RobbieM: I changed them alright!
It's funny but even quiet women will try to nag me, or even try bullying methods to try to get me to do something!
I think its because i am calm and collected and they are trying to see if they can get a reaction out of me, in a test sort of way.
An ex for example went out of her way to find a female friend of mine who i told my parents and i sort of suspected i would end up marrying.
so she went out of her way, joined and paid to join paininthebuttunited, and then traced her, wrote her an email to get in touch to surprise me!
Later she told me that she did this to see if i would leave her for this girl i used to know!!
Men just don't do this type of thing!!!! It's nuts!!!
Stop generalising.
All women are not the same.
I am quiet, gentle and calm, I do not nag, I ask and if not done then I will either do it myself or find a person that will do it.
You seem to attract the needy kind, who need to do these things for you.
Setting up traps that your woman did is not nice and I would have clocked a person who did that to me.
Men do strange things too you know.