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cherokeemoon2 grove, Oklahoma USA
mastic55: What was I thinking coming on here looking for someone.I been here a long time and nothing, thats a good thing, I live check to check and really have nothing to offer, my life is in turmoil everyday, I see some profiles and they really got it going on, they have it made, like a new caddy in a used car lot, and they are looking, what chance do I have , reality sets inn.In stead of coming here I should have had a V-8.
Come ON Mastic,U have a lot going for you .ur a very nice man and u have youth.You will find someone.hug
Lonely1 Ottawa, Ontario Canada
mastic55: What was I thinking coming on here looking for someone.I been here a long time and nothing, thats a good thing, I live check to check and really have nothing to offer, my life is in turmoil everyday, I see some profiles and they really got it going on, they have it made, like a new caddy in a used car lot, and they are looking, what chance do I have , reality sets inn.In stead of coming here I should have had a V-8.


Don't worry, friend. You are not the only one not fit to date. When I came on this site it was with the feeling that I was the worst person in the world. Since then I have met some great people with whom I have shared many frustrating emotions. I am still working on myself.

Now I share the hurt that others share, as they shared mine. I also share the joy that others share. I have seen love bloom for some and it gives me hope. We all make mistakes in life, but given time we can learn to love again.

The most important thing is to love yourself and to respect others. tip hat
mindfful WanderingMinstrel, Missouri USA
yo! long island!


im not reading the whole dang thread im just slappin you upside yer head and saying wth are you saying?

youre the best
sweet caring blah blah blah

you know what i think of you and you say you trust me
so stop listening to your sadness and listen to me

(((hypnotized)))

number one youre a new yorker
number 2 you care for your family
etc etc and nuff said




you damn well know better so stop it

there are men around CS that are all about the self pity and i havent seen them have any success yet so thats not a good model to follow so knock it off


kiss



shipoker58 Las Vegas, Nevada USA
mastic55: What was I thinking coming on here looking for someone.I been here a long time and nothing, thats a good thing, I live check to check and really have nothing to offer, my life is in turmoil everyday, I see some profiles and they really got it going on, they have it made, like a new caddy in a used car lot, and they are looking, what chance do I have , reality sets inn.In stead of coming here I should have had a V-8.





I feel the EXACT same way Mastic!! It's just that I gave up a long time ago. You, at least have age on your side. At the risk of sounding gay and making Stooie physically ill, I don't understand why you haven't found anyone. You are a nice guy and a good looking guy. And you have the age thing working for you. Keep plugging away, guy, don't give up!!



And if that makes me sound gay....too frickin bad!!thumbs up
mbcasey North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA
Hang in there...

and don't use a noose!!scold

It will happen....handshake



diogenes Longview, Texas USA
mindfful: youre the best
sweet caring blah blah blah


laugh


Seriously Dude!

You're ruggedly handsome, funny, intelligent, and blah blah blah
mastic55 Long Island, New York USA
diogenes: Seriously Dude!

You're ruggedly handsome, funny, intelligent, and blah blah blah
I'm Brutally Handsome,,,,,o.k I got it from "Life in the fast lane" by the Eagles, but it's a start.rolling on the floor laughing thumbs up



diogenes Longview, Texas USA
mastic55: I'm Brutally Handsome,,,,,o.k I got it from "Life in the fast lane" by the Eagles, but it's a start.
If I was a girl, I'd date you.
rwantin Costa Mesa, California USA
diogenes: If I was a girl, I'd date you.


Yeah, me too. But those operations are cost-prohibitive. uh oh!
mbcasey North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA
rwantin: Yeah, me too. But those operations are cost-prohibitive.


especially in Cali...shimmy
riyablossom somewhere .. , Pennsylvania USA
The 3 guys above me are incredibly cute .. laugh laugh
mindfful WanderingMinstrel, Missouri USA
diogenes: Seriously Dude!

You're ruggedly handsome, funny, intelligent, and blah blah blah



laugh
mr supportive


rolling on the floor laughing


dork





















wave



diogenes Longview, Texas USA
rwantin: Yeah, me too. But those operations are cost-prohibitive.
laugh
mastic55 Long Island, New York USA
rwantin: Yeah, me too. But those operations are cost-prohibitive.
rolling on the floor laughing good onethumbs up
dazzling_dave Waynesboro, Virginia USA
rwantin: Yeah, me too. But those operations are cost-prohibitive.


Shall we have a telethon to help Robert pay for his operation? rolling on the floor laughing

Probably not a good idea with your father just getting out of the hospital. He might not handle the shock too well.
roseofsharon Buggered if I know where...?!!, Hampshire, England UK
mastic55: What was I thinking coming on here looking for someone.I been here a long time and nothing, thats a good thing, I live check to check and really have nothing to offer, my life is in turmoil everyday, I see some profiles and they really got it going on, they have it made, like a new caddy in a used car lot, and they are looking, what chance do I have , reality sets inn.In stead of coming here I should have had a V-8.


Its been a long time.... how long?? If I told you how long I had been here..... and with next to no suitable romantic interest....

As you should know by now, I am not one to do the "ohh you are lovely, no you are lovelier than me" bollocks, but I think you are delightful!!

And, I see you have the pic back up where you are most handsome, thank God for that!! You seem to be making comparisons with the success of others.... why are you measuring your own success on that basis??

So what if it takes a little longer, surely she'd be worth the wait? Just think.... when it does happen, you will look back and this will all pale into insignificance, won't it?

Good luck to you...!! cheers
mastic55: What was I thinking coming on here looking for someone.I been here a long time and nothing, thats a good thing, I live check to check and really have nothing to offer, my life is in turmoil everyday, I see some profiles and they really got it going on, they have it made, like a new caddy in a used car lot, and they are looking, what chance do I have , reality sets inn.In stead of coming here I should have had a V-8.


Do they really? You can't be so hard on yourself. I see quite a few who are struggling. Why would you have to have any more on a cyber site than if you were dating in person?

The real person would accept one as they are. There is something to be said for "Sharing Each Others Burdens". That is how you know you have the right one.comfort comfort hug hug hug
rwantin Costa Mesa, California USA
dazzling_dave: Shall we have a telethon to help Robert pay for his operation?

Probably not a good idea with your father just getting out of the hospital. He might not handle the shock too well.


"Hi Dad. No, it's not a motorcycle saddlebag. It's my new purse. We have to talk..."

dazzling_dave Waynesboro, Virginia USA
rwantin: "Hi Dad. No, it's not a motorcycle saddlebag. It's my new purse. We have to talk..."


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing Hope you're having a great day.
98% of the population isn't fit to date, mas. That doesn't stop them. wink

The only thing that keeps humanity going is alcohol. I agree with Seinfeld. 98% is just plain undatable.

And you wanna know what? I don't know the other 2%. It's not even in the mirror. sigh





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