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Sorry for your pain...

You know it really gets to me when i read and
people easily say MOVE ON..

Easier said then done..

I am sorry you are feeling hurt right now..

TIME is the key word..

It may get easier to tolerate but if you have strong love
it may stay for a very long time..

Maybe keep urself busy with something you enjoy..

Or come here and chat to us..

we will try to make you feel at least a little better

YOu know alot have had their heart broken..

but i will tell you this..and i do beleive in this

EVERYTHING DOES HAPPEN FOR A REASON

So very true! I know it hurts right now, but honestly, time IS the best healer. Just surround yourself with friends & laughter.

Yes, I've had my heart broken, more times than I care to count, really. I've discovered that it heals. I've learned that a broken heart is not the end of the world. It sucks, but you move on, one step, one moment at a time. And someday, you find that you're ready to do it again.

I don't hold back when I love, I give it full-out, no holds barred...and live completely that way. Life is for living, and to love less is not to live fully, but to be half dead. Life's too short for that.

No, it's not easy. I'll never say that. But it can be done.

yep plenty times but wat u got to do is get back up an show them that life goes on.

For all those hurting right now!

Merky

Think of it as a chemical reaction. You have to let your body adjust. You have to give it time to leach out it's chemicals.

A friend of mine came over to see me (something he hardly ever does) a few years ago. He thought he was going mad because he had driven past a service station where his ex was filling up her car and his body started to shake. Geoff had been single for many years after the tragic death of his young son. He had "taken up" with his next door neighbour and for about 18 months they had an active affectionate life. She had found another guy who owned a hydroponic equipment business and quite frankly could supply her with "hydro" that Geoff never touched.

I explained to Geoff that the shakes was his ancient brain trying to force him to go and have sex with someone it knew he could have sex with. The ancient part of the brain doesn't consider modern laws or even civilized behaviour. It took him another six months but now he can pass her in the street and laugh inside at the effect she had on him.

Allow yourself to feel whatever it is you feel, and to whatever depths.

But keep doing what needs to be done, do not stop. Life does go on, no matter how miserable and distraught you might feel.

Then nthe next day you will be fine!

Nah, sorry, I am being flippant, but you will be OK.

And stronger for it.

All the best and Happy New Year to all.

okay girl you want a broken heart story. Of course you do not. He left me and moved in with this woman across the street. It killed me, and she and I were friends. I know she does not bathe often. He is still there. Told me I lost too much weight. She weighs about 300 plus pounds. Sad thing is I lost the weight from insulin, by accident, but i like what it is doing to my body. SO screw him. So think of something really gross about her that you know, and ask yourself do I want him back after he has been there? Trust me it works.

Sometimes you have to be a girl about these things, and also I did a lot of crying, so it will go away, I know it feels like it never will just give it time.

So why are you complaining? No woman was ever attracted to me, and none ever will be. I accepted reality and bought a Realdoll, she will never, ever break my heart.

I was in a serious relationship for two years i still think of her everyday. she was my soul-mate and i cant get her back. its like she died and i cant see her

Oh yeasss there is a cure ... (and I bet somebody has mentioned that already


Those who've got their hearts well broken: Do not swivel in misery ... go out and find somebody else to love.

As for all those hurting feelings ... isn't it because that person put selfesteem down. Isn't we all, with broken hurts feel pity for ourselves and being selfish when it comes to see how happy your ex lover with another woman or a man?
Emotions, emotions ...

All of said above is only a thought for a discussion

Well ... I reread my post .... Apparently my English is broken as well, this morning.

But there is still a hope that you people got an idea

I'm sorry to hear that you are going through so much pain. I can relate to how you feel. I am 66 years old. When I was in high school I had a crush on a boy. We graduated high school but I never forgot him. I even looked at his picture all through the years. I was able to get in touch with him through classmates dot com in 2005 and to make a long story short, we fell in love. He was a long haul truck driver and didn't have any money so I gave him money and gifts. We talked about living together and I had every reason to believe that it would happen. I saw him Christmas 2005 and little did I know that it would be the last time I saw him. He never said goodbye, never said get lost and never gave me the courtesy of explaining why he wanted it to end. He just dumped me out with the garbage. To this day 1/29/09) I am still hurt. I waited 45 years for him to come back into my life and then he only break my heart. It is difficult for me to trust again or even think about loving again. Originally I was on this site to hopefully find someone that I could trust but it hasn't worked. Now I'm on this site for communication with other people. So yes, I do know what it feels like to have a broken heart. My guess is that everyone on single sites has had someone dig down into their heart and rip it to pieces. Since you are younger than I am you still have a chance to find love. My only suggestion is that it won't help you to think about him being with her. Think about how he is going to feel when SHE breaks HIS heart. I know that's not the Christian way to think but - what goes around comes around and he will have his day GOOD LUCK TO YOU

time is the allie,,,but,,the longer it takes to heal,,the taller the wall

so true.....

There are no walls tall or thick enough that true Love will not shatter them like the walls of Jericho or like a ghost pass right through them. Time heals all wounds but Love makes the time worth living.

she should be toting a sledge hammer