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In my opinion, closing a relation ship with out a definite resolution, truly means you have not closed the relation ship and you are still hopping for something good to happen.
Be patient and have your mind and your heart open, to act sensitively, as love reorganises itself, behind your back.

No, but heal first, and make sure you're ready. You'll know when that is.

Life is too short,never stop looking..............you never know unless you try

I think this is an area where we all need to come to this realization; love is not something we find, but something that finds us. The more we put ourselves physicaly out and around other people, the greater the chance it will find you. Some can find it on a web site. But nothing can replace the built in receptors in our own body. You can't get a whif of pharamones through a computer. Chemicals we transmit and recieve from those around us play a huge role in physical attraction. Let's face it, our first attraction to others is physical. So get out and around real physical people and see what happens. Come back and tell us all about it.

Yes...until there is some sort of resolution, even if it's within myself. I don't go into one relationship still carrying the baggage from another. It's not fair to anyone involved...especially since it means that I wouldn't be able to give the new man my whole love and trust if some of that love is still being felt for another man.

I feel one should be whole, and fully healed, before trying to love another person. That's the only way to start a new relationship, IMO.

Any reason is a good reason for running from love if that is what you wish to do...and conversely, any reason is a good reason to seek love!!

I agree with that one..Never give up on it.. ..ever...maybe not to run from it, either...I think love just happens when you least except it.....

expect it ..darn it...spell check doesn't always work on bad grammar.....

Love is only short when your with the wrong person...
To stop searching for true love is to cheat your self from being truly loved.

Hey sam, do you realise you're digging up a bunch of dead and buried threads?

No. But you do have to allow time to heal, so as you can fully love someone else.

You had too address this after I had my two bobs worth didn't you

And oh so true... at times it can be hard. But in the end you get back what you put out. If your negative you get back that....