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StressFree: WTF? What man fakes his orgasm?

littleboy: yes ,i dont get it.What about the volcano,it doesnt explode?

jbibiza: ... and there lies the answer to your question. Why is that there has to be a problem?

Sometimes my body just doesn´t want to cooperate... maybe the nerve endings have become to sensitive, or not sensitive enough, tension, tired... what ever the reason doesn´t matter. The simple fact is my body isn´t going to respond the way it normally would. It doesn´t mean I´m not enjoying what we´re doing, it doesn´t mean it´s "not working".

The problem arises when a mans ego won´t just let it go and insists on bringing you to orgasm... that´s when I fake it.

As long as a man understands that some nights I may have several orgasms and on the occasional night I may not have any and isn´t threatened by that, then there is no need for me to fake it.

JustJohnCQ: I guess that's the point I'm trying to make.
Isn't it better to be up front and work out why things aren't working the way they should.
And yes, we can fake it, can't say i'm proud of it, but that's another story.

jbibiza: ... and there lies the answer to your question. Why is that there has to be a problem?

Sometimes my body just doesn´t want to cooperate... maybe the nerve endings have become to sensitive, or not sensitive enough, tension, tired... what ever the reason doesn´t matter. The simple fact is my body isn´t going to respond the way it normally would. It doesn´t mean I´m not enjoying what we´re doing, it doesn´t mean it´s "not working".

The problem arises when a mans ego won´t just let it go and insists on bringing you to orgasm... that´s when I fake it.

As long as a man understands that some nights I may have several orgasms and on the occasional night I may not have any and isn´t threatened by that, then there is no need for me to fake it.

jbibiza: ... and there lies the answer to your question. Why is that there has to be a problem?

Sometimes my body just doesn´t want to cooperate... maybe the nerve endings have become to sensitive, or not sensitive enough, tension, tired... what ever the reason doesn´t matter. The simple fact is my body isn´t going to respond the way it normally would. It doesn´t mean I´m not enjoying what we´re doing, it doesn´t mean it´s "not working".

The problem arises when a mans ego won´t just let it go and insists on bringing you to orgasm... that´s when I fake it.

As long as a man understands that some nights I may have several orgasms and on the occasional night I may not have any and isn´t threatened by that, then there is no need for me to fake it.

Ambrose2007: Sometimes I *think* I've had an orgasm which doesn't involve ejaculation - it's a flash through the body and a glowing buzz in the head which has nearly the same satisfying effect as a "full-blown" ejaculative orgasm (not sure how this compares to a woman's climax, but maybe it's something akin to it). Also believe I've successfully achieved multiple orgasms by forcefully blunting ejaculation (techniques/instructions available online - highly recommend).

Not this thread's topic, exactly....hmmmm...gives me an idea...

druidess6308: Exactly, JB...sometimes things aren't going to respond the way they normally do, especially as we get older (though yes, it happened when I was younger, too). I don't fake it...and if a man can't understand that it won't always happen, but I'm still enjoying things, then he's just not the right man for me. I still won't fake it for his ego's sake...sorry, but I'm just too honest, I guess.

Lagoona22: Maybe if you both agree to fake it ahead of time, it'll be so funny that you won't have to fake it, if you know what I mean...

Raymond1953: To all the women that insist on honesty in a relationship..
Don't you think that such lie would be the worst lie you could possibly tell a man?
It strikes at the very foundation of trust in a relationship.
You're not doing a man any favors by lying about something so important.
In my opinion, you're a hypocrite and you don't deserve the honesty you demand in return.

Raymond1953: To all the women that insist on honesty in a relationship..
Don't you think that such lie would be the worst lie you could possibly tell a man?
It strikes at the very foundation of trust in a relationship.
You're not doing a man any favors by lying about something so important.
In my opinion, you're a hypocrite and you don't deserve the honesty you demand in return.

Lagoona22: nah....I just don't take it that seriously...don't you think it would be funny to ASK a woman to fake it to see how good an actress she is??...anyone with the best performance gets a free f**....

druidess6308: You just made me think of that scene from "When Harry Met Sally"...the one where she fakes one in the restaurant.

druidess6308: You just made me think of that scene from "When Harry Met Sally"...the one where she fakes one in the restaurant.

Lagoona22: Maybe if you both agree to fake it ahead of time, it'll be so funny that you won't have to fake it, if you know what I mean...