woody636: Maybe so, but she's out on a limb all by herself, or almost so. I think she's looking at the fact that she's lost her mom and her brother. I'm the ONLY one left. Now I have my daughter checking up on me - when are you going to be home, ect. Lol!! Funny, but at the same time, not funny. Know what I mean?? And yeah, I'm going to continue to live my life the way I see fit - only way I know how to do it. Tracy will survive, but it doesn't make it any easier on either one of us. Maybe just a time factor? Not really sure; just try to muddle thru.
You're apparently very important to her. If you let her stop you from finding happiness with a new woman,
when she is done dealing with the grief of losing her mom, she's going to have to deal with the guilt of holding you back.
What if you wait for her to be ready, and it takes a few years for you to find someone? That's not going to be very healthy for either of you.
Reading your posts in this thread, you seem like the type of father who will do the best thing for both of you, even if it's tough on her in the short term.