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Yes well sadly love knows no boundaries...

you mean they are under 60

No, my dreaming is about 38 year olds at the moment, the fool that I am, although not getting much sleep at the moment as I am 'busy'

There are certain levels that I would not go to, one to upset my children and rightly or wrongly, after many discussions, that my children and I have over dinner, pretty smart young people, the topic has been raised, they would not like to see their mother with a person who could be their friend, I have seen it, with a mother who dated her son's friend, it was hard for him, the son, seeing his mate over the breakfast table each morning.

I have no wish to compromise my cbildren's feelings in this matter.

There are plenty of men my age around, many here, but it just aint gonna happen, however much you think that 'all' women at 40 would. Coz here is one who will not. So you are wrong.

Yes, although dad is not...

But he hangs around with younger men...

That's a minus.

Laura.


Nice to see you.

This is 1 40 year old woman who definitely wouldnt want an 18 year old "stud",i would see that as very close to abuse...i have had offers from that age group but ive never been tempted to go there as i prefer my men to have some life experience (& have started shaving!)



As for mature 18 year old girls? I dont think thats possible as they have very little life experience & usually remain immature until they leave home,also life stages are not in sync



Sooooooo it seems to me that men who seek 18 year old girls are on a BIG ego trip
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I agree!

Well if that's the case and most woman feel this way, then men are obviously more open minded than woman.

Yes life experience is generally measured by one's age...but remember there are people out half your age with perhaps twice as much life experience...

I respect your opinion.

It was the only which was my point...

And you missed that completely.

How would you feel, if I said to you 'you are only a kid, therefore I do not think your opinion is worth anything?'

That is a bit like Rebel saying that all 40 year old women would 'enge' with an 18 year old.

You just have two areas, in your brain, don't you?

Men and women!

I am an 18 year old girl and this thread caught my eye.

I think you need to concentrate on your own relationships instad of criticizing others'.


My preferance has always been older men, my last serious relationship was with a 30 year old man. He did not take advantage of me, nor was he going through a mid-life crisis or having an affair. I have been seeing men around that age range and yes, up to fifty years.

I dont think a single one of you can judge, I'm never going to love a man of my own age.

If anyone would like to raise the issue with me, i'd love to hear from you; we can have a debate - you know where I am.

Much love.

on my way then

seriously though I do know the pit falls of having relationships with older guys and younger ones !!!!!

I do take my childrens wishes into consideration

the last relationship I was in, turned out I went to school with his daughter

Take note all woman over 40...living proof!!!

Yes i'm actually busy with research for the university comparing the two and the results are staggering...men's brains are 20% more developed than woman.

Oh I so love it when a man tells us how to think...

The living proof from this young ladies statement, is this.

One size does not fit all...

Life experience....think about it...experience in life...whatever way 1 says it it comes back to same..
It cannot be present in an 18 year old as they havnt been on the planet long enough to gain it..
I accept that life circumstances can make it seem a person of that age is more mature but deep down they are usually not,its a front to seem more grown up..they can talk the talk but theres no foundation supporting it ie; age

I have always been an advocate of this sort of research...

Men's brains are bigger than women's, this I know...

More developed in what way?

that is her choice...

i dont agree at all

maybe if she had a daughter..and this happed to her..

she may or may not like it then...