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Aries01: I agree that serious jealousy is like a nasty acid that corrodes all it touches, but have you never experienced the 'light' kind.. my ex used to sorta puff out his chest, stand tall and come put his arm around me when he thought another guy was flirting.. I found it funny and kinda cute..... it never bothered him that I had male friends though, just as it didn't bother me that he had lots of female friends, cause I knew he was the faithful type.. most people are..

HJFinAZ: A few weeks ago I met a lady through some friends. I had only met her and these friends for coffee a couple of times, talked on the phone a couple of times.

The day before Thanksgiving, she had some outpatient surgery. Her girlfriend took her home and left her alone, she was still a little under the weather from being knocked out. It appears she got up to potty and take a pain pill, she took to many and it appears to have caused a heart attack. He roomie found her the next morning and called 911.

Long story short, she did some kind of damage to her right leg and cannot walk on it, she is in a Care Center for rehab, physically therapy. It is 5 minutes from me and I know what it is like to lay in a hospital for days. Mom & I go visit her every morning & evening for a few minutes.

It appears she has "feelings" we have never discussed (she is a very nice and cute lady). Yesterday and frequently several young ladies are at my house, none of them have a true relationship with their fathers. Three were here yesterday afternoon and for dinner, one had her 3 daughters with her.

Last night, I told Cheryl that I was a lucky man, I had 7 women at my dinner table and I was the only male. She said, "The next time I am in a relationship, "I" will get ALL of the attention".. I find this insane jealousy and being very selfish.

Any "thoughts"??

mychelle: She is definitely NOT in a relationship, but if she were she would command all the attention.
Signals to me a control freak...Run , not walk to the nearest train station....You have to trust your instinct and stay clear.

mindfful: well since i have never met you i cannot say for sure
but in response to your question

perhaps your picker dont work as well as your pecker?

HJFinAZ: .......

Last night, I told Cheryl that I was a lucky man, I had 7 women at my dinner table and I was the only male. She said, "The next time I am in a relationship, "I" will get ALL of the attention".. I find this insane jealousy and being very selfish.

Any "thoughts"??

laura225: It's also possible that seeing a good friend in you, she simply shared how she felt at the moment - sick, lonely, vulnerable, misfortunate (a surgery, than hospital, than rehab) ... and wishing for better times in a future - relationship, attention.

Under different circumstances she might've been happy for you having this wonderful evening, but in her misery she felt like knocking ANY happy diners out of their chairs

I wouldn't jump into conclusions. Not yet.

laura225: It's also possible that seeing a good friend in you, she simply shared how she felt at the moment - sick, lonely, vulnerable, misfortunate (a surgery, than hospital, than rehab) ... and wishing for better times in a future - relationship, attention.

Under different circumstances she might've been happy for you having this wonderful evening, but in her misery she felt like knocking ANY happy diners out of their chairs

I wouldn't jump into conclusions. Not yet.

HJFinAZ: Well, I am not purposely jumping to conclusions at this point. Actually, I have no conclusion, I am one that believes the saying "it ain't over until the fat lady sings". In my case it would be the fat guy and I have not sang as yet..

Being I am not one to sugar coat things , I have every intention of asking her exactly what she meant by that statement. I will not do it when I have mom along or when another of her friends is present. I have no reason or desire to make her uncomfortable..

I do not want it spread around, but I really am not a total asshole..

mindfful: yeah
we'll not tell anyone

i mean who would believe us?

druidess6308: agreed...and well said.

mindfful: yeah
we'll not tell anyone

i mean who would believe us?

HJFinAZ: My old ass has laid in a hospital bed for a few days at a time. I was grateful for those that cared enough to come visit often..

HJFinAZ: A few weeks ago I met a lady through some friends. I had only met her and these friends for coffee a couple of times, talked on the phone a couple of times.

The day before Thanksgiving, she had some outpatient surgery. Her girlfriend took her home and left her alone, she was still a little under the weather from being knocked out. It appears she got up to potty and take a pain pill, she took to many and it appears to have caused a heart attack. He roomie found her the next morning and called 911.

Long story short, she did some kind of damage to her right leg and cannot walk on it, she is in a Care Center for rehab, physically therapy. It is 5 minutes from me and I know what it is like to lay in a hospital for days. Mom & I go visit her every morning & evening for a few minutes.

It appears she has "feelings" we have never discussed (she is a very nice and cute lady). Yesterday and frequently several young ladies are at my house, none of them have a true relationship with their fathers. Three were here yesterday afternoon and for dinner, one had her 3 daughters with her.

Last night, I told Cheryl that I was a lucky man, I had 7 women at my dinner table and I was the only male. She said, "The next time I am in a relationship, "I" will get ALL of the attention".. I find this insane jealousy and being very selfish.

Any "thoughts"??

Aries01: I agree that serious jealousy is like a nasty acid that corrodes all it touches, but have you never experienced the 'light' kind.. my ex used to sorta puff out his chest, stand tall and come put his arm around me when he thought another guy was flirting.. I found it funny and kinda cute..... it never bothered him that I had male friends though, just as it didn't bother me that he had lots of female friends, cause I knew he was the faithful type.. most people are..