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jamminjamie74 panama city, Florida USA
Thu Dec 18, 2008 5:50 PM CST : I GIVE UP!!!!!
so i was so in love with this girl i asked her to marry me and everything, she ment the world to me. i would have given her the moon if i could. so what does she do to show me she loves me??? brings an ex boyfriend into MY house and cheats on me with him in MY bed, while i am out of town working my a$$ to try and provide for her. God knows how long this has been going on. i walk in the door to suprise her with roses and busted my a$$ to get home early because i didnt want to spend another night away from her, and this is what i get to come home too. Why must i get screwed (literally) over like this. Someone please tell me WHY??? very mad frustrated very mad frustrated very mad frustrated I am DONE!! i refuse to go through this again!!

Thanks for listening just had to vent thats all. I am sure it will pass sooner or later!
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Laconian Patras, Peloponessos Greece
Thu Dec 18, 2008 5:54 PM CST : I GIVE UP!!!!!
jamminjamie74: so i was so in love with this girl i asked her to marry me and everything, she ment the world to me. i would have given her the moon if i could. so what does she do to show me she loves me??? brings an ex boyfriend into MY house and cheats on me with him in MY bed, while i am out of town working my a$$ to try and provide for her. God knows how long this has been going on. i walk in the door to suprise her with roses and busted my a$$ to get home early because i didnt want to spend another night away from her, and this is what i get to come home too. Why must i get screwed (literally) over like this. Someone please tell me WHY??? I am DONE!! i refuse to go through this again!!

Thanks for listening just had to vent thats all. I am sure it will pass sooner or later!



Ooops certainly this was not a very nice experience.....BUT! Give yourself sometime to get over it! Go out with your buddies and have a nice time!! When you feel that you have overcame this then you can move on to something else. You see i know many people that have their hearts broken and refuse to start a new relationship or even try to find a potential partner and see where they get. Why allow yourself to suffer for her fault? You can take your time, let time heal the wounds and move on! Also check your mistakes with this relationship. It's valuable experience! Then sail for new islands! cheers
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hopefloats Slim's Lady, Tennessee USA
Thu Dec 18, 2008 5:54 PM CST : I GIVE UP!!!!!
sad flower I'm sorry that happened to you Jamie! I will never understand others' disregard for someone else's heart!blues It's okay to vent, most certainly. professor

bouquet teddybear
Merky
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jamminjamie74 panama city, Florida USA
Thu Dec 18, 2008 5:57 PM CST : I GIVE UP!!!!!
Laconian: Ooops certainly this was not a very nice experience.....BUT! Give yourself sometime to get over it! Go out with your buddies and have a nice time!! When you feel that you have overcame this then you can move on to something else. You see i know many people that have their hearts broken and refuse to start a new relationship or even try to find a potential partner and see where they get. Why allow yourself to suffer for her fault? You can take your time, let time heal the wounds and move on! Also check your mistakes with this relationship. It's valuable experience! Then sail for new islands!


well the girl i had before her did pretty much the same thing except she had enough respect not to bring it in my house but she tricked me into having a kid instead, not sure which is worse. i think i have cheat on me written across my forehead
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jamminjamie74 panama city, Florida USA
Thu Dec 18, 2008 5:57 PM CST : I GIVE UP!!!!!
hopefloats: I'm sorry that happened to you Jamie! I will never understand others' disregard for someone else's heart! It's okay to vent, most certainly.


Merky


Thanks sweetheart. i will never understand it either
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hopefloats Slim's Lady, Tennessee USA
Thu Dec 18, 2008 5:59 PM CST : I GIVE UP!!!!!
jamminjamie74: Thanks sweetheart. i will never understand it either



Like one of the others mentioned, give yourself time......sad flower
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jamminjamie74 panama city, Florida USA
Thu Dec 18, 2008 6:01 PM CST : I GIVE UP!!!!!
hopefloats: Like one of the others mentioned, give yourself time......


I will, i am just so bummer and crushed right now i dont know which way to turn. that sight will forever be burned into my mind. I was completley in love with her, she was the last person i would ever think to do this to me and she knew how much i loved her.
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Laconian Patras, Peloponessos Greece
Thu Dec 18, 2008 6:02 PM CST : I GIVE UP!!!!!
jamminjamie74: well the girl i had before her did pretty much the same thing except she had enough respect not to bring it in my house but she tricked me into having a kid instead, not sure which is worse. i think i have cheat on me written across my forehead



Nope i don't think so! If you believe in fate then it might be but i don't believe in faite (i am arrogant enough). So you have a child and you are now free to find a suitable mother for your child. Can you imagine living your whole live with these women? And never know that they were cheating on you? So i guess that the sooner you learn the truth the better! So my advise is to take it easy, relax and let yourself heal. Not all women are like that and it's crazy to claim that you attract them! It just happens! I know many people who had divorce and then found a new mate with which they made a great family!!



So to conclude:


It's better that is over so you can have time to search for new things and persue happiness!
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hopefloats Slim's Lady, Tennessee USA
Thu Dec 18, 2008 6:02 PM CST : I GIVE UP!!!!!
jamminjamie74: I will, i am just so bummer and crushed right now i dont know which way to turn. that sight will forever be burned into my mind. I was completley in love with her, she was the last person i would ever think to do this to me and she knew how much i loved her.




Been there. Had that happen to me too.......

Hugs to you!
Merky
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lusciousmile Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
Thu Dec 18, 2008 6:03 PM CST : I GIVE UP!!!!!
Laconian: Nope i don't think so! If you believe in fate then it might be but i don't believe in faite (i am arrogant enough). So you have a child and you are now free to find a suitable mother for your child. Can you imagine living your whole live with these women? And never know that they were cheating on you? So i guess that the sooner you learn the truth the better! So my advise is to take it easy, relax and let yourself heal. Not all women are like that and it's crazy to claim that you attract them! It just happens! I know many people who had divorce and then found a new mate with which they made a great family!!


So to conclude:It's better that is over so you can have time to search for new things and persue happiness!



Wise words there!

bouquet
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jamminjamie74 panama city, Florida USA
Thu Dec 18, 2008 6:04 PM CST : I GIVE UP!!!!!
Laconian: Nope i don't think so! If you believe in fate then it might be but i don't believe in faite (i am arrogant enough). So you have a child and you are now free to find a suitable mother for your child. Can you imagine living your whole live with these women? And never know that they were cheating on you? So i guess that the sooner you learn the truth the better! So my advise is to take it easy, relax and let yourself heal. Not all women are like that and it's crazy to claim that you attract them! It just happens! I know many people who had divorce and then found a new mate with which they made a great family!!
So to conclude:It's better that is over so you can have time to search for new things and persue happiness!


yeah and she loved my little girl like she was her own and so did my daughter. its going to be fun trying to explain why she isnt around anymore to a 3 yr old.
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hopefloats Slim's Lady, Tennessee USA
Thu Dec 18, 2008 6:05 PM CST : I GIVE UP!!!!!
jamminjamie74: yeah and she loved my little girl like she was her own and so did my daughter. its going to be fun trying to explain why she isnt around anymore to a 3 yr old.



crying moping blues Bless your heart!
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Laconian Patras, Peloponessos Greece
Thu Dec 18, 2008 6:05 PM CST : I GIVE UP!!!!!
lusciousmile: Wise words there!



Oh now...I must say i am not used to compliments!! Lol!! blushing blushing Thank you!
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lusciousmile Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
Thu Dec 18, 2008 6:07 PM CST : I GIVE UP!!!!!
Laconian: Oh now...I must say i am not used to compliments!! Lol!! Thank you!


You can't be 24!
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Diamond789 Fort Worth , Texas USA
Thu Dec 18, 2008 6:08 PM CST : I GIVE UP!!!!!
jamminjamie74: well the girl i had before her did pretty much the same thing except she had enough respect not to bring it in my house but she tricked me into having a kid instead, not sure which is worse. i think i have cheat on me written across my forehead






face it many women are that way,uh, guys too. Sometimes we gotta get our aZZ's kicked elephant before we wake up. I was dating a gal. Bought her clothes gave her money cause she couldn't keepa job. Bought her food.burger easter basket popcorn pizza Paid her rent and etc. etc.
Last date,took her out and I went to the guys room and when I came out she was liplocked on a huge guy. End of that deal,she's just no good.liar thumbs down frustrated and a drunk,drinking
Sometimes it takes a while to see the real person for what they are,,,,,,uh oh
However there's lotsa gals who'll be true,I,uh,think,,,,,,,,,,dunno
I was married to the truest gal for 35 years. Hard to replace that kind of loyalty,but I know it's out there somewhere. Just gotta play detective until you find the right one.detective
Until then,,,,,,cheers
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jamminjamie74 panama city, Florida USA
Thu Dec 18, 2008 6:09 PM CST : I GIVE UP!!!!!
hopefloats: Bless your heart!


Yeah i know tell me about it... and it couldnt be a worse time i get my daughter tomorrow for Christmas... so i know the question will be coming tomorrow when i bring her home and she isnt there...

any advice what to tell a 3 yr old???
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Laconian Patras, Peloponessos Greece
Thu Dec 18, 2008 6:09 PM CST : I GIVE UP!!!!!
jamminjamie74: yeah and she loved my little girl like she was her own and so did my daughter. its going to be fun trying to explain why she isnt around anymore to a 3 yr old.



Well don't tell her yet or better ask a specialist psychologist since these things require particular handling. So i guess you should seek some advice. Apart from that i adopt a fighting stance in life......Grieve as much asyou want, regret for all the things you want, see your mistakes, promise to yourself not to make them again...Then stop...Turn page and move forwards and don't look back. It doesn't worth it.
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Laconian Patras, Peloponessos Greece
Thu Dec 18, 2008 6:10 PM CST : I GIVE UP!!!!!
lusciousmile: You can't be 24!



Why do you say that?
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Abram Goshen, Ohio USA
Thu Dec 18, 2008 6:14 PM CST : I GIVE UP!!!!!
Hey jammin, know it well, and even got my ass out of this temptation nation, to go and cool down. Actually found a great friend in reading spiritual literature on my own. I didn't want to hear the I'm sorry's from friends, and family, while well intentioned, it just kept reminding me. Of my reading I began to see faults in myself, and even though it never justified her actions, it helped me let her go, and make friends I never would have made being married to her. Check this out, read, and listen, and think of your strengths that has you working so hard, http://www.connectingsingles.com/forum_0_88995_1/stronger_than_before.htm It's worth it buddy, I worked my ass off for that, which broke me, both in dollars, and in sense.
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jamminjamie74 panama city, Florida USA
Thu Dec 18, 2008 6:15 PM CST : I GIVE UP!!!!!
Laconian: Well don't tell her yet or better ask a specialist psychologist since these things require particular handling. So i guess you should seek some advice. Apart from that i adopt a fighting stance in life......Grieve as much asyou want, regret for all the things you want, see your mistakes, promise to yourself not to make them again...Then stop...Turn page and move forwards and don't look back. It doesn't worth it.


I dont have time to talk to anyone i get her tomorrow for Christmas visitation,

I have no clue where i went wrong unless it was bc of going out of town alot to work.. but i asked her about it and talked to her about it and she never told me she was unhappy. i gave her everthing she ever wanted and needed and then some...or so i thought
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