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Ocee35 Jackson, Michigan USA
Thu Sep 18, 2008 10:44 PM CST : How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
Lots of imagination, and plausible deniabilty.
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riyablossom somewhere, Pennsylvania USA
Thu Sep 18, 2008 10:46 PM CST : How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
I dont know i have seen it so i know its possible ...

I guess you just got to have your feet firmly grounded and have a very good understanding of your relationship.
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livinglarge in a good place , Kildare Ireland
Thu Sep 18, 2008 10:46 PM CST : How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
Ocee35: Lots of imagination, and plausible deniabilty.
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mbcasey North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA
Thu Sep 18, 2008 10:46 PM CST : How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
jbibiza: I´m with you Ken, if you love someone it just is... Bit like the thread I posted before about why do people say relationships are hard work. If two people love each other then life is competition to see who can make the other happiest... it´s about giving and sharing and accepting.


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it comes natural without working at it.

Even during the toughest times, you know you still love that person very much...that is the beauty of it!!
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jbibiza Ibiza, Islas Baleares Spain
Thu Sep 18, 2008 10:49 PM CST : How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
mbcasey: it comes natural without working at it.

Even during the toughest times, you know you still love that person very much...that is the beauty of it!!



Thats why I don´t understand people who break up when they get in a fight... the on again off again kind of relationships. If we argue or you do something to upset me... then yeah I´m mad at you but it will pass and it doesn´t change that I love you.

I only break off a relationship when the love I thought would be there isn´t.
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alabamabebe Banks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA
Thu Sep 18, 2008 10:50 PM CST : How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
Really, if any of us had the answer to that question would we be here?

All I know is it takes two people trying, one can't make it work by themselves.
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mbcasey North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA
Thu Sep 18, 2008 10:51 PM CST : How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
jbibiza: Thats why I don´t understand people who break up when they get in a fight... the on again off again kind of relationships. If we argue or you do something to upset me... then yeah I´m mad at you but it will pass and it doesn´t change that I love you.

I only break off a relationship when the love I thought would be there isn´t.


maybe we are hopeless romantics...

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jbibiza Ibiza, Islas Baleares Spain
Thu Sep 18, 2008 10:55 PM CST : How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
mbcasey: maybe we are hopeless romantics...



laugh laugh That´s the funny thing.... I really don´t consider myself to be very romantic, I hate when I start getting that "ick factor" from a guy...

I like kindness and generosity and to know that he thinks of me.... but I´ve never been much for the "planned romantic gesture" I don´t like gestures, I like spontaneous bursts
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alabamabebe Banks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA
Thu Sep 18, 2008 10:58 PM CST : How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
jbibiza: I only break off a relationship when the love I thought would be there isn´t.
When I break up it's over, no going back. By the time I decide a relationship is over it's been dead so long it's starting to stink!
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Ocee35 Jackson, Michigan USA
Thu Sep 18, 2008 11:02 PM CST : How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
alabamabebe: When I break up it's over, no going back. By the time I decide a relationship is over it's been dead so long it's starting to stink!


.....laugh


I'm the same way Bebe.

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jbibiza Ibiza, Islas Baleares Spain
Thu Sep 18, 2008 11:03 PM CST : How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
alabamabebe: When I break up it's over, no going back. By the time I decide a relationship is over it's been dead so long it's starting to stink!



laugh laugh I don´t let it linger quite so long.... but if I end a relationship it´s for good reason and there´s no going back!
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HJFinAZ Sun CIty, Arizona USA
Thu Sep 18, 2008 11:05 PM CST : How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
I think it is called the "C" word. Something most these days as being much easier than working thru life's problems...dunno
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HJFinAZ Sun CIty, Arizona USA
Thu Sep 18, 2008 11:06 PM CST : How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
F E A R = F*** Everything And Run..........grin
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alabamabebe Banks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA
Thu Sep 18, 2008 11:08 PM CST : How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
jbibiza: I don´t let it linger quite so long.... but if I end a relationship it´s for good reason and there´s no going back!
I was talking about my marriages, nowadays I don't wait for the corpse to start rotting. laugh
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livinglarge in a good place , Kildare Ireland
Thu Sep 18, 2008 11:09 PM CST : How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
HJFinAZ: I think it is called the "C" word. Something most these days as being much easier than working thru life's problems...
What ? As in , Cee . You . Next . Tuesday.
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jbibiza Ibiza, Islas Baleares Spain
Thu Sep 18, 2008 11:09 PM CST : How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
HJFinAZ: I think it is called the "C" word. Something most these days as being much easier than working thru life's problems...


.... and that would be the "big" C word as opposed to the "little" c work.....grin
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jbibiza Ibiza, Islas Baleares Spain
Thu Sep 18, 2008 11:11 PM CST : How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
alabamabebe: I was talking about my marriages, nowadays I don't wait for the corpse to start rotting.


I woke up the day after my wedding and said "oh my god.... what have I done" and let it drag out for 2 years.

It´s quite sad really, I´ve loved 4 men in my life and none of them was my ex-husband.
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Dawn7z SALEM OR,DENVER CO, Oregon USA
Thu Sep 18, 2008 11:14 PM CST : How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
By taking it one day at a time realizing you are in it together and not enemies.
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alabamabebe Banks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA
Thu Sep 18, 2008 11:58 PM CST : How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
Dawn7z: By taking it one day at a time realizing you are in it together and not enemies.
That only works if you are in it together.
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keytone Portland, Oregon USA
Fri Sep 19, 2008 12:01 AM CST : How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?



well,,,I would say that love is alive. it is timeless.
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