DizzyDi: she has known me for a number of years, and I have always prefered MEN or should I say ( cock) even though she knows this she has come out with the fact that "she loves me" which is nice to know But where do I go from here?
I do like her friendship, but I know what I like !!!!
Hold true to your own self. It's so important. If you know what you like - then you know waht you like. treat her the same way you would a male freind that you weren't interested in who said the same thing.
Oh and be carefull, she could turn on you in a sec and probably wont give it up there'll be lot of subtle little things. Sorry hon but there's a very good chance it could blow up on ya. (woman scorned and all that - hey you may find out why us guys have so much trouble with ladies)
If you are long term friends and you are honest and lay it down then there's a better chance it'll go ok.
Good luck - not a fun situation - (yeah been in similar situation with someone close to me)