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Dawn7z: Such mushiness flowing through these threads today. Yek lol.

vinny1967: Jesus I'm serious for once and look what happens.................



How r u Dawn

Good to c ya

Are you perfect

Dawn7z: Nice to see you too Vinny.
Of course I am perfect
Perfectly barmy (is that a word) lol

Have a lovely day just couldn't resist it everyone was being too nice on this thread especially Hugz.

vinny1967: I'd prefer to see a nice thread rather than personal slangin matches and 1upmanship.

And I just knew you were perfect......

Hav a gr8 day.

phoenix: I'm not going to tear you apart or read the entire thread...But on your point about the perfect relationship..gotta disagree..my grandparents were married for the best part of 65 years until the died..ANd my Parents have been married for the best part of 44years and still told hands..I don't know about the rest of you good folk here but they are my bench marks.....

Dawn7z: Me too Vinny and I like to tease people that is part of the fun.

Dawn7z: Such mushiness flowing through these threads today. Yek lol.

Dawn7z: Me too Vinny and I like to tease people that is part of the fun.

Dawn7z: Right back at you peeps sometimes the joking doesn't translate as well online and over use of emoticons helps.

Have a marvelous day. It's cold here and I am going back to bed.

Here's looking at you kid(s).

nomindgames: Ask any couple married 50 yrs. or more.They will tell you,it takes work to keep it together.Many say perfect partner but I think they really mean someone they can enjoy being with,share interests and goals.Does anyone here think they will find perfect?Were humans,some a better match than another.I know my faults and I work on them.I will share my badside before I would accept a proposal and expect him to do the same.

Romanticman4000: Yes... Perfection ( relationship wise ) is not a good term to use.
Hollywood, Soap Opreas , TV shows have deceived us to be fooled by high expectations, in other words " la la land kind of thinking "
We should be hoping and searching for someone who ? firstly ?
Respects us, not demanding respect, but, earns that respect through mutual relations and trust.
You don't want someone who will treat you badly ( that goes for women and men ) .
Love will grow out of that ... respecting each other.
Also, you want someone who wants to be around you, but, also respects your time, place, space, and peace.. ( yes, it's true, we all need our quiet time ).
One thing that our culture has lost in the last 50 years is a thing called ( Consideration ) ... yes,,, there was a time in our country were people showed consideration towards each other instead of thinking about just " ME ,,, me me me,, and just me ".
But, the problem is not just finding the " Perfect Person " our whole culture has been effected.... and yes, there are no perfect people, but, it seems things have changed in the last 50 years.

Romanticman4000: Yes... Perfection ( relationship wise ) is not a good term to use.
Hollywood, Soap Opreas , TV shows have deceived us to be fooled by high expectations, in other words " la la land kind of thinking "
We should be hoping and searching for someone who ? firstly ?
Respects us, not demanding respect, but, earns that respect through mutual relations and trust.
You don't want someone who will treat you badly ( that goes for women and men ) .
Love will grow out of that ... respecting each other.
Also, you want someone who wants to be around you, but, also respects your time, place, space, and peace.. ( yes, it's true, we all need our quiet time ).
One thing that our culture has lost in the last 50 years is a thing called ( Consideration ) ... yes,,, there was a time in our country were people showed consideration towards each other instead of thinking about just " ME ,,, me me me,, and just me ".
But, the problem is not just finding the " Perfect Person " our whole culture has been effected.... and yes, there are no perfect people, but, it seems things have changed in the last 50 years.

HJFinAZ: Get a dog, it is the most perfect relationship there is...

kerm1t: Having just finished with my divorce, yes I was the dumpee, not dumper, it occurs to me that people need a bit of a reality check.

THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A PERFECT RELATIONSHIP.

Ladies, and other women, learn to be realsitic in your expectations of a relationship. I have read so many profiles of people saying they are not going to settle for anything but the best. Good luck I say to you, enjoy your singlehood, it'll last a long time.

Dawson does not exist, neither does Chandler, Ross, or anyone else that you see on the celluloid screen, and are using as your benchmark for what you are looking for.

During my seven year marriage, I was constantly compared to those previous guys, why couldn't I come up with the perfect speech to solve any problem. Why wasn't I the strong silent type that was also in touch with my feelings, and could pre-empt any situation that arose and solve it before it happened.

Everyone that is over 25 on this site, and every other dating site needs to realise one thing, we are all damaged at this point, otherwise why would we be here? You can use any excuse you like: I'm too busy, I don't have time.
While there are some people on here that really are wasting their time, most of us, regardless of if we fit your picture perfect view, are exactly what you are looking for.

We are all here for the same reason, to find a good relationship, and at this stage of our lives, that's all we should hope for. A good relationship is just that, good, it's not great, it's not perfect, it helps us when we need it, and gives us what we need.

So please, for all of us average people out there who would love nothing more than coming home at the end of the day and falling into your loving arms, and spending time enjoying you and the things we do together, realise that there is no Mr or Ms right/perfect, but there is close enough.

Now, feel free to tear me apart.