buzzy: Don't answer it guys. It's a trick question. Only kidding. It would depend on the chemistry. I've been attracted to larger women. What concerns me is the effect of too much weight has on your health. I know, I weighed 275 lb. just 4 years ago. It was having an impact on my health. I now weigh 220 lbs. I found what worked for me. I'll share it with you, email me. It is so easy! It doesn't cost much, just the price of a book. You don't need to join a gym. The biggest thing is: YOU HAVE TO WANT TO DO IT. If you are happy with the way you are, great. If you are not, change it.
Buzzy good for you and the weight loss.

Sure I need to shed a few pounds. But I don't let that dictate my happiness.
When the time is right for me I will but until that time I am happy with the way I am.