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You know jamm when, in real life, people are heart broken or sad for one thing or another i never try to comfort them the way most people do....I just feel that this way i think less of them, or feel pity on them...I just can't use the standard phrases "everything will improve, there was a reason for this etc"....Nothing wil change if you don't decide to change it...If you don't find the courage to be courageous and bold then nothing wil change. One will always be stuck into the mud and will wait for other people to help them.

......other than she just wasn't the right mommy for you??? There's not much you can explain to a 3yr. old

It was a compliment. Guess why!

Thanks i really appreciate that. i will give it a shot! gotta start somewhere i guess.

LOL!!! It seems that my mind is not working properly right now!! LOL!!! Thank you!

That thread Abram gave you link to is AWESOME! Seriously, take the time to listen to it......there's still hope!

All i can say is i am truely sorry for what you had been through..

I have never cheated on anyone...

and far as i know none of my bf's has either..

but i dont understand why someone just cant be upfront
and be honest to their other..and say things are not
working out..instead of taking the coward way out and
doing this to another human being..

Again i am sorry..

I am so afraid it is going to break her little heart just like it did daddy's and thats the last think i want for her. my daughter loved her like there was no tomorrow. i would go out of town and my dad would have her and i would call and talk to her and the first words out of her mouth was HI daddy, where's (insert her name).

Thanks,

Here's the words to that song that Abram recommended that you listen to.




STRONGER THAN BEFORE
by Janny Grein
Copyright 1988 Mighty Wind Music ASCAP

EVEN THO’ THE RAIN COMES DOWN
IT BRINGS LIFE INTO THE GROUND
AND I KNOW THE SUN WILL SHINE
AND THAT GIVES HOPE AGAIN
TO THIS HEART OF MINE
I KNOW GOD CAN HEAL ALL THINGS
BROKEN LIVES AND BROKEN WINGS
ONLY HE CAN MEND A HEART
THAT THIS WORLD HAS TORN APART

(CHORUS)
AS THE SEASONS MAKE THEIR TURN
THERE’S A LESSON HERE TO LEARN
BROKEN WINGS TAKE TIME TO MEND
BEFORE THEY LEARN TO FLY AGAIN
ON THE BREATH OF GOD THEY’LL SOAR
THEY’LL BE STRONGER THAN BEFORE

DON’T LOOK BACK INTO THE PAST
WHAT WAS FIRE NOW IS ASH
LET IT ALL BE DEAD AND GONE
THE TIME IS NOW FOR MOVIN’ ON

(CHORUS)

BROKEN WINGS TAKE TIME TO MEND
BEFORE THEY LEARN TO FLY AGAIN
ON THE BREATH OF GOD THEY’LL SOAR
THEY’LL BE STRONGER THAN BEFORE
ON THE BREATH OF GOD THEY’LL SOAR
THEY’LL BE STRONGER THAN BEFORE
ON THE BREATH OF GOD THEY’LL SOAR
THEY’LL BE STRONGER THAN BEFORE
ON THE BREATH OF GOD THEY’LL SOAR
THEY’LL BE STRONGER THAN BEFORE

ON THE BREATH OF GOD I’LL SOAR
I'll BE STRONGER THAN BEFORE

Your welcome..and i know it will be hard..

but by talking it out..it may get a little easier..

or maybe to understand why this happen

I only hope that this will come true!!

all i want to know is WHY. i honestly cannot figure out what i did wrong.. this girl was my everything.

Been there, had that happen. Found out in front of all our friends. Found out they all knew but me. Am so sorry you are going through this.

My friend ask yourself honestly...Must be a reason to everything?

....some friends they were!

[quote=jamminjamie74]I dont have time to talk to anyone i get her tomorrow for Christmas visitation, I have no clue where i went wrong unless it was bc of going out of town alot to work.. but i asked her about it and talked to her about it and she never told me she was unhappy. i gave her everthing she ever wanted and needed and then some...or so i thought

In that case, I would just tell her, "** (what ever the two of you called her) had to go away for awhile and we can talk about it at a later point in time".

I would really advise you to do this until you have had some time to let your heart heal and you can talk about this in a calmer frame of mind.

Later, with advice, you can fill her in. But at that time, no matter what, make sure your Daughter knows, the issues were your and Your gf's and in no way was she, (your Daughter) responsible for any thing

That's exactly right!

Thats some great advice. I think i will go with that. Thaks

You are welcome. Best wishes.