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thanks sweet...you words are beautiful and so true..thank you

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If i feel it? I will put myself in position for a broken heart anytime.
I could be dead tomorrow, so i am going to love today.

I have had a broken heart, yes, of course. Most recently, not so much a broken heart (we hadn't been seeing each other that long) but major disappointment, yes.

That said, I think the disappointment comes from realising that he was not the person he portrayed. I really liked the person he pretended to be, not the REAL him, as it turned out.

I have no suggestions for a fix, each has their own way of dealing with things.

For me personally, I don't handle disappointment well.... I am not a lover of sadness and melancholy, I am much better at handling such things if I am angry rather than being upset.

I do hope you find a way.... truly I do!! But it has to be what works for YOU.

One Day at a TIME keep busy. Only time will remove the pain try not to get mad forgive and move to the future where your life begins for you again. Remember it all has a reason that you will understand later. Letting go is not easy but you will get through it believe me. Rest your mind

I too have had my heart broken after two years i found out that after all i put into this relationship meant nothing to him. He knew everything about me and yet promise he would never hurt me. All i want from anyone is honesty and all i got was lies.

But i picked myself up and started college for the first time in my life and i am loving the challenge......I am happy with me and thats all that matters in my world today

Find a friend a dog works well and they won't lie to you a cat or horse will do the same. worked for me

You know at the time it seems like you will never get over it. I think it is the worst emotional hurt possible. It just takes a lot of time. Mine was about 17 years ago and i still think of her often. After we broke up she got married. A few years later her husband died. Her father beggged me to go see her. I told him that i would never, ever go through that hurt again. Life goes on. She was my wish upon a star....Eric

Spend some time with your girlfriends, take a girls weekend. Try new hobbies and new things. Take some time to figure out who you are on your own. Learn your strengths as a single. Give your heart time to heal and take advantage of time by living your life to it's fullest. Take care of you...

Oh yes I know that pain only to well. It really is only time that will help,it took 2 years before I could think of him without hurting. And no,lookimng for someone else before you have healed will not help.

It will NEVER happen again, I will not put myself in that position.

Our relationship meant the world to me....at one point it was all i felt I had good in my life.
Yes i lied to you about what was going on inside me and was too frightened to admit the truth to you because of your hurtfull past and too weak to admit it to myself too and i lost you in the process.
You did and still do deserve everything good in this world Nuala and i am sorry that it isn't me that can give you all that, especialy as you have helped me so much and i gave little in return. I loved you the day I met you and I guess i always will.
So be healthy and be happy and I know there are 8 kids who will always love you plus this daft Scotsman will alaways have a place for you in his heart.
Take care and God bless,

You mean "won't" stop it..

maybe you are right, I am feeling a bit better because of some wonderful people here that I don't know but have taking the time to talk with me and help feel stronger. My mind still goes "there" but I try to tell myself that I did nothing wrong he was the one that couldn't handle having a little child around

Just keep remembering that Tonya. It will get better, I promise!

yes ive had my heart really broken too in time u will come to realise it for the best u will one day turn around and say what did i ever see in him and laugh chin up loads of excite guys out there for u

u are not alone dear,its happen to all of us,its a challenge,we feel lost,hurt and depressed but no one will healed except ourselves,it is not the end ot the road, still there is good things will happen and come to us,cheer up girl.....kick and scream..dont be lost.....

Last October, I had a two year relationship end with who I thought was the total love of my life... After last October after telling me how much she cared for me and wanted to spend her life with me, she abandoned me and never wrote again. It was crushing and I cannot say that I do not think of her everyday, but time is a healer and sometimes one must focus on the behavior of the other person rather than beating yourself over the head blaming yourself.I guess the moral of all of this is to forgive and move on!! Notice I didn't say forget, because you will never forget the person whom you loved. The feeling sucks but then you can always realize that you could have worse problems in your life than someone who didn't appreciate you. All the best!!

That is really rough what happened.

You have this relationship that you think can never end...you are so right for each other, and then out of the blue, she walks away.

I sort of went through the same thing. One of the worse parts is trying to figure out why. That about drove me over the cliff.

And to try and trust someone new is very difficult. The pain from the unresolved relationship is always there, but you have to keep moving forward.

Sorry for what happened to you...

As everyone already said time is the biggest thing. Yes, I had my heartbroken...too many times. But the last really was the worst. We talked everyday, all day, and then he was gone. No good-bye, no explanation, just gone. I felt so alone all of a sudden. Someone recommended coming on this site to meet someone new. While I would like to find someone special, I think just being able to talk to others in these forums has helped more than anything.

Give it time, make friends, talk and it will get better.