pretzelman: I spent every penny (literally) on sending my wife on her dream vacation to India. I stayed home cause we couldn't afford it. Met her at the airport with long stem roses to welcome her back. I was hoping for a night of romance on the way home from the airport. Instead she went to the computer to contact her friend!
I said are you in love with this guy?? Her reply was "..I knew we would have to have this discussion sooner or later"
I turned, gathered my clothes, moved into the spare bedroom. We have never had a harsh word about her lover. I even helped where I could to bring him to this country.
Hey..if she don't want me... so what. At least she is now happy!! Would it have done any good to get angry? No. She would still end upo with the man she loves! so there are two happy people instead of three unhappy people!!NEXT
There is a province here called Gilan and the center of that is Rasht, guys from this city are famous for such behaviors, I think your origin may be related to that province.
We don't consider those men as real men, they let their wife do anything they like!