Why do people loss interest in CS forums

Galactic_bodhi Portland, Oregon USA

Sat Nov 15, 2008 11:01 AM CST : Why do people loss interest in CS forums?

arabella: I came back recently because I missed the forums.

But now I see that there are few left here who consider the feelings of others.

Even the moderators are bending the rules, letting some break the rules and cleaning up the evidence while scolding others who are simply making a joke.

I hope you all get a good laugh from my departure.

I'll never laugh arabella.

riyablossom somewhere, Pennsylvania USA

Sat Nov 15, 2008 11:02 AM CST : Why do people loss interest in CS forums?

roseofsharon: See...... I'm being ignored!!!! *throws toys out of pram*

lovaboy Big Bad Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK

Sat Nov 15, 2008 11:32 AM CST : Why do people loss interest in CS forums?

Hugz_n_Kissez: I hear ya buddy....been there done that for months..it takes the fun out of being here...which I know is the reason I am here and it's a shame cause a lot of good people seem to be targets of this type of B.S. and soon tire of it....

Yep...always the good uns.......Who says Im a good one though....??

mindfful London Chicago, Illinois USA

Sat Nov 15, 2008 11:42 AM CST : Why do people loss interest in CS forums?

arabella: I came back recently because I missed the forums.

But now I see that there are few left here who consider the feelings of others.

Even the moderators are bending the rules, letting some break the rules and cleaning up the evidence while scolding others who are simply making a joke.

I hope you all get a good laugh from my departure.

i hate that you think that would be the result of your departure

rasgumby Moberly, Missouri USA

Sat Nov 15, 2008 12:01 PM CST : Why do people loss interest in CS forums?

rizlared: I think its part of the original poster's responsibility to make sure that they reply to posts made by the less frequent poster, to include them into the conversation, it will encourage more posts and help to make the poster feel more included in the thread.JMO

This one is tough.
Some of us that have been here a while have seen it many times..
Trouble makers and the 2 faced dishonest people make 2 or more profiles/user names just to fight or disguise who they are...
So it becomes very hard to know who is real and who isnt...

I faced the same distrust when I first joined here and I got attacked.

Best thing for a newbie is to hang in there long enough to show who you really are.
put in the effort to make friends.. not just automatically expect everyone to be a friend.

mindfful London Chicago, Illinois USA

Sat Nov 15, 2008 12:04 PM CST : Why do people loss interest in CS forums?

just keep tellin the truth RG

dang

bring the dark into the light
for the 2 cannot exist together

you are not alone in your experiences and im tired of people pretending this stuff doesnt go on

but wutev-im here til i decide to leave

<<masochist

Galactic_bodhi Portland, Oregon USA

Sat Nov 15, 2008 12:20 PM CST : Why do people loss interest in CS forums?

I've been here long enough to make enough friends, and to make an effort to include the new people in on the conversations I start because they are the ones thinking outside the box, and may actually have something to say thats not preaching to the choir.

It's amazing how self-satisfied cliques become after a certain amount of time existing. Like their opinions are the only ones that matter. In that I find something to be sad about, because even Ivy League schools recognize the fact they need new blood to enhance their growth, or they just stagnate. Opinions stagnate the same way stagnant water does. In the end, they all do, unless they undergo Hegel's thesis-antithesis-synthesis process.

Welcome all the new people. Don't ridicule them. You could be chasing away the real love of your life with your stagnant, bitter opinions...

shipoker58 Las Vegas, Nevada USA

Sat Nov 15, 2008 12:30 PM CST : Why do people loss interest in CS forums?

Galactic_bodhi: I've been here long enough to make enough friends, and to make an effort to include the new people in on the conversations I start because they are the ones thinking outside the box, and may actually have something to say thats not preaching to the choir.

It's amazing how self-satisfied cliques become after a certain amount of time existing. Like their opinions are the only ones that matter. In that I find something to be sad about, because even Ivy League schools recognize the fact they need new blood to enhance their growth, or they just stagnate. Opinions stagnate the same way stagnant water does. In the end, they all do, unless they undergo Hegel's thesis-antithesis-synthesis process.

Welcome all the new people. Don't ridicule them. You could be chasing away the real love of your life with your stagnant, bitter opinions...

But if your opinions are stagnant and bitter, by all means, express them

Galactic_bodhi Portland, Oregon USA

Sat Nov 15, 2008 12:41 PM CST : Why do people loss interest in CS forums?

shipoker58: But if your opinions are stagnant and bitter, by all means, express them

There's that, ship. But your intention is to chase them away, so of course you're the exception to the rule...

shipoker58 Las Vegas, Nevada USA

Sat Nov 15, 2008 12:55 PM CST : Why do people loss interest in CS forums?

Galactic_bodhi: There's that, ship. But your intention is to chase them away, so of course you're the exception to the rule...

littlewolf nunya, Oklahoma USA

Sat Nov 15, 2008 1:33 PM CST : Why do people loss interest in CS forums?

Rexus: I see so many people join CS forums and then leave and only a few who always stick around. Wonder what could be possible reasons for people to lose interest in the CS forums?

Not trying to be judgemental but let's just brain-storm, if you like..

My reason is,if its not a religious or political forum,so everyone can tear each other apart,no one wants on it.I am sick of the name calling,the insinuations that if ur Christian, ur an idiot.And we cant read,think or know any history.So I just stay off of most of the threads,because unless I argue,I am ignored.

shipoker58 Las Vegas, Nevada USA

Sat Nov 15, 2008 1:34 PM CST : Why do people loss interest in CS forums?

littlewolf: My reason is,if its not a religious or political forum,so everyone can tear each other apart,no one wants on it.I am sick of the name calling,the insinuations that if ur Christian, ur an idiot.And we cant read,think or know any history.So I just stay off of most of the threads,because unless I argue,I am ignored.

Did you change your name, my little Cherokkee vixon?????

littlewolf nunya, Oklahoma USA

Sat Nov 15, 2008 1:41 PM CST : Why do people loss interest in CS forums?

shipoker58: Did you change your name, my little Cherokkee vixon?????

Yes Ship I deleted my profile for a few weeks,because of the nonsense.This is my real Cherokee name.Not trying to hide who I am.I have the same pic up.U have a good day.

Hugz_n_Kissez Someplace, Ontario Canada

Sat Nov 15, 2008 1:42 PM CST : Why do people loss interest in CS forums?

lovaboy: Yep...always the good uns.......Who says Im a good one though....??

I say you are...and what I say goes buster.....

shipoker58 Las Vegas, Nevada USA

Sat Nov 15, 2008 1:46 PM CST : Why do people loss interest in CS forums?

littlewolf: Yes Ship I deleted my profile for a few weeks,because of the nonsense.This is my real Cherokee name.Not trying to hide who I am.I have the same pic up.U have a good day.

oops...I meant VIX"E" N

littlewolf nunya, Oklahoma USA

Sat Nov 15, 2008 1:48 PM CST : Why do people loss interest in CS forums?

shipoker58: oops...I meant VIX"E" N

lovaboy Big Bad Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK

Sat Nov 15, 2008 2:27 PM CST : Why do people loss interest in CS forums?

Hugz_n_Kissez: I say you are...and what I say goes buster.....

yubba vilamoura, Faro Portugal

Sat Nov 15, 2008 5:20 PM CST : Why do people loss interest in CS forums?

shipoker58: Maybe...just maybe, you get more responses from those sites with "bed hoppers" because you appear to have no clothes on!! try presenting yourself as a gentleman with a shirt on, and maybe LADIES will respond to you!! Just a thought!!

And you are indeed the very one we have all been waiting for, your comment was the one valuable item lost in all of this. Living proof of what others have said has appeared yet again.

Someone who does not follow the thread but has a comment to make that has absolutely nothing to do with the main theme!.............and thats why the forums dont work well.

Tell me?, how would you personally know a Gentleman?, l expect you think he is the one who gets out of the bath to take a piss!

Conrad73 Lonesome Town Zurich, Zrich Switzerland

Sat Nov 15, 2008 5:35 PM CST : Why do people loss interest in CS forums?

yubba: And you are indeed the very one we have all been waiting for, your comment was the one valuable item lost in all of this. Living proof of what others have said has appeared yet again.

Someone who does not follow the thread but has a comment to make that has absolutely nothing to do with the main theme!.............and thats why the forums dont work well.

Tell me?, how would you personally know a Gentleman?, l expect you think he is the one who gets out of the bath to take a piss!

mindfful London Chicago, Illinois USA

Sat Nov 15, 2008 5:40 PM CST : Why do people loss interest in CS forums?

yubba: And you are indeed the very one we have all been waiting for, your comment was the one valuable item lost in all of this. Living proof of what others have said has appeared yet again.

Someone who does not follow the thread but has a comment to make that has absolutely nothing to do with the main theme!.............and thats why the forums dont work well.

Tell me?, how would you personally know a Gentleman?, l expect you think he is the one who gets out of the bath to take a piss!

yaaaaay another guy w/ evidence of whats wrong with the forums

personally i also think you should put a shirt on
i mean if the women have toor get their profile removed why not the men? i agree-youre presenting yourself half dressed of course casual sex comes to mind as your interest

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