Good Bye Phil username Detente

cristina Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands

Thu Dec 18, 2008 1:33 PM CST : Good Bye Phil- (username - Detente)

Aries01: If a few of us were hurt at that time.. it was BECAUSE we cared alot for him... when this situation came to light.. I was hurt, hugely disappointed and yes angry.. BECAUSE I cared for him.. that weekend I could not even stay at home.. I had to stay in a friends house because I felt sooo hurt, it was like a physical pain... I felt betrayed and so disappointed because I reeeally liked him.. I did try to reach out to him shortly after via email, explained myself and indicated that I hope we would be friends.. in fact I regretted not just keeping it just friends full stop, because while (relationship) he was mixed up and tended to push people away.. as a friend he was perfect.. witty, funny, creative, quirky and so much more.. I missed that.. greatly... I still do, and I will always have regrets...
I have also learned an important lesson.. none of know what tomorrow will bring so falling out and not talking is sooooo pointless.. I wish more than anything that I could turn back time...

Thank you Lush for your reasonable words..

dcj22 Somewhere, Kansas USA

Thu Dec 18, 2008 1:38 PM CST : Good Bye Phil- (username - Detente)

Manolito:
Nice boobies (*)(*)

much better boobies ( * ) ( * )

Monstrous boobs { * } { * }

Almost boobies |*| |*| ---- Me

Tsernobil boobies (**) (**)

cockeyed boobies ( *) (* )

expiriment gone wrong boobies)*( )*(

any more?

Hi, Manny. Good to see you, sweetie.

mastic55 Long Island, New York USA

Thu Dec 18, 2008 1:39 PM CST : Good Bye Phil- (username - Detente)

Did he really choke or is this a joke?

dcj22 Somewhere, Kansas USA

Thu Dec 18, 2008 1:44 PM CST : Good Bye Phil- (username - Detente)

mastic55: Did he really choke or is this a joke?

How rude. Yes, Phil passed away.

CjTenorSax Atwater, Ohio USA

Thu Dec 18, 2008 2:15 PM CST : Good Bye Phil- (username - Detente)

cristina: I have his pic on my profile.

This is by no means a strategy for guys to check my profile, because i don't care about that...just for you too see who he was, young, always been a super gentleman to me, handsome, nice lips, great things to tell. We had a lovely argument but from it, it was understandable that we'd meet one day, that a hug was certain.

He had good plans for him the last time we've chat...long ago.
I don't know what happened, but i feel sorry...

God bless Philip

Ohhhhh, I remember him, now. He was so nice. Such a shame, so young and full of promise.

Phil we will miss you,

For You:

( o ) ( o )

Enjoy in the Great Beyond, Friend

jampet wexford, Westmeath Ireland

Thu Dec 18, 2008 2:21 PM CST : Good Bye Phil- (username - Detente)

I didn't know him, but he obviously touched many people on here, so his legacy is here. sorry for your loss

CjTenorSax Atwater, Ohio USA

Thu Dec 18, 2008 2:24 PM CST : Good Bye Phil- (username - Detente)

lusciousmile: We all know why the X rebel said this, or anything he says for that matter, and you supported him.

This is just sad!

CjTenorSax Atwater, Ohio USA

Thu Dec 18, 2008 2:26 PM CST : Good Bye Phil- (username - Detente)

kissmedeeply: yes for once let this thread stay on its topic..

For God sake everyone lets not get this thread banned..

put all aside and let this man RIP..

Agreed, the Drama is not needed,

nor is it appropriate.

CjTenorSax Atwater, Ohio USA

Thu Dec 18, 2008 2:29 PM CST : Good Bye Phil- (username - Detente)

riyablossom: I knew him as a very close friend. What happened between him and whoever is best known to them. And at this point of time esp. its none of anybodys business. Whats important is not what he did but inspite of everything or anything, a lot of us miss him. Thats cos he was a nice guy . .Yes he had depression, but beyond that i dont think anyone needs to know what or what not unless he mentioned it publicly himself.

His absence makes us sad. That doesnt make anyone responsible though cos usually the number of reasons leading to something like this are multiple. I guess none of us know what really went on in his mind.

This was just to clarify that we arent hear to discuss why or who or what. But to remember him in our own little ways.

I miss him a lot. I wish i had said it to him when he was around.

Well said, Darling. I'm sorry for the loss of your friend, Riya.

CjTenorSax Atwater, Ohio USA

Thu Dec 18, 2008 2:31 PM CST : Good Bye Phil- (username - Detente)

Aries01: If a few of us were hurt at that time.. it was BECAUSE we cared alot for him... when this situation came to light.. I was hurt, hugely disappointed and yes angry.. BECAUSE I cared for him.. that weekend I could not even stay at home.. I had to stay in a friends house because I felt sooo hurt, it was like a physical pain... I felt betrayed and so disappointed because I reeeally liked him.. I did try to reach out to him shortly after via email, explained myself and indicated that I hope we would be friends.. in fact I regretted not just keeping it just friends full stop, because while (relationship) he was mixed up and tended to push people away.. as a friend he was perfect.. witty, funny, creative, quirky and so much more.. I missed that.. greatly... I still do, and I will always have regrets...
I have also learned an important lesson.. none of know what tomorrow will bring so falling out and not talking is sooooo pointless.. I wish more than anything that I could turn back time...

Thank you Lush for your reasonable words..

lusciousmile Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland

Thu Dec 18, 2008 2:31 PM CST : Good Bye Phil- (username - Detente)

CjTenorSax:

karen1973 Southampton, Hampshire, England UK

Thu Dec 18, 2008 2:32 PM CST : Good Bye Phil- (username - Detente)

Aries01: If a few of us were hurt at that time.. it was BECAUSE we cared alot for him... when this situation came to light.. I was hurt, hugely disappointed and yes angry.. BECAUSE I cared for him.. that weekend I could not even stay at home.. I had to stay in a friends house because I felt sooo hurt, it was like a physical pain... I felt betrayed and so disappointed because I reeeally liked him.. I did try to reach out to him shortly after via email, explained myself and indicated that I hope we would be friends.. in fact I regretted not just keeping it just friends full stop, because while (relationship) he was mixed up and tended to push people away.. as a friend he was perfect.. witty, funny, creative, quirky and so much more.. I missed that.. greatly... I still do, and I will always have regrets...
I have also learned an important lesson.. none of know what tomorrow will bring so falling out and not talking is sooooo pointless.. I wish more than anything that I could turn back time...

Thank you Lush for your reasonable words..

I felt the same way too. He was such a good friend once.

CjTenorSax Atwater, Ohio USA

Thu Dec 18, 2008 2:34 PM CST : Good Bye Phil- (username - Detente)

Hi Lusci, it was for this, you lost me on it:

lusciousmile wrote:
We all know why the X rebel said this, or anything he says for that matter, and you supported him.

This is just sad!

lusciousmile Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland

Thu Dec 18, 2008 2:38 PM CST : Good Bye Phil- (username - Detente)

CjTenorSax: Hi Lusci, it was for this, you lost me on it:
lusciousmile wrote:
We all know why the X rebel said this, or anything he says for that matter, and you supported him.This is just sad!

I can't explain, because it will turn into drama. The other ladies got it.

cristina Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands

Thu Dec 18, 2008 2:39 PM CST : Good Bye Phil- (username - Detente)

I've been caring his smile for all days, laughing on his mails.
How could we have guessed his last stage?
He showed us to be stronger here...

Although he was not on CS, we hopped he was smiling out there.
Did he have his honor or pride to defend above all, this is why he didn't want to contact anybody? Did he die proud? Did he take himself alone, did he want to go alone? Did he prefer to go in silence? Was he that lonely? Did he not want anybody around?

I really don't want this thread to die...i want it to reach 51 pages...can we write poems, can we make it funny sometimes. It's the death of a poster guys, imagine if it was you? How many times you made me laugh? Can we stay here? Can we talk about death, about depression, about the danger that it can entail, about desperation, about how people hide it? Where is our other friend who was once depressed and asked for our advice? Did he make it?
Is it painful to talk about this? Should this thread be over? I don't know, maybe i'm being a little pushy but i will always come here whenever i feel like.

CjTenorSax: Ohhhhh, I remember him, now. He was so nice. Such a shame, so young and full of promise.

Phil we will miss you, For You: ( o ) ( o )

Enjoy in the Great Beyond, Friend

Aries01 Kent, Kent, England UK

Thu Dec 18, 2008 2:51 PM CST : Good Bye Phil- (username - Detente)

cristina: I've been caring his smile for all days, laughing on his mails.
How could we have guessed his last stage?
He showed us to be stronger here...

Although he was not on CS, we hopped he was smiling out there.
Did he have his honor or pride to defend above all, this is why he didn't want to contact anybody? Did he die proud? Did he take himself alone, did he want to go alone? Did he prefer to go in silence? Was he that lonely? Did he not want anybody around?

I really don't want this thread to die...i want it to reach 51 pages...can we write poems, can we make it funny sometimes. It's the death of a poster guys, imagine if it was you? How many times you made me laugh? Can we stay here? Can we talk about death, about depression, about the danger that it can entail, about desperation, about how people hide it? Where is our other friend who was once depressed and asked for our advice? Did he make it?
Is it painful to talk about this? Should this thread be over? I don't know, maybe i'm being a little pushy but i will always come here whenever i feel like.

....

karen1973 Southampton, Hampshire, England UK

Thu Dec 18, 2008 2:51 PM CST : Good Bye Phil- (username - Detente)

cristina: I've been caring his smile for all days, laughing on his mails.
How could we have guessed his last stage?
He showed us to be stronger here...

Although he was not on CS, we hopped he was smiling out there.
Did he have his honor or pride to defend above all, this is why he didn't want to contact anybody? Did he die proud? Did he take himself alone, did he want to go alone? Did he prefer to go in silence? Was he that lonely? Did he not want anybody around?

I really don't want this thread to die...i want it to reach 51 pages...can we write poems, can we make it funny sometimes. It's the death of a poster guys, imagine if it was you? How many times you made me laugh? Can we stay here? Can we talk about death, about depression, about the danger that it can entail, about desperation, about how people hide it? Where is our other friend who was once depressed and asked for our advice? Did he make it?
Is it painful to talk about this? Should this thread be over? I don't know, maybe i'm being a little pushy but i will always come here whenever i feel like.

I am with you on this one cristina.

Lets keep this thread going. Remember all the good things about Phil.
Lets show others who are suffering with depression, that there are always people around who care.

BOOBIES!

cristina Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands

Thu Dec 18, 2008 2:59 PM CST : Good Bye Phil- (username - Detente)

karen1973: I am with you on this one cristina.

Lets keep this thread going. Remember all the good things about Phil.
Lets show others who are suffering with depression, that there are always people around who care.

BOOBIES!

Yes, we do care, we are linked here, otherwise we'd not pass most of our time here with eachother (save us from your indivual exception)
When i told a friend of mine what happened, she said i was exhagerating because online people weren't real...hahaha, aren't we real? Isn't death real?

Those who are fighting with hard times, pain, we do care, no matter how strongly we defend our opinion against theirs...we don't want them to die!

Hugz_n_Kissez Someplace, Ontario Canada

Thu Dec 18, 2008 3:00 PM CST : Good Bye Phil- (username - Detente)

With Apologies to Walt Whitman:

To the left and to the right
To the large and to the small
Those with uplifted nipples, the push of satin bound in wire
Those with soft cups, full of life and desire,
I say to one and all
I will eat thee 'ere I sleep,
And wake with dreams of boobly-oobly on my lips.

-Unknown-

RIP Phil........

cristina Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands

Thu Dec 18, 2008 3:03 PM CST : Good Bye Phil- (username - Detente)

Hugz_n_Kissez: With Apologies to Walt Whitman:

To the left and to the right
To the large and to the small
Those with uplifted nipples, the push of satin bound in wire
Those with soft cups, full of life and desire,
I say to one and all
I will eat thee 'ere I sleep,
And wake with dreams of boobly-oobly on my lips.-Unknown-
RIP Phil........

Beautiful

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