laura225: It is horrible, Dru. From what I read, you broke up 2 marriages because they were abusive - it takes a very strong spirit
Many who went through this in their childhood, except all the abuse later on in life, thinking that's what they deserve
Yes...neither started out that way, though. The first one of those was because of medication he had to take for his back. The other had just hidden his true self very well...until we were married.
I know I deserve better. I just need to find him. Same with Lela, you, Lush...and all of us here.