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dcj22 Somewhere, Kansas USA
venere08: OK. I will do that for you.

And I shall ask Master or Miss Lorikeet to give you a big smile

After all, they will be immortalised in your work of art


Joktan, you'll have to share that art with all of us. btw, I showed your site to my daughter the other day. I told you in the beginning she'd love it and she did. thumbs up
SummerUK Washington, Tyne and Wear, England UK
dcj22: Sweetie... Harry Connick Jr in anything or nothing!!

I just saw him the other day in PS I Love You. Good movie. I love Gerard Butler. Another dreamy man.



Hey honey hug

Thats another of my favourite movies lol

It makes ya want to run off to Ireland and find a Irish hunk who plays guitar and drinks guiness or to wherever Harry is haha!

smitten
dcj22 Somewhere, Kansas USA
SummerUK: Hey honey

Thats another of my favourite movies lol

It makes ya want to run off to Ireland and find a Irish hunk who plays guitar and drinks guiness or to wherever Harry is haha!



yes, Yes, YES!!! laugh And Harry lives in New Orleans.

But Gerard Butler... I could listen to that man talk forever. I would be sure to get busy with him while he talked, but I'd love to just hear him talk. laugh
dcj22 Somewhere, Kansas USA
Summer, sending you an email. hug
SummerUK Washington, Tyne and Wear, England UK
dcj22: Summer, sending you an email.


Thanks Dana...I wrote you back x


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mylifewithu Springfield, Missouri USA
I have been reading articles on birds mating for life. Apparently it doesn't mean what we think it means, It means they stay together till one dies or thru a single breeding season.

This first article is from wild bird watching:

If mating for life means one partner in a lifetime to you, then there are few birds that fit into this category. Those birds that do fit this category are the ones that die, as the surviving bird will attempt to find a new mate. Some within the same nesting season.

Others will forage for food through the breeding season, joining flocks in the fall. Still, others will help feed and raise the young of other pairs, but all will attempt to find a new mate.

Most of our North American birds do not mate for life. Rather, most pair bonds are formed for a single season. Those birds that pair for a season are referred to as monogamous pairs. Monogamy is one male bird with one female bird through a single nesting cycle.

The pair may stay together raising a single brood and then change partners for a second brood in the same season. Still they are considered monogamous.

Other pair bonds may be formed and last over several seasons. Doves, Robins, and others are on this list. Oftentimes, these birds are considered as mating for life. Even though their average life spans may range from a year and a half to several years. Despite whether they mate again after one dies.

Bird Monogamy
When we speak of birds and monogamy, we are not referring to faithfulness. First year mortality rates are very high with regards to our small songbirds and reproduction is a primary goal.

The truth is, DNA evidence points to a high percentage of promiscuity. Many females lay clutches that are determined to be from different males.

This in turn suggest males may breed with more than one female even though a pair bond may have been formed with another female.

Birds That Mate For Life
Several large birds are considered as mating for life. Among them are: swans, geese, eagles, and some owls.

Why birds mate for life is not as romantic as one may wish. When you consider the time needed to migrate, establish territories, incubation and raising young, you'll realize that the extra time and energy needed for attracting a mate would minimize reproductive time.

The Bald Eagle for example, spends just over a month incubating the eggs and 2 1/2 to 3 months raising their young in the nest. Establishing lifelong pair bonds works to their advantage. Whether this adaptation evolved over time or always has been, I do not know.

Summary
I suppose the question of whether a bird mates for life comes from wondering what will happen should one bird die. Many believe that birds mourn the loss of their mate, never to mate again.

I can't say whether birds experience loss at some level or whether what we sometimes interpet as mourning is just confusion. I do know our wild birds will always attempt to find new mates.

mylifewithu Springfield, Missouri USA
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This one comes from Bird Watchers Digest: It also talks about a bit about the bird watching myths that just won't go away.
.DoSome birds mate for life.

It sounds so sweet, doesn't it? So, well, human. The idea appeals to our sensibilities and our morality. The problem is that it has virtually nothing to do with humans or birds.

Mating for life is an ornithological shorthand that stands in contrast to those birds that change partners every year, or even several times in the same year. It does not necessarily mean what we think it does, however. Even those birds that "mate for life," like some of the larger waterfowl, are not practicing matrimony the way most of us would like to think it ought to go. It merely means that, all things being equal, these birds will stay with the same mate for an extended period. It does not preclude a variety of reproductive strategies, including what scientists like to call EPFs (extra-pair fertilization) and what most people would call a fling. The recent advances in DNA testing have shown that, almost everywhere, parentage is a more complicated and less certain fact than previously thought.

Some individuals do mate for long periods, perhaps even until one of them dies, but mating in the bird world is as varied and messy as it is for human beings.

Bird-watching myths die hard, if at all. As a philosophical wit once explained, a lie is halfway around the world before the truth gets started. The myths discussed here, and others, will never be rooted out, but you can be aware, and provide a counterpoint to many of them. Be prepared for the results. No one likes a favorite myth debunked, and wars have been fought over myths. The trick is to be rational, friendly, and non-threatening.



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dcj22 Somewhere, Kansas USA
Well... Penguins are birds. They mate for life, don't they?
Hugz_n_Kissez Someplace, Ontario Canada
No matter what...I still think the birds got it right over us humans.....Afternoon ladies....wave wink hug teddybear hug bouquet
dcj22 Somewhere, Kansas USA
Hugz_n_Kissez: No matter what...I still think the birds got it right over us humans.....Afternoon ladies....



Afternoon, sweetie.
mylifewithu Springfield, Missouri USA
dcj22: Well... Penguins are birds. They mate for life, don't they?
Here is what I found on them mating for life.

3.6 Do penguins mate for life?

Most avian species are monogamous. That is to say that when they do mate, they only mate with one other. That doesn't imply that during the next mating season they will mate with the same individual. However, some birds do mate for life. Penguins are more-or-less monogamous, but some species are known to seek extra-pair copulations, that is, have affairs. The whole idea of mating for life is a bit exaggerated
mylifewithu Springfield, Missouri USA
Hugz_n_Kissez: No matter what...I still think the birds got it right over us humans.....Afternoon ladies....
I believe they do also . Hello Shellywave hug teddybear




Hello Danahug teddybear wave
Hugz_n_Kissez Someplace, Ontario Canada
dcj22: Afternoon, sweetie.



Afternoon darlin...I'm off today...which is nice...but I have to get out at some point and finish my Christmas shopping...santa waving hug teddybear bouquet grin
Hugz_n_Kissez Someplace, Ontario Canada
mylifewithu: I believe they do also . Hello Shelly

Hello Dana



Afternoon darlin....hug teddybear hug bouquet
mylifewithu Springfield, Missouri USA
Hugz_n_Kissez: Afternoon darlin...I'm off today...which is nice...but I have to get out at some point and finish my Christmas shopping...
Cool then you will be getting it all done before the rush at the stores get really bad. And harder to find what you want.applause wink santa waving reindeer
Hugz_n_Kissez Someplace, Ontario Canada
mylifewithu: Cool then you will be getting it all done before the rush at the stores get really bad. And harder to find what you want.



Yes...that's my goal...not to have to do anything especially go near the stores and mobs of people next week....santa waving reindeer uh oh laugh
mylifewithu Springfield, Missouri USA
Hugz_n_Kissez: Yes...that's my goal...not to have to do anything especially go near the stores and mobs of people next week....
That's when I hate shopping the most too, not only crowded but people get angrier I don't want around it.laugh wink


hug applause
voyager007 Khober Saudi Arabia
Joktan: oops..... I made my picture way to big!
sorry you guys:(
But anyways how come birds do mate for life and we cannot?
I think its a valid question and a good thread...


come on man!!!!

there are plenty of people who do have mate for life. It's only some unfortunate people that don't especially nowadays. However, be optimistic you may have one someday in the near future.

It's my prayer for myself, you and everybody out there.

peace
voyager007 Khober Saudi Arabia
birds can mate for LIFE

please see this link:


http://en.netlogstatic.com/p/oo/019/310/19310397.jpg
Joktan Menomonee Falls, Wisconsin USA
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