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It was either September or November of 2004 when I joined.
I remember that , Lion. I came on around October , November. At that time , there was no forum , the forum came about April 05.
When I first started looking , you could go through all the women pretty soon. I was messaging a woiman from Maine , using the email boxes. It had a 2000 character limit , so you had to be careful not to use it up. 2000 ain;t too very long , counting spaces and commas and stuff.