In response to: I actually had this done once... it IS very erotic! But you have to have TOTAL trust in your partner.
BUT, at the same time it's the trust bit which makes it exciting.
I know what you mean, that it can’t be a relationship where you all of a sudden don’t know if he’ll bring out a chainsaw, or a lawnmower, and make a Stephen King horror flick out of you, but at the same time, it is the bit about you not knowing 100% what will happen, that teases juices to juice like a Californian breakfast factory, isn’t it?