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It would be odd if this were a normal dating site. Because of the friendships made here along the way I don't find it odd at all...it's great to see the success stories.

When i get married i will still be coming on

My fiance doesnt mind at all

this is where we met..

and i wont stop talking to my friends here on the forums..

If anyone here has a problem with it

blow it out ur ear..

Doesnt make anyone a bad person just becos they are married,
and still come on here...unless they want something on the side..

but each to their own..

wont stop me from coming here..

ENOUGH SAID

And as you can tell...I've a few tail feathers all ruffled now... Gggrrrr..

You tell them girl, good job.

Thank you Kitty

thank you!!!



My point exactly!!

gosh lucky!!

seriously tho-find another hobby?
like yours? tellin people what to do?
no thanks i have my husband for that


seriously tho whats with these recycled topics today about how wrong CS is and lets fix it

heres my take on it
CS hosts this party
they appreciate couples' staying-its good for business-DUH!
so others rule-making desires go in one ear and out the other
i serve god, my husband and the wishes of CS Admin
and everyone else can bite it

or if you prefer

ill give up my modem when you come and find me and pry it from my cold dead laptop

MF, that was a great response!

Personally, I think it's great that the marrieds have stayed on here!

As to the married ones who swing, well, hey...it takes all kinds and it's not up to me to judge. Ignore them and look at the singles. You can use that as a search criteria in your advanced searches, and you can put in your profile that you're only interested in single people of the opposite gender for dating.

ohhhh boo fuckin hoo. When you get married do you have to throw your friends out the window? and who are you to allocate what hobbies married people should have? What a crock of shit.

It's as simple as this if someone is married, I would assume you say to yourself stay away unless you are a bitch on heat and don't really give a crap and go for married men. There is nothing fuckin wrong with married couples being on here as long as they make it know that is their situation.

I would assume by your post you are eaten up with jealousy about someone actually being happily married.

POST AWAY MARRIED PEOPLE.

The couples in the forums that I know, make it known that they are married and most have met on here. So why would you give that up? it's a beautiful thing that I enjoy sharing with them.

you need to assess your own attitude before casting judgment on others.

Alrightie now thats a different story and that kind of shit makes me

Another yes vote for those married folks who started on hre,found someone,here or elsewhere and are still around.We would miss much if they all left.I thought it odd when I first came on and Peaches and Ray were on here married.However I know know if I marry,I my well come into threads to say hi to people I have got to know.This to me is not like any other site I am or was on.It's different here,the interaction we have.So if I opposed those couples being here,I'd never know that people really do find love on datng sites.I feel to each thier own and there are some singles I'd rather see leave honestly.

You absolutely ROCK

i do need another hobby

I would just like to add a quick comment. The thread refers to 'married people'. NOT married couples.

This accepted, those who have posted seem to agree, that the thing that concerns them, if anything, about a married person posting on this site, is the specific type of married person, ie the situation they are in which could ultimately impact on the emotional well being of another person they might forma bond with over time, during their online interactions.

I don't think I need to spell out the issues that could arise from someone who is 'separated', and so is still married, even if the two people live separately. This scenario was covered earlier in the thread by a couple of other CS's.

When that 'separated' person still has a significant enough relationship with their wife/husband', essentially some sort of emotional ties may still exist. Certainly resolution has not been achieved by at least one party.

Problems may occur when that 'separated (still very married) CS person relating to another very SINGLE CS. The 'married' CS may perhaps not be treating online relating as 'real' or 'serious', or that real emotions are actually involved. Then these two people meet in RL. I don't have to spell out the potential issues that may occur when these two people meet. It may be only then that the 'separated/married person realises that it is a real person that was actually online. And that real emotions are now to be sorted out, not just for one, but possibly both.

Any other scenario of being separated/married on this site, really matters not, as apart from personal preference/bias, has no measurable impact on anyone's emotional/mental wellbeing.

That scenario I agree with as stated above under my original post if you look up and read

I understand and agree with your post...a very good and fair one...
Although, in my case, my husband doesn't post on here, he's not a member either. He does have access to my computer and account here if he chooses...but he chooses not to because we have trust.
Trust is very important with both of us...
But there have been a few other comments that aren't quite as fair as yours...
example:

IMO, that's a very close minded way of thinking...and it may have really offended some...such as myself...

I hope the married people here on the forums stay...we would all miss you very much!! You are a testament to what most of us on CS wish to aspire to. Thank you for staying and sharing your joy, and sometimes hardships of your marriages.

I have seen the posts about separated people. When I was young, I dated on 2 separate occasions women who were separated and going through a divorce. In both cases, the relationship ended when the divorce became final...

no lucky nooooooooooo

if you admit it ill have too


besides if these men would stay home maybe we'd have umm
uh
somethin else to do



they are too new to know that CS implants a chip and no one ever leaves forever


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