Why do men run from a single parent?

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bushbun: I can only say for myself....because I want my own kids and do not want to waste myself on others...because I am very responsible and will for sake of abuse from society imposed against me when forcing or compelling me into such relationships never ever bend.....the same goes for interracial relationship scams with which USA and Europe are simply rapped.

Let me ask you...you single parents who claim to be such responsible and independent(it's easy to be indep[endent when gov. is giving in your ass everything while preventing other from equality...same goes for interracial..) how come that you are alone and are so many of you.....you...the statistics...the numbers who now probably outnumber us...those who are compelled into solitarity...prevented from establishing own families...our lives....

Thanks for your answers...


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bushbun: You single parents are very good for New World Order creators....to protect them...to shield those creating all these irregualrities....abnormalities....nice !

Even that you protect so much your protectorates it comes to one and single point...OBVIOUSLY YOU AND YOUR BROKEN FAMILIES DON'T MATTER HEM AT ALL....YOU ARE JUST THE TOOL FOR THEIR POLITICAL APETITES....THATS ALL (horrible truth...)
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Sound harsh and Unjust!!scold scold scold



lusciousmile Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
LACali: I think they run because they don't want any responsibility. All the men I meet my age and older have raised their kids and want to "have fun." Since I already had my fun I'm not interested in them either.


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lusciousmile Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
CjTenorSax: Sound harsh and Unjust!!


Go see what he wrote on Gilly's thread, about creating forums for the Carribean and Africa.


He's racist and bigoted.


dunno sick
bushbun: Strong and independent.....
You can't survive even tenth of what responsible people against whom genocide is going on right now are going through....You are the weakest of weak....you are the forst to fail afterall......the stories of failiure.....please keep advices to yourself and search for person willing lowering his/her standards in order to acomodate your mess.See how people in Island are trying to survive..how are struggling for bare survival all feded up with opression and repression...same styory is elsewhere all over the Europe !


Excuse me, Your profile says you are divorced. Isn't this a case of the Pot calling the Kettle Black?

I had rather had respect for you before this.

I think all of us that are Divorced are the first to fail. Shame on you.
mylifewithu: You are the second messed up person I have heard thoughts from in your state, Check the water , I truely believe there's radiaoactive isotopes there destroying brain matter.


No don't blame the beautiful state of Minnesota. I think it is that he really is a match for QUEENOFANGELS.
SeriouslyFun: Single moms rock, they are the toughest people on the planet. They make men look like wussies.
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lusciousmile Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
bushbun: Strong and independent.....
You can't survive even tenth of what responsible people against whom genocide is going on right now are going through....You are the weakest of weak....you are the forst to fail afterall......the stories of failiure.....please keep advices to yourself and search for person willing lowering his/her standards in order to acomodate your mess.See how people in Island are trying to survive..how are struggling for bare survival all feded up with opression and repression...same styory is elsewhere all over the Europe !


You are not a journalist, and you need to change your deceptive profile.


Wait, any normal person can tell you aren't!

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RobbieM Hertford, Hertfordshire, England UK
lusciousmile: You are not a journalist, and you need to change your deceptive profile.Wait, any normal person can tell you aren't!


If he's a journalist in the states i am the cookie monster.

How on earth would an illiterate cretin get a press card?

Not a chance, its another fake trouble making profile.Ignore the vermin.



lusciousmile Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
RobbieM: If he's a journalist in the states i am the cookie monster.

How on earth would an illiterate cretin get a press card?

Not a chance, its another fake trouble making profile.Ignore the vermin.




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Yep, he's probably a fake. His shirt does match his personality, though....


dunno help
RobbieM Hertford, Hertfordshire, England UK
lusciousmile: Yep, he's probably a fake. His shirt does match his personality, though....


If thats his real picture i will post a picture of me dressed up as a village people gay cowboy!

I can do the motorcycle cop one easily enough, as i have brilliant motorcycle racing leathers.

One woman i know wanted me to wear them and she wanted to just sniff me! What can i say, i meet weirdoslaugh



palmtreesinoahu n.los angeles, California USA
michae3322: Because they are still boys and cant handle the responsibility of a child. When the right one comes along he will love you and your kid or kids because they are apart of you.

right, only problem is, it could be alot of frogs/toads you may have to kiss to get to the prince, because some have good intentions, but the big picture eventually makes them do too much analyzing.



palmtreesinoahu n.los angeles, California USA
Doorman112: Personally i dont run at all if somone has children although i know some do, maybe partly because of the extra responsibility sometimes because there is another man who will always have some link and some just because they are assholes,there are probably other reasons too but its 5.39am and i've just decided to retire from doorwork so i'm tired and cant think of any others at the moment.
I dont understand the reasons as i have no problem at all with being with somone who has children so i just tried to think why somone else would have a problem.

yes you are right doorman, but the woman who doesnt have an ex in the picture definitely doesnt have to worry about another man in the pic, like me, but i just think you have to really be strongly connected and have a love bond in order for a man to stick with it, cause it is hard for both.



LACali Southern California, California USA
In response to: What I am wondering is why men run from a single parent? I am a strong willed independant woman, I am not understand????


Just the ones whose lives are total chaos and never get a life of their own even when the "kids" grow up.



palmtreesinoahu n.los angeles, California USA
rasgumby: Who pissed in your Wheaties today?

bet you most single parents can at least write in English! not only your comments but, your lack of education is shining brightly!!

Your parents were brother and sister.. right?!!

OUCH!!!!doh frustrated
princemuncher northfield, Ohio USA
babyvixon: What I am wondering is why men run from a single parent? I am a strong willed independant woman, I am not understand????


Why do women run from a single parent?

It works both ways.
eyesgreylipred Newtown, Johannesburg South Africa
I will admit that i do not understand also... however man where not made in a way to carry what is not from them. If something does not belong to them in the instance a child they do not want to be associated with that. I think that is why it is still suprising when a man marries a woman with children.

A thousand have married woman with children but it is still shocking to hear that a friend of your that has two children is married to man without children. Man are not that strong willed. I do not promise that with time they will, they will not.

I know that because i am a single mother , young and sophisticated. I am educated and all, but single and would love to be married but who will do that...

This we can not figure out... It's one of those things that we must marvell at when they are answered and when they are not, just be content...
In response to: What I am wondering is why men run from a single parent? I am a strong willed independant woman, I am not understand????
3lions Mojacar, Andalucia Spain
single parents.. zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz why? cos u fucked up and we dont want yer baggage is one view.

another may be that if we are single blokes with no kids then we aint gonna enjoy the life of fitting around someones kid.

That kid will always be linked to another bloke also.

personally i have tried it, cple o times. Im just not into kids tho probably different on my own.

Maybe give the kid to its father and then u may have some luck :-D
NelsonOKC Bydgoszcz, Kujawsko-Pomorskie Poland
In response to: What I am wondering is why men run from a single parent? I am a strong willed independent woman, I am not understand????



I'm a single dad of a 16 year old daughter. I will never tell my daughter this, but until recently she has been the main reason I have been alone most of the past 11 years since my divorce.

I have been engaged twice, but then the ladies become afraid, because my job sometimes requires me to be away from my daughter for months at a time. They don't want that responsibility. It isn't that my daughter is a trouble-maker. It is just that she exists and they know they would have to be responsible for her when I can't be there.

Dorothy is almost 17 now, and I see some light at the end of the tunnel. I have mixed feelings, because I love my daughter and she is welcome to stay with me if she needs to. However, being single for so long also is tough. I have a girlfriend now, but we still have little privacy. We have to meet at her place normally for private time, and I always must be home in the morning when my daughter wakes up. I have to be a good example for her.

I never dated a single woman with children during my years alone. It would have been nice to share the burden with her and I could help with hers. I do have friends in this situation, but never a romantic encounter.

Lastly, you describe yourself as "strong-willed". I don't know how strong you mean. If it is too strong, like overbearing, then maybe that is the problem, and not the kids.
Zeloniy Richmond, Virginia USA
It's primal. Lions eat cubs that not their own. Men seem to be less hungry... uh oh roll eyes

horrifying analogy... moping




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