If you are going to define sex by wether there is penetration or not, then by your own definition you have to accept that oral sex is technicallyl sex because penetration does take place, only not of the vagina...
I personally find this discussion a little futile...who cares?...
...who cares wether it is sex or not....the real question is...did Monica do it for her own satisfaction, or was she forced...and did she have her tongue pierced at the time she did it..??..
scorpiosiren: If it involves his/mine treasure, his/my mouth, or hand... if fluids are excreted... yes, it is sex. No foreplay, no teasing no folloing around. It is what it is...SEX.
totally dsagree with u sex is short term 4 sexual intercourse which involves penetration oral sex does not involve penetration so there for it isnt sex as i said earlier it is foreplay