HOW CAN YOU TELL IF SOMEBODY IS GOING TO TURN OUT TO BE A GOOD OR BAD LOVER ?

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gillyloves69 london, Inner London, England UK
Sun Nov 16, 2008 6:57 AM CST : HOW CAN YOU TELL IF SOMEBODY IS GOING TO TURN OUT TO BE A GOOD OR BAD LOVER ?
BY THE WAY ALL AMERICANS ARE BANNED FROM THE THREAD ( APART FROM NATIVE RED INDIANS ) !

scold

THIS THREAD IS FOR CULTURAL PEOPLE PEOPLE ONLY !...SO WE'LL HAVE NO NONSENSE ON THIS THREAD WHAT SO EVER !

professor

This Thread Is For Intellligent People Only ( Not For People That Just Keep Biting The Dust And Complaining All The Time ) !
:dispute:

i say there are 10 basic rules of attraction... and when it all goes wrong its to do with one of these ten things even though none of us are perfect ..if you've got half of these 10 things right you minght stand a decent chance !

:fish:

1. facial attraction ( to what ever degree ) !

2. physical attraction ( to what ever degre ) !

3. physical chemistry

4. physical entertainment ( to what ever degree )!

5. the liking of somebody's charactor ( too many of us go deep into the wrong charactors ) !

6. somebody you can relate you !

7. somebody that makes you feel good !
yay

8. somebody who's company you enjoy over in various circumstances over a longer period of time ( putting aside sex ) !
banana

9. somebody who wants some of the same things in life as you !

10. and most importantly ..somebody that feels the same about you as you feel about them !

BECAUSE IF THEY DON'T ..THEN ITS ALL A WASTE OF TIME !!!
crying

what does eveybody else think ?

roll eyes

have i missed anything out ?


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PietroPaoloV Göteborg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden
Sun Nov 16, 2008 6:58 AM CST : HOW CAN YOU TELL IF SOMEBODY IS GOING TO TURN OUT TO BE A GOOD OR BAD LOVER ?
No more Diethyldithiocarbamate for you, pal
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roseofsharon Buggered if I know where...?!!, Hampshire, England UK
Sun Nov 16, 2008 7:01 AM CST : HOW CAN YOU TELL IF SOMEBODY IS GOING TO TURN OUT TO BE A GOOD OR BAD LOVER ?
Just for clarity...... can you define "cultural" please? dunno

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jlb684 Athens, Attica Greece
Sun Nov 16, 2008 7:02 AM CST : HOW CAN YOU TELL IF SOMEBODY IS GOING TO TURN OUT TO BE A GOOD OR BAD LOVER ?
An American just infiltrated your thread.

And shame on you, Gilly.
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rusty_knight Gozo, Gozo Malta
Sun Nov 16, 2008 7:04 AM CST : HOW CAN YOU TELL IF SOMEBODY IS GOING TO TURN OUT TO BE A GOOD OR BAD LOVER ?
You missed out the 'pudding' factor!

The proof of the pudding is in the eating............

if it looks good, smells good, etc - it might well be good (but no guarantee)

P.S. Why have you banned Americans?

Some Americans are very 'cultural' (did you mean cultured?) people - just because you never met one doesn't mean they are all 'whatever'! tongue

And you must NOT upset nice Americans - they have a habit of shooting first and asking 'Were you joking, dude?' after!
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gillyloves69 london, Inner London, England UK
Sun Nov 16, 2008 7:04 AM CST : HOW CAN YOU TELL IF SOMEBODY IS GOING TO TURN OUT TO BE A GOOD OR BAD LOVER ?
jlb684: An American just infiltrated your thread.

And shame on you, Gilly.



scold

no you're not ..you sold your soul to live in another a long time ago !




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PietroPaoloV Göteborg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden
Sun Nov 16, 2008 7:09 AM CST : HOW CAN YOU TELL IF SOMEBODY IS GOING TO TURN OUT TO BE A GOOD OR BAD LOVER ?
"HOW CAN YOU TELL IF SOMEBODY IS GOING TO TURN OUT TO BE A GOOD OR BAD LOVER ? "

The car door test
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Steveno Mumbai India
Sun Nov 16, 2008 7:12 AM CST : HOW CAN YOU TELL IF SOMEBODY IS GOING TO TURN OUT TO BE A GOOD OR BAD LOVER ?
PietroPaoloV: "HOW CAN YOU TELL IF SOMEBODY IS GOING TO TURN OUT TO BE A GOOD OR BAD LOVER ? "

The car door test
professor wave thumbs up
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jlb684 Athens, Attica Greece
Sun Nov 16, 2008 7:13 AM CST : HOW CAN YOU TELL IF SOMEBODY IS GOING TO TURN OUT TO BE A GOOD OR BAD LOVER ?
gillyloves69: no you're not ..you sold your soul to live in another a long time ago !


With all due respect, Gilly, I never sold my soul.
Although I love living abroad and look forward to more years and more countries and more cultures and more adventures....
I am American.
I will always be American.
I make no apologies, I ask for no apologies from anyone else.
I am culturally aware, diversity-conscious, intelligent, and open to learning from others world-wide, for I do indeed learn much from my experiences.

But make no mistake.
I did not sell my soul.
And I am American.
Born so, will die so.

Now, I ask you.....is that reason enough to ban me from your thread?
If so, which of us is more "cultural"?

Must run now....have a good day and I will check back later for your response.
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mazzd03 Zabbar, Majjistral Malta
Sun Nov 16, 2008 8:01 AM CST : HOW CAN YOU TELL IF SOMEBODY IS GOING TO TURN OUT TO BE A GOOD OR BAD LOVER ?

hey everyone check this out




http://zapatopi.net/afdb/
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gillyloves69 london, Inner London, England UK
Sun Nov 16, 2008 10:16 AM CST : HOW CAN YOU TELL IF SOMEBODY IS GOING TO TURN OUT TO BE A GOOD OR BAD LOVER ?
mazzd03: hey everyone check this out

http://zapatopi.net/afdb/



dunno

whats that all about ?
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gillyloves69 london, Inner London, England UK
Sun Nov 16, 2008 10:18 AM CST : HOW CAN YOU TELL IF SOMEBODY IS GOING TO TURN OUT TO BE A GOOD OR BAD LOVER ?
jlb684: With all due respect, Gilly, I never sold my soul.
Although I love living abroad and look forward to more years and more countries and more cultures and more adventures....
I am American.
I will always be American.
I make no apologies, I ask for no apologies from anyone else.
I am culturally aware, diversity-conscious, intelligent, and open to learning from others world-wide, for I do indeed learn much from my experiences.

But make no mistake.
I did not sell my soul.
And I am American.
Born so, will die so.

Now, I ask you.....is that reason enough to ban me from your thread?
If so, which of us is more "cultural"?

Must run now....have a good day and I will check back later for your response.


no..i'm banning you from the thread for not answering the QUESTION ????


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gillyloves69 london, Inner London, England UK
Sun Nov 16, 2008 10:24 AM CST : HOW CAN YOU TELL IF SOMEBODY IS GOING TO TURN OUT TO BE A GOOD OR BAD LOVER ?
PietroPaoloV: "HOW CAN YOU TELL IF SOMEBODY IS GOING TO TURN OUT TO BE A GOOD OR BAD LOVER ? "

The car door test



professor

WHATS A CAR DOOR TEST GOT TO DO WITH WHAT WE'RE TALKING ABOUT ?


conversing

if you're talking about how much people value or respect somebody... and want to add that to the list ..then ...GREAT !!!!!


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jlb684 Athens, Attica Greece
Sun Nov 16, 2008 6:39 PM CST : HOW CAN YOU TELL IF SOMEBODY IS GOING TO TURN OUT TO BE A GOOD OR BAD LOVER ?
gillyloves69: no..i'm banning you from the thread for not answering the QUESTION ????


First, I suggest that anyone who reads this should go back and start from the beginning.

Next.
You are banning me for not answering your question???

Your question is "How can you tell if someone is going to be a good or a bad lover?"

I DO have an answer, Gilly. You can tell by how much attention he or she pays to you OUT of bed. You, for example, have chosen to ban me (first, for the crime of being American, and secondly because you said I didn't answer your question).
Hear me now.
A good lover would hear me.
He would listen to me. He would care enough about me to want to please me, as I would him.
Anything else is just a fuck. Culturally, Gilly, it doesn't really matter if you're American or British or Asian or whatever. Fucking is fucking. A good lover pays attention and a good lover wants to please.

Did I answer your question now?
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druidess6308 Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA
Sun Nov 16, 2008 6:46 PM CST : HOW CAN YOU TELL IF SOMEBODY IS GOING TO TURN OUT TO BE A GOOD OR BAD LOVER ?
gillyloves69:

i say there are 10 basic rules of attraction... and when it all goes wrong its to do with one of these ten things even though none of us are perfect ..if you've got half of these 10 things right you minght stand a decent chance !

:fish:

1. facial attraction ( to what ever degree ) !

2. physical attraction ( to what ever degre ) !

3. physical chemistry

4. physical entertainment ( to what ever degree )!

5. the liking of somebody's character ( too many of us go deep into the wrong characters ) !

6. somebody you can relate you !

7. somebody that makes you feel good !


8. somebody who's company you enjoy over in various circumstances over a longer period of time ( putting aside sex ) !


9. somebody who wants some of the same things in life as you !

10. and most importantly ..somebody that feels the same about you as you feel about them !

BECAUSE IF THEY DON'T ..THEN ITS ALL A WASTE OF TIME !!!


what does eveybody else think ?
have i missed anything out ?


I agree with your list, Gilly. Those things are very important in a relationship. However, they don't forecast whether or not the person will be good in bed. What does? How well do they kiss and how do you feel when they're kissing you?

If they make me feel really steamy when we're kissing, usually they'll do that in bed, too. JMO, based on my experience.

wave Gilly...another American that infiltrated your thread! laugh
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blueriver30 amherst, Nova Scotia Canada
Sun Nov 16, 2008 6:53 PM CST : HOW CAN YOU TELL IF SOMEBODY IS GOING TO TURN OUT TO BE A GOOD OR BAD LOVER ?
wave What's the car door test... oops are Canadians allowed inrolling on the floor laughing
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Dawn7z Denver, Colorado USA
Sun Nov 16, 2008 6:57 PM CST : HOW CAN YOU TELL IF SOMEBODY IS GOING TO TURN OUT TO BE A GOOD OR BAD LOVER ?
I adore you Gilly and your questions but I am boycotting this thread. Just teasing you lol and I didn't answer the question just popped into say hi as I am boycotting the above topic.
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Dknew Lee, New Hampshire USA
Sun Nov 16, 2008 7:07 PM CST : HOW CAN YOU TELL IF SOMEBODY IS GOING TO TURN OUT TO BE A GOOD OR BAD LOVER ?
Your thread title was interesting, some of your post was interesting BUT

gillyloves69: BY THE WAY ALL AMERICANS ARE BANNED FROM THE THREAD ( APART FROM NATIVE RED INDIANS ) !


Was just plain idiotic, If you don't want AMERICANS posting to your threads your in the wrong place.
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gillyloves69 london, Inner London, England UK
Sun Nov 16, 2008 9:15 PM CST : HOW CAN YOU TELL IF SOMEBODY IS GOING TO TURN OUT TO BE A GOOD OR BAD LOVER ?
druidess6308: I agree with your list, Gilly. Those things are very important in a relationship. However, they don't forecast whether or not the person will be good in bed. What does? How well do they kiss and how do you feel when they're kissing you?

If they make me feel really steamy when we're kissing, usually they'll do that in bed, too. JMO, based on my experience.

Gilly...another American that infiltrated your thread!



wave

hey druidess ! you're welcome anytime !


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gillyloves69 london, Inner London, England UK
Sun Nov 16, 2008 9:18 PM CST : HOW CAN YOU TELL IF SOMEBODY IS GOING TO TURN OUT TO BE A GOOD OR BAD LOVER ?
blueriver30: What's the car door test... oops are Canadians allowed in



wave

hi blueriver !

canadians are welcomed ..if you're a freind of hugz and kisisses !


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