Faking orgasms -- why do we do it?

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mastic55: Now that the hats out of the way, what do I do to get the rest off.


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Dawn7z SALEM OR,DENVER CO, Oregon USA
jbibiza: A man who can´t laugh with me in bed.... has no place in my bed!


amen sista.
mastic55: I won't tell.
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Raymond1953 Boston Mass, Massachusetts USA
Dawn7z: Right on if you have been able to be honest to every woman in your life all the time. My hat off to you.

I find it much easier to sleep at night that way.
Dawn7z SALEM OR,DENVER CO, Oregon USA
mastic55: I won't tell.


You dang right you won't I have seen several comments on various threads of you scoping out the scene trying to find some aliens. Go watch Men in Black might give you an idea of how to find them. Nanunanu. lol
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roseofsharon Buggered if I know where...?!!, Hampshire, England UK
"Faking orgasms -- why do we do it?"


Coz we think men care...???!! roll eyes
dunno

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mastic55 Long Island, New York USA
Dawn7z: You dang right you won't I have seen several comments on various threads of you scoping out the scene trying to find some aliens. Go watch Men in Black might give you an idea of how to find them. Nanunanu. lol
Men in black,,,,I'm on my way to blockbusters, it might be the holy grail I'm looking for.thumbs up
mastic55 Long Island, New York USA
roseofsharon: "Faking orgasms -- why do we do it?"Coz we think men care...???!!
I think woman my fake it to please her mate because she cares for him and don't want to hurt his pride, but how could a guy fake itconfused
DazzleYou Seattle, WA, Washington USA
I have faked it a few times before. There have been times when I have lasted WAY longer than I wanted to and I just faked it so that I could take a shower and go to sleep.



Blond32 saskatoon, Saskatchewan Canada
I have faked it, for various reasons. One was to not hurt his pride. Another was to get it over and done with. doh But age and maturity have taught me, that it's better to just be up front and honest. Nothing is going to change by hiding from the issue. And if worse comes to worse, just do it yourself and go to sleep! lolbanana



Marseilles Somewhere, Indiana USA
I've never faked it and I don't know nor care to know if a partner has faked it with me because if one feels the need to fake it instead of talking to me about "a problem" then it's their problem, especially if I don't know about it.
I rather have someone tell me what's going on than fake it, then I can at least tend to it.
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HJFinAZ Sun CIty, Arizona USA
fireliter: sometimes its as simple a reason as an act of kindness.then it is useful when it almost time for the game to begin tooI guess whats the most hurtful about all this "faking it" is when you reveal to them that you indeed did ... thats just cruel and mean and hurtful.


Just goes to show, most women do lie...rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

And they say men lie..dunno
HJFinAZ Sun CIty, Arizona USA
jbibiza: A man who can´t laugh with me in bed.... has no place in my bed!


And if you ain't got in the living room, you ain't got it...devil
When I first started having sex I sometimes had to fake it because the women I was with didn't know what they were doing and would sometimes do things that actually hurt. Eventually I found a partner that was honest about things in bed and I realized that it would be good to do so as well. You tell them what feels good and vice-versa and everything tends to get a lot better. thumbs up
RowdyBoy Central, Tennessee USA
In response to: Or are we just faking to avoid conflict?


I think we do it to avoid conflict.. conversing

Some gals get AWFULLY MAD if they think you didn't.

And one way or another they'll make you pay dearly.. wow

Better just to pretend, and keep harmony between the sheets.
A small price to pay to get to watch the football game.

-RB thumbs up





B_S1965 champlin, Minnesota USA
roseofsharon: "Faking orgasms -- why do we do it?"Coz we think men care...???!!
I care if the women i'm with is happy because I want it to be as good for them as it is for me.
druidess6308 Reverse, Pennsylvania USA
RowdyBoy: I think we do it to avoid conflict..

Some gals get AWFULLY MAD if they think you didn't.

And one way or another they'll make you pay dearly..

Better just to pretend, and keep harmony between the sheets.
A small price to pay to get to watch the football game.

-RB


See...that's wrong of them. And it's taking it personally. Sometimes, men and women just don't get there, and that's okay...it doesn't mean anyone was doing something wrong, or not doing enough right...sometimes, it just ain't happening. So...you talk, laugh, cuddle...watch a movie together, whatever. And try again another night. I'm honest...if I didn't get there, and we both know it, and I realize I'm not going to get there, I don't fake it...I let the man know. I would want him to do the same.

Raymond1953 Boston Mass, Massachusetts USA
I was taught growing up that a lie is a lie..plain and simple
This is no excuse for it...EVER
For those of you that lie, stop trying to justify it.
There is no justification



PietroPaoloV Göteborg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden
JustJohnCQ: I'm sure we have all done it at one time or another (Yes girls, us guys fake it too sometimes).
But is it the right thing to do?
Shouldn't we be up front with our bed-buddy?
Or are we just faking to avoid conflict?


Are you bloody real between your ear!?

You've faked a cum!?

Jesus sperming Christ!



MindyQ Philadelphia, Pennsylvania USA
JustJohnCQ: I'm sure we have all done it at one time or another (Yes girls, us guys fake it too sometimes).
But is it the right thing to do?
Shouldn't we be up front with our bed-buddy?
Or are we just faking to avoid conflict?


Faking an orgasm is a little white lie that I tell to make a guy feel good. No harm right?

You guys fake it? I wonder how you do that? Do you bring a secret little container of "something" and empty it inside us when we are pretending to have our orgasm?




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