Seriously What makes you stop and say I want to meet/date/relationship with that person?

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CrimsonWolf Calgary, Alberta Canada
There are a lot of books and columns that say one thing or another about this topic. So lets be real what does it take??? What is it?? Yes I know it is different for everyone. So spill what would stop you???
Dknew Lee, New Hampshire USA
It's not something I can put into words, Theres just something just there.



spiceygamble Nola, Louisiana USA
Something playfully innocent, yet respectful, a touch of gusto and perhaps brushed with drive.
Some common ground, some new ground... willingness to break it.

...and tons of potential.
CrimsonWolf Calgary, Alberta Canada
Dknew: It's not something I can put into words, Theres just something just there.

From a guy's perspective is it the way the lady looks that catches your eye or the vibe she is giving off?
CrimsonWolf Calgary, Alberta Canada
spiceygamble: Something playfully innocent, yet respectful, a touch of gusto and perhaps brushed with drive.
Some common ground, some new ground... willingness to break it.

...and tons of potential.

Thank you beautifully put.
JimNastics Kingston, New Jersey USA
for most women a gun to the head will suffice. laugh
ooyster St. Julians, Majjistral Malta
I think it all adds up to chemistry
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Dknew Lee, New Hampshire USA
CrimsonWolf: From a guy's perspective is it the way the lady looks that catches your eye or the vibe she is giving off?



A vibe I'd say.
CrimsonWolf Calgary, Alberta Canada
JimNastics: for most women a gun to the head will suffice.

Wow funny can't put into words what would stop you? or are you that bitter against women?
CrimsonWolf Calgary, Alberta Canada
ooyster: I think it all adds up to chemistry

Yes I would say that is a good part to the puzzle.



Justme4uok Northern CA, California USA
In some cases its chemistry.... on others it maybe there sense of humor or personality. Actually its a combination of all these things. Its a good feeling when you talk or see that person.... JMO
CrimsonWolf Calgary, Alberta Canada
Justme4uok: In some cases its chemistry.... on others it maybe there sense of humor or personality. Actually its a combination of all these things. Its a good feeling when you talk or see that person.... JMO

Thankshug
You are so right. It is a very good feeling. Guess that is why we are on here looking for that ...... something that stops us.
ooyster St. Julians, Majjistral Malta
yes all that, plus you seem to know that it's a good thing and follow your gut feeling. I believe that when you are destined to meet someone, it will happen when you least expect it, and you can't stop thinking about the other person
JimNastics Kingston, New Jersey USA
CrimsonWolf: Wow funny can't put into words what would stop you? or are you that bitter against women?


Nope. I just seek a rare gem, rather than just a common roll in the hay.
lanabyte Charleston, West Virginia USA
Dknew: It's not something I can put into words, Theres just something just there.

Agreed. thumbs up
cardsfan24 somewhere in paradise, Illinois USA
CrimsonWolf Calgary, Alberta Canada
ooyster: yes all that, plus you seem to know that it's a good thing and follow your gut feeling. I believe that when you are destined to meet someone, it will happen when you least expect it, and you can't stop thinking about the other person



Another peice of the puzzle falls into place.
Women need to trust their instincts more, which we don't. Men seem to just do that naturally.



Justme4uok Northern CA, California USA
cardsfan24: a woman that farts...


doh All women fart - we just don't always fart in front of you!!!!laugh
TurkishDelight Dublin, Dublin Ireland
When I started to "him indoors" on here, I was intrigued by him. There were time we were lost in translation laugh which made for some very funny emails
We met after a few weeks and there was just something about him that appealed to me.. hard to quantify at the time and just wanted to know about him kiss
CrimsonWolf Calgary, Alberta Canada
JimNastics: Nope. I just seek a rare gem, rather than just a common roll in the hay.


Good man. Great answer.




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