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oh babe i thought i was having a funny turn,,,lol!!!



so thats what it is...now i feel like a woman heheheheh ...happy chritmas to u xbabs

Because we're frustrated actors and we have a captive and appreciate audience?

OK, I think this was intended for the men, but I'll answer anyway. I'd rather he said, "Not tonight."

Again, if you're secure and comfortable in your relationship this shouldn't cause hurt feelings or insecurities. If you're not secure and comfortable enough in your relationship for either partner to be able to give this answer, then IMO, you're with the wrong partner.

Exactly.

I've never faked it! I'm not sure how to, after all if your banging away like a maniac a woman will expect a response, even if its asking to to stop and bugger off down the shops as she's out of milk and bread.Normally there's clearing up to do or someone gets a wet patch to sleep in....so i'm confused by the faking it bit!

Keekee too funny I want to watch and learn! lol

Dawn wait a second! first you say you're just divorced and not ready to date and then you say youre tired of dating cause of all the guys worried about performance. Which is it?

Another question Dawn and way more important. I took my little girl to Colorado this summer and Estes Park had neighborhoods where the yards had rabbits! live ones - that was so nice. Where else in Colorado does this happen?

PS I never fake an orgasm - in fact sometimes I'm not even easy!

I had no idea either, but then it has been a lonnnng time.

Oh wow! I did not know there was such a thing!!

I second this post

I have faked orgasms, when I was younger, in my teens, I thought it was the right thing to do.

I see no shame in admitting that, we all have to learn what makes us feel good...

Now, I can be upfront, and tell him.

Comes with a bit of self confidence.

I didn't think guys could fake it... ...

Some guys claim to have dry orgasms..... still dont know what that means

The bottom line is, that if you have to fake anything with a person that you're in a relationship with, you are definitely with the wrong people. Faking an orgasm is something that you would do with a one night stand. And in my opinion it's pretty fucking stupid. I would only fake an orgasm if I was with someone that I didn't want to be with, and wanted to get it over with and go. Why would you fake an orgasm with someone that you're in a relationship with? You can't talk to each other? Both of you are fucking stupid? What the hell is wrong with people?

Not sure who your profane post is directed at, but it is rather unpleasant to say the least.

Still, you look like the sort of man, I would come to with a problem.

This is a discussion forum, where people post their experiences, not a licence for you to deliver posts such as above.
Here is a question for you!

Why would you be with a person, you did not want to be with?

Women fake orgasms, get over yourself.

I did when I was younger, as I said. It is learning about oneself and learning abut sex, I do not have to fake now, but I still am learning, even at 40.

Never had to fake it when I was younger with young lovers, but I have once or twice with older lovers. Only to make him feel better about himself, and yes, I agree it´s probably not the best thing to do.

Of course if I were in a steady relationship then I would not.

main reason i think we do it is to try and plese our parner.nothing worse than faking it.

I faked it once, lost concentration and my hand slipped-off the end and knocked me out

That's where you dry out and get stuck..... and have to use WD-40 to break loose.

I know it is rare for men, but I use to fake it a lot

I would just hock and spit on her back