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The idea of honesty is great but when you end up with someone who is very performance oriented then there is no room for that type of honesty they don't want to hear it. That is precisely why I am not dating anymore. I know there are a lot of men out there who have loving relationships with women but in my dating experiences I would pick the wrong guys and it was all about notches to them baby. When you are a notch they don't care really about whether you are faking it or not. Sorry if I am being too honest dang it. I know I know I found the wrong guys lol. Hard to doing your growing up in the dating arena when you are in your forties the things you should have learned much younger in life.

Faking an orgasm is one of the worst things a woman can do to a man. If the man finds out that his partner is faking, it can destroy his ego.

Women tend to have fewer orgasms than men and therefore have a tendency to fake a lot more orgasms. Studies have revealed the main reason women fake orgasms are to inflate the man need for approval or remove any feelings of sexual inadequacy and shame.

Here are two ways you know when she is faking it:

1. Her breathing rate doesn't change. When women go into orgasm, they breathe more deeply and slowly. They can't help it. However, if they're breathing rate doesn't change it probably means that they're faking it.
2. Another way to know she is faking her orgasm is to see there is any consistency in her behavior. For example, after a real orgasm, she would normally slow down and try to rest. Her face will be red and sometimes they would sweat. But if she is faking it, she would do another thing quickly, such as watching TV, as if she didn't have any recollection of doing it.
3. The best way to be absolutely sure she is not faking it is by knowing that a women curls they're toes when they having a real orgasm. It's a natural reflex and it cannot be stopped consciously. When you're having sex with her, look down at her toes and see if her toes curl. It's easier to spot than checking her breathing.

Maybe you had a small stroke?

Man "up for a bit of hanky panky tonight"

Woman " Umm not sure, what do you think, there's a good film on soon"

Man " well the footballs on at 9, so if its a quickie"

Woman " well I'll just fake it then"

Man " I could do that, then we can see the film as well"

Woman " so we both fake it hey, hardly worth the effort"

Man " yer, fancy a pizza instead"

Woman "Best offer I've had all night"

Peoples egos are at stake here, and there's nothing funny about it.
You're always better off with the truth.
If one person in the relationship finds out you lied, you got big trouble.
That is... unless both parties don't give a shit.
Then where's the point there?

Actually there's much more, You would fill her spasms in the vagina area and/or feel a rush of warm fluids. My toes never curl

Ego's or not if he is going to be the kind to get all mad cause she didn't finish and 3rd degree her as to why her body didn't do it then he needs lied too.

Oh jeez....sex should be fun....fake or no fake...if you can laugh about it together, you don't have to fake anything...jmo

I never realized strokes could feel so good!

It is more than people's egos its about relationship and these forums at the same time as having serious ideas floating around have bits of humor here and there. That's cool that you always desire the truth yipppeee for you. Doesn't mean both parties don't care. Sometimes when you care about someone's feelings you aren't honest. Sex is awesome but it's not the be all end all of our existences. I am more concerned with people's feelings at times then being totally honest to the point of hurting them. There is nothing wrong with a bit of humor on here helps diffuse things.

Faking is a lie period.
There is NO excuse to lie about anything at all whatsoever...big or small.
If you think it's no big deal, then you're saying your relationship is no big deal.
All lies eventually take on a life of it's own and in time you WILL be caught

Right on if you have been able to be honest to every woman in your life all the time. My hat off to you.

guys faking orga orga orgasms

A man who can´t laugh with me in bed.... has no place in my bed!

Now that the hats out of the way, what do I do to get the rest off.

Are you thinking I am an alien Mastic. Dammit I didn't want my secret to get out like that.

I know what your saying, the girls laugh at me as soon as I drop my draws.

I won't tell.