How do you get thru the first Hoildays,when your love one passes?

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catwomen64 somewhere, New Jersey USA
Thu Nov 20, 2008 9:34 PM CST : How do you get thru the first Hoildays,when your love one passes?
I dont know if I am coming or going,my father was my all,lost ,hurt,and they want me to be just fine,it doesnt work that way,not for me,HE WAS MY EVERTHING i CANT LET GO,IS THIS NORMAL, I was always a strong.I raised my brother s but he was my HERO,my rock.............My first words were Daddy,not mommy Daddyits so hard............
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somechick Cincinnati Ohio, Ohio USA
Thu Nov 20, 2008 9:44 PM CST : How do you get thru the first Hoildays,when your love one passes?
For me it was so hard the first year without my late husband.

This second year without him may not be any different but I've finally gone through the grieving process and am finally realizing I have to move on with my life cause I'm pretty sure he would want me to do that.

Whenever I hear songs that him & me would listen to I begin to tear up.

Sorry just can't go on.
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mastic55 Long Island, New York USA
Thu Nov 20, 2008 9:44 PM CST : How do you get thru the first Hoildays,when your love one passes?
The first set of holidays may be hard, but do your best knowing that is what you father would want for you, to try to enjoy them the best you can. This is the first of the holidays without my mother, passes in july, but I know she would want me to carry on the best I can.
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catwomen64 somewhere, New Jersey USA
Thu Nov 20, 2008 9:51 PM CST : How do you get thru the first Hoildays,when your love one passes?
mastic55: The first set of holidays may be hard, but do your best knowing that is what you father would want for you, to try to enjoy them the best you can. This is the first of the holidays without my mother, passes in july, but I know she would want me to carry on the best I can.
My Daddy passed in J ULY ALSO
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Dknew Lee, New Hampshire USA
Thu Nov 20, 2008 9:51 PM CST : How do you get thru the first Hoildays,when your love one passes?
It's never easy, I can remember the 1st Hunting season and holidays without my father and they weren't the best but we got through them.
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mastic55 Long Island, New York USA
Thu Nov 20, 2008 9:55 PM CST : How do you get thru the first Hoildays,when your love one passes?
catwomen64: My Daddy passed in J ULY ALSO
My Mom passed on the 15th. When I wake up for a few seconds I think it was a dream.. I know it will get better as time passes.
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catwomen64 somewhere, New Jersey USA
Thu Nov 20, 2008 9:56 PM CST : How do you get thru the first Hoildays,when your love one passes?
i DO NOT WANT TO DO tHANKSGIVING,CHRISTMAS,iT WAS ALWAYS AT MY HOUSE,NOW ITS EMPTYJUST ME AND MY kITTYS
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mastic55 Long Island, New York USA
Thu Nov 20, 2008 10:01 PM CST : How do you get thru the first Hoildays,when your love one passes?
catwomen64: i DO NOT WANT TO DO tHANKSGIVING,CHRISTMAS,iT WAS ALWAYS AT MY HOUSE,NOW ITS EMPTYJUST ME AND MY kITTYS
I know your hurting, maybe for the upcoming holidays take a rest and light a candle for you Dad. I know it will get a little easier as time goes on.
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catwomen64 somewhere, New Jersey USA
Thu Nov 20, 2008 10:04 PM CST : How do you get thru the first Hoildays,when your love one passes?
mastic55: My Mom passed on the 15th. When I wake up for a few seconds I think it was a dream.. I know it will get better as time passes.
my father passed the 28,I have never been the same,he is my rock,and my rock is gone
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catwomen64 somewhere, New Jersey USA
Thu Nov 20, 2008 10:04 PM CST : How do you get thru the first Hoildays,when your love one passes?
So sorry 4 your loss
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catwomen64 somewhere, New Jersey USA
Thu Nov 20, 2008 10:14 PM CST : How do you get thru the first Hoildays,when your love one passes?
mastic55: My Mom passed on the 15th. When I wake up for a few seconds I think it was a dream.. I know it will get better as time passes.
mine also this is a tuff one my father lived with me all my life
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mastic55 Long Island, New York USA
Thu Nov 20, 2008 10:30 PM CST : How do you get thru the first Hoildays,when your love one passes?
catwomen64: mine also this is a tuff one my father lived with me all my life
I remember the first time I lost someone close, it was my grandmother and I was 13, I was feeling so bad than I lost my sister when I was 15 and that was the worst for me till this day. My brother passed when he was 51 and I'm happy my parents live into their 80's. And I know my Mom would want me and the kids to enjoy the holidays best we can. It's still new and I know it will get better for you in time, I pray it will.
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catwomen64 somewhere, New Jersey USA
Thu Nov 20, 2008 10:37 PM CST : How do you get thru the first Hoildays,when your love one passes?
mastic55: I remember the first time I lost someone close, it was my grandmother and I was 13, I was feeling so bad than I lost my sister when I was 15 and that was the worst for me till this day. My brother passed when he was 51 and I'm happy my parents live into their 80's. And I know my Mom would want me and the kids to enjoy the holidays best we can. It's still new and I know it will get better for you in time, I pray it will.
thank you I will pray for u also,u r sweet, my brother passed earlier,also I feel you you r kind thank you
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A_Smile_4u small town, Nebraska USA
Thu Nov 20, 2008 11:24 PM CST : How do you get thru the first Hoildays,when your love one passes?
My heart goes out to you and yes it is very hard to lose some one you love dearly..But we all have a time to go and I feel that your father wouldnt want to see you sad like this and I no its very hard not to be so sad..But I bet he loved seeing you smile and seeing you happy..SO maybe just try to be some what happy for the holidays and just remember all the fun times you had you see he is always in your heart and that you have with you forever...angel
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sxc666 Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
Thu Nov 20, 2008 11:41 PM CST : How do you get thru the first Hoildays,when your love one passes?
catwomen64: I dont know if I am coming or going,my father was my all,lost ,hurt,and they want me to be just fine,it doesnt work that way,not for me,HE WAS MY EVERTHING i CANT LET GO,IS THIS NORMAL, I was always a strong.I raised my brother s but he was my HERO,my rock.............My first words were Daddy,not mommy Daddyits so hard............
sad flower hug
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catwomen64 somewhere, New Jersey USA
Thu Nov 27, 2008 4:58 AM CST : How do you get thru the first Hoildays,when your love one passes?
I love n miss you with all my heart Daddy..........Happy Thanksgiving in Heaven,your Daddys Little Girl.....xoxoxo
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tallaght_guy dublin, Dublin Ireland
Thu Nov 27, 2008 5:16 AM CST : How do you get thru the first Hoildays,when your love one passes?
hey catwoman
i know how you feel i lost my stepfather to cancer 3 yrs ago for last 10 yrs was only 2 of us for 6 months i was just numb then over the next year it was small things you miss
but eventually life returns to normal after a couple of years and i know he would wish it no other way
im sure your father would feel the same and that you cherish his memory but enjoy your life
i know its a cliche but its true what they say time heals teddybear
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WhatUwish4 Jacksonville, Florida USA
Thu Nov 27, 2008 5:45 AM CST : How do you get thru the first Hoildays,when your love one passes?
catwomen64: I dont know if I am coming or going,my father was my all,lost ,hurt,and they want me to be just fine,it doesnt work that way,not for me,HE WAS MY EVERTHING i CANT LET GO,IS THIS NORMAL, I was always a strong.I raised my brother s but he was my HERO,my rock.............My first words were Daddy,not mommy Daddyits so hard............



My heart goes out to you Cat...
hug hug
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somechick Cincinnati Ohio, Ohio USA
Thu Nov 27, 2008 7:20 AM CST : How do you get thru the first Hoildays,when your love one passes?
This is the 2nd holiday season without my late husband but I'll get through. I'll be spending this year with some friends so that'll help some.
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guiriman south of milan, Lombardy Italy
Thu Nov 27, 2008 7:35 AM CST : How do you get thru the first Hoildays,when your love one passes?
I understand your pain because I lost my mother 4 years ago ....It seems hard to believe, even now, that we will never meet again. I remember people carrying on with their everyday life as if nothing had happened...which, of course, for them it hadn't, but still it seemed bizarre. I miss her and I can't imagine a time when that will be any different. I empathise with you. sad flower
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