us lose anything, b/c we wouldgain a friendship. Although, I have had the dates where there is no way I would want to speak to them again.
Total a##holes. I ended up with one for 5 years. LOL Isn't that our luck?
talk to ya guy's and gal's later
Funny...that would be my ideal 1st date also!!!