CrimsonWolf: There are a lot of books and columns that say one thing or another about this topic. So lets be real what does it take??? What is it?? Yes I know it is different for everyone. So spill what would stop you???
and what would start you?
Initally,online or inperson,matters not.
It's the eyes.From then on the smile.Body language.
First impressions.Eyes.
For me,thats what "stops me".