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I spend most of my time chatting in email with people rather than deal with the cheap viciousness of the cliques in these forums. I want to sit and relax, chat about life and joke around. that's what I joined for.

depends on how much interest is achieved

people like to take sides

people like to take sides based on "friends"

people get sensitive when you challenge their beliefs as if you're killing their unborn child

people react emotionally, totally missing the content

people choose sides based on beliefs

people.

I recall one thread specifically where the OP took the time to answer every post individually! However, when Sharon (my ex) made a comment, she was totally ignored. She made a second comment and was totally ignored again. She has never participated again. The OP did not know her, she wasn't a familiar face, so she was insignificant!!

There are sooo many new faces, that I no longer feel like I fit in, they are all young and we have absolutely nothing in common. Certainly not anything in reference to dating. I can't offer any sage advice or wisdom, because they already know everything!

But!!! I'm not going anywhere. I am just too stubborn to move on. I am here for the long haul, and when I die, bury me face down so the world can kiss my ass!

and..........

Mornin you republican mosquito lovin guy


seriously, I'm not picking on 'your' mosquitos

A mosquito basher, I see.

Noooo ... blood sucking freaks are just one of the selective groups I choose to support.

There you are, you see, at least someone has found friends!...................1 in how many?, although you should read carefully that l wrote here possiby you would understand better.

I did take off my profile some time back and was 'pestered' with emails from the site. In answer to your question l am removing my profile because l know l will never find the person l am looking for, however on another site l get about 10 'looks' per day and even after 3 months thats quite good, scammers and bed hoppers apart l get a wider choice..............................but they are not what l am looking for!

democrats?

I totally agree....

I used to spend every moment that I possibly could, bantering on the forums.....then life outside caught up fast, so I had to make a decision to slow down a bit....

I also hid my profile a few times, due to feeling like my every move was being watched on the forums....Somebody even set up a dodgy profile with the name Lovaboy1, with the exact same profile details as mine....Needless to say the mods deleted it after I reported it....but still....when you feel like some cyber-nut is out to try and wind you up, and make life a little difficult, then that alone can make you lose a little interest in posting.

I was a regular on this site, and made loads of good friends...but being back here after nearly a year of going AWOL, Ive noticed a lot of the people who used to post, have disappeared, or deleted profiles...maybe the real world caught up with them as well.....

Good thread...

Maybe...just maybe, you get more responses from those sites with "bed hoppers" because you appear to have no clothes on!! try presenting yourself as a gentleman with a shirt on, and maybe LADIES will respond to you!! Just a thought!!

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socialists

commies too

This is true is some cases, but I don't think it has to do with being friends, people take sides of a person's point of veiw on a particular subject.....

Example I can debate with someone in one thread, criticise what they think in another, then paise then in another... My anwsers, are based on what I feel about a subject......

Have been writting to people i have met on the forums from all over the world and would consider them friends, Also have met other members from Malta who have become friends in RL CS has worked for me in many ways, it's a free site and i am thankful for it , Good Luck in your search

PRAISE sorry

It does still seem to me that many Forum posters expect others to do all the work and not make any effort themselves...?? Nothing in life falls into one's lap.....

As I said before, it takes the effort of ALL participants. Those that should try a little harder perhaps and those that should be more welcoming.....

I'm not sure I agree with Rusty's comment. I can't imagine I would send a mail to someone to tell them to "F*ck off..."!! AND.... I have only had ONE nasty e-mail in all the years I have been here. Yes, just the ONE.... totally unprovoked, from someone who everyone thinks is a darling....??!!

So, ya see..... invariably, what ya see is NOT always what ya get?!!