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I don’t feel that I may speak for all women, but I can speak for myself and share what I love about certain men.....



I love a man who knows and lives in integrity. Means what he says, is who he is and inspires that kind of trust you feel safe leaning into.

I love a man who puts his faith in God first…not in a judgmental or limiting kind of way…but in that open hearted, joyful and inclusive walk with God that inspires your own faith to grow kind of way.

I love men who are comfortable in their own manly skin. Men who focus on building others up and bringing joy and support to the people they adore. Men who celebrate a woman’s femininity and beauty and who see it as a gift God gave women to share with others. Men who want to pursue and cherish a strong, smart, passionate and emotionally healthy woman…a woman like me! *grin*

I adore a guy who is smart! Smart in that witty, engaging, verbally gifted kind of way. That makes me weak in the knees.

I love men who know to look beyond the outward package to what is beneath. A guy who sees my humor or intelligence or spirituality as the thing to brag about to their guy friends…that guy I’ll hold onto.

I love men who know how to genuinely compliment me and arent afraid to do so even when it makes me blush.

I love men who open doors, pursue a woman they are interested in, walk on the street side of a sidewalk, show up when they say they will, say they’ll call and actually call, believe in chivalry and notice little things that need doing and do them!

I am impressed by those of you men who can cook. *hats off*

I admire men who are married/in a relationship and dont even LOOK at other women.

I love a guy who can help me with something heavy, messy or just generally gross. I like being a girl.

I love men who like to play AND be responsible. Men who like to plan out a great trip or show up unexpectedly for a spontaneous cup of coffee.

I love a guy who knows how to limit his video game/sports/TV/whatever addiction to a manageable distraction.

I love a man with shoulders broader than mine, with enough height that I don’t tower in my heels, deep voices, manly hands, eyes that smile, one of those huggers who really HUG you!

I’m sure I’ll think of more things that I love about men, but for now this is just to let you guys know how appreciated you are.

I'll add to this that I also admire men who aren't afraid to cry. The ones who know it doesn't make them less of a man, but instead heals and makes one stronger.

And I thought this might have been for me..

Some men are told that it's weak to show their emotions.

And like you I admire a man who's not afraid to cry.

That reminds me I did not cry but I started to well up on the train yesterday (I was reading “The lovely bones”) it’s happened to me once or twice reading books on trains and well women do tend to show an interest in me when it happens

I think she meant it for me.

Oh stop. I've dedicated several things to you on here.


You'll always have a special place in my heart.

Indy, I must bow out, you have me beat..... not

She DEFINITELY didn't mean it for me!!....I'd have to wear stilletos, and have my eyes poked out to qualify..!!

I'm waiting for some guy to come out with some really sappy version of this...
"What I love about Women"....

...don't think, just do it...

Like wise Anna... what was that you said about persuing?

Indy only you would say something like that.


All humor aside tho, you know I don't make lists when I compliment you men.


You're ALL Very Special and Unique in your own special way.

The shortest verse in the Christian new testament is," Jesus wept".
Reference Lazarus,death.



Learned that while at a funeral mass for a 15 y.o. boy.

Oh Lagoona I meant this for All the men.

You should know me better then that.

Was just having some light-hearted fun.

Alright, put up your dukes guys.. let's fight over it...I am a champion you know..

I don't recall saying I was persuing.

Making someone feel special is not considered persuing.

...but I own Bufford Pusser's "walking tall" club....

Thats me to a T, when can we go out.

Not you, but liking a man that pursues..

Indy , Indy ,I know that.