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you do....she doesn't!!

Yep...that would shock me alright...but my answer would have to be no cause I like men too much...and that's who I want a relationship with....but to each his/her own darlin...it's whatever makes ya happy that counts....

Whether or not you have it sorted out by now or not depends on exactly how you felt about what she said. If it's left you confused and in a bit of a tailspin, then I'd say that you didn't have it figured out yet, and that you should proceed to explore this very carefully if you're tempted to do so...only because this is a friend, and a failed experiment could harm the friendship much more than saying "no, thank you, I'm straight". She'll respect you for your honesty, and if you're comfortable doing so, you'll be able to keep the friendship.

Good luck.

she has known me for a number of years, and I have always prefered MEN or should I say ( cock) even though she knows this she has come out with the fact that "she loves me" which is nice to know But where do I go from here?
I do like her friendship, but I know what I like !!!!

Even though I have told her, she wants "to look after me" which means to me I have a decision, either cut all ties to this women or try again to let her down gently, when I tried to explain that I liked "cock" she said if you have to go with your EX thats fine, I don't think I can let this person down gently .....

If it's not an option for you I would say I don't want to risk our friendship so no thanks

Oh I see...yes well having sex with someone and having a relationship with them is two different things..something your friend is not getting...so it seems...BUT she will have to listen as the choice is yours and not hers doll...

Wow, good luck with that you lucky devil you. Just kidding DeeDee. Think on it before you say anything.

Oh shit!

I understand. I hope it all works out for you. You know her, and she knows you, and if she's ignoring what you're saying, then you're probably right. The only way would be to break off the friendship. That's not easy, but you might have to do it for you.

They say everyone comes into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. She might have had her season in your life, and this is how it ends. I know how hard that can be...had a 25-year friendship break off for different reasons, and it shouldn't have over what it did. Sometimes, it just happens when it's meant.

Double oh shit. I guess "I" would lose my friendship with her if it came down to it. Wish you the best on your decision.

Hate to lose her friendship over this, she is a lovely friend and I think I am to her, but basicaly now she wants more,

if I was to give in I know I would be well catered for, also I would be allowed to do what ever I wanted too....

On a selfishish scale this would be right, on my scale this would be wrong as I am not that way exclaimed

thanks ship, know which way I have to go now

Where do YOU "want" to go?

If a friendship is lost over a no, then it was not a real friendship to begin with..

I've always been a person who likes my meat well done, so therefore, my theory would be to tell her that you dont eat anything that bleed for a week and still lived!

Sorry...prolly inappropriate...but true!

Don't want to go anywhere????

Like being here and now,

just confused as she is a lovely person but I know what I like