Quiet after the storm

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bigdaddy007 small town, South Dakota USA

[top] Mon Sep 22, 2008 7:35 PM CST : Quiet after the storm

Everybody talks about the quiet before the storm....
Nobody talks about the quiet after the storm

The quiet before the storm, the waiting, the anticipating,
the gut wrenching knot that seems to be in the pit of your stomach,
when your heart seems to drop and stay there.

The quiet after the storm.
The devastation that's been left behind.
The storm changes us forever....
there is no going back..
The quiet after the storm is very lonely

We just gave what we can, and discard what's of no more use.
Then we somehow pick ourselves back up, and start over......

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mylifewithu Springfield, Missouri USA

[top] Mon Sep 22, 2008 7:45 PM CST : Quiet after the storm

bigdaddy007: Everybody talks about the quiet before the storm....
Nobody talks about the quiet after the storm

The quiet before the storm, the waiting, the anticipating,
the gut wrenching knot that seems to be in the pit of your stomach,
when your heart seems to drop and stay there.

The quiet after the storm.
The devastation that's been left behind.
The storm changes us forever....
there is no going back..
The quiet after the storm is very lonely

We just gave what we can, and discard what's of no more use.
Then we somehow pick ourselves back up, and start over......

Thats a sad time for sure, to see all you had gone or destroyed. It's like any thing else devastating, leaving you lost, and confused.

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bigdaddy007 small town, South Dakota USA

[top] Mon Sep 22, 2008 7:50 PM CST : Quiet after the storm

mylifewithu: Thats a sad time for sure, to see all you had gone or destroyed. It's like any thing else devastating, leaving you lost, and confused.

yep but you just need to remember there have been lots of storms and without the storms nothing grows. So in the end all is good.

Atleast that is what i keep telling myself lol

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mylifewithu Springfield, Missouri USA

[top] Mon Sep 22, 2008 7:54 PM CST : Quiet after the storm

bigdaddy007: yep but you just need to remember there have been lots of storms and without the storms nothing grows. So in the end all is good.

Atleast that is what i keep telling myself lol

Positive thinking is the way to go, you can rebuild and get thru it, at least you have your life, with that anything is still possible.

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bigdaddy007 small town, South Dakota USA

[top] Mon Sep 22, 2008 7:58 PM CST : Quiet after the storm

mylifewithu: Positive thinking is the way to go, you can rebuild and get thru it, at least you have your life, with that anything is still possible.

i have to give all the credit to my kids, they have been such troopers through this and i have grown because of my kids. They are my world and they rock!!

It's really odd how kids can see life so diffrently Thank God for kids.

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mylifewithu Springfield, Missouri USA

[top] Mon Sep 22, 2008 8:02 PM CST : Quiet after the storm

bigdaddy007: i have to give all the credit to my kids, they have been such troopers through this and i have grown because of my kids. They are my world and they rock!!

It's really odd how kids can see life so diffrently Thank God for kids.

I learned a lot from mine also, they teach you to see it as simple. We complicate things being adults. They have good stability and love in there life, yeah something like that won't devastating. Bad but not the end of the world anyway. Keep listening to yours , mine kept teaching me things all the way up till being teens and way past that now.

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bigdaddy007 small town, South Dakota USA

[top] Mon Sep 22, 2008 8:05 PM CST : Quiet after the storm

mylifewithu: I learned a lot from mine also, they teach you to see it as simple. We complicate things being adults. They have good stability and love in there life, yeah something like that won't devastating. Bad but not the end of the world anyway. Keep listening to yours , mine kept teaching me things all the way up till being teens and way past that now.

I just wish i could teach my 15 year old girl something. She already knows everything LOL

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mylifewithu Springfield, Missouri USA

[top] Mon Sep 22, 2008 8:11 PM CST : Quiet after the storm

bigdaddy007: I just wish i could teach my 15 year old girl something. She already knows everything LOL

they know everything, I know it. Thats tough when they get like that.

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bigdaddy007 small town, South Dakota USA

[top] Mon Sep 22, 2008 8:18 PM CST : Quiet after the storm

mylifewithu: they know everything, I know it. Thats tough when they get like that.

but a good thing about it is when she has something on her mind she ALWAYS lets me know about it....

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SirenLydia Bury St Edmunds, Suffolk, England UK

[top] Tue Sep 23, 2008 4:03 AM CST : Quiet after the storm

bigdaddy007: Everybody talks about the quiet before the storm....
Nobody talks about the quiet after the storm

The quiet before the storm, the waiting, the anticipating,
the gut wrenching knot that seems to be in the pit of your stomach,
when your heart seems to drop and stay there.

The quiet after the storm.
The devastation that's been left behind.
The storm changes us forever....
there is no going back..
The quiet after the storm is very lonely

We just gave what we can, and discard what's of no more use.
Then we somehow pick ourselves back up, and start over......

Can't imagine what you've gone through,
I just know I count myself very lucky indeed.

good luck............

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bigdaddy007 small town, South Dakota USA

[top] Tue Sep 23, 2008 12:28 PM CST : Quiet after the storm

SirenLydia: Can't imagine what you've gone through,
I just know I count myself very lucky indeed.

good luck............

It could have been worse, I could have lost custody of my kids so in the end all is good. The kids are ok with it and they still get to see her. The kids took it better than i thought. Thanks for the wishes of good luck.

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gingerb Letterkenny, Donegal Ireland

[top] Tue Sep 23, 2008 12:34 PM CST : Quiet after the storm

bigdaddy007: It could have been worse, I could have lost custody of my kids so in the end all is good. The kids are ok with it and they still get to see her. The kids took it better than i thought. Thanks for the wishes of good luck.

In the calm after the storm there is nothing but time and space to take stock and find peace.......

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bigdaddy007 small town, South Dakota USA

[top] Tue Sep 23, 2008 12:39 PM CST : Quiet after the storm

gingerb: In the calm after the storm there is nothing but time and space to take stock and find peace.......

very true and with out the storm things would not grow and the pastures would not be greener.

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